2007-07-17 03:30:18 · 32 answers · asked by marc g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends i'd think twice about dating the boss but a co-worker i have done in past and now were gettin married next july
2007-07-17 03:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Evonne M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people have got the right idea. Don't go down that road unless you're prepared to deal with the fall out. It can be really messy and make a pretty uncomfortable working environment, maybe even unbearable. Things could go either way so if your just out for a laugh or a bit of fun, there are easier ways. Weigh the consequences against how much you like the person, then make your mind up.
2007-07-17 04:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tamzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say " Don't mix business with Pleasure". Whatever. I am currently dating someone from work and it is working out great. The only thing is keep business, business and your love life your love life. I haven't had really any problems with my relationship. We live together and everything. If you really care about this person then it will work out but if you want just a fling it will never work. TRUST ME. Just remember you have to see the person everyday. If you have an argument it is better to resolve it before you go to work or it will be very awkward. hope my info helps. and good luck
2007-07-17 03:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse Wyatt's Mom 8/18/08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a "should" or "should not" issue, but when one chooses to do it, they need to realize there are additional challenges to the relationship.
If a couple has a fight, their attitudes are often carried to work. If they have to work together or see each other during the day, that's added stress.
If one or the other gets promoted or anything that appears to be special treatment (even if it isn't) it may be attributed to whom they are dating (sleeping with) and the water cooler talk could be unkind.
Office gossip either way will likely run rampant, and be worse if one or both parties were found to be very attractive or desirable to other people at work.
If ya do date someone at work, both of you need to do your best to keep work life and private life separate. No personal discussions at work (at least not in earshot of anyone else), no PDA or inappropriate touching or innuendos, etc. Keep it professional in front of coworkers and wait until you leave the office to get freaky.
2007-07-17 03:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but be very careful. I'm now marrying someone I met at work, but we kept it discreet for nearly a year, until we were both sure of the relationship and how we felt about each other. The problem occurs when you break up and it gets messy (and starts to affect your work) - hence why it might be sensible to keep work relationships low profile.
Having said that, I believe that an increasing amount of people are meeting their future partners at work these days. So if it's done carefully and you have genuine feelings for each other, then it can be a good idea!
2007-07-17 03:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Clare 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No and Yes...it totally depends upon the situation.
Let's say you date someone from work for the purpose of sexual gratification...things go bad and you cause a bad atmosphere at work...your job is now becoming miserable.
You date a person that you really are interested in ...you became good friends and eventually you got married...been married for 17 years.
The last part is me...she is the love of my life
2007-07-17 03:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tricky one really. Generally people say no, don't date someone at work but then statistics suggest that a high percentage of married couples met at work! Personally I think dating someone at work isn't as big an issue as everyone makes out. Lets face it, we spend more time with the people we work with than we do with anyone else in our lives.
2007-07-17 03:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you asked that question and I've been interested in reading the replies!
My boss and I really get on well as colleagues and have a good working relationship. I'm happy with that situation and in some ways don't want to "rock the boat" as it were but part of me wonders what it would be like if we could be "friends".
I've decided to just "let things be". I enjoy work and his company when I'm there and if our relationship develops further I'm sure we are both adult enough to handle it and if it doesn't develop at all I haven't lost anything.
I'm not sure what your situation is but I would advise not to rush into to anything.
2007-07-17 07:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jay Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you like the person. Usually its not a good idea as if it ends it can be akward having to spend all your time together, but if you really think you can make it work then you should go for it.
2007-07-17 03:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by MuffyMisfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, too much could go wrong. It really depends on if you plan to stay with the company for a long time or not. If you are planning on leaving soon I'd say go ahead if you planning on staying for a long time then I'd say no, what if you guys broke up and your personal drama becomes public knowledge, do you really wanna deal with that?
2007-07-17 03:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋