I am dating a cute guy for about 2 months. He offered me his key yesterday and I moved in. I almost fall in him, however, I think he does not feel the same way. The reason I am saying this because he can never be so passionate/wild in the bedroom which I consider a way to show your love to your loved one. Guys in earlier 20s should have a very strong sex drive, however, he is different. He never gave me two organisms one night. However, I was used to have three or at least two with my ex every time when we spent time together. I always felt unsatisfied and frustrated because sometimes I want to make love, he likes to say-it is time for bed. I understand that he needs to get up early (6:30am) and he works a lot(14 a day I-banking usually ) but my ex-boyfriends were also I-bankers and they acted very aggressive and never kept me sweaty in the bedroom. I felt so ignored and doubt my current bf's feelings towards me. He does not drink/party much, works hard, I love him! What should I do?
2007-07-17 03:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by Lla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's afraid of doing something wrong, or of suggesting something that you would find offensive. Seeing as you haven't been dating that long, maybe he doesn't know you well enough to be confident enough to explore. Just tell him to let himself go while you're together, and that you'd like it if you had more fun together while making love. :)
2007-07-17 03:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by ScarletRaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's obviously feeling you some how. It takes a lot for a guy to give up house keys. Make it interesting! Plan something fun or just ask him what he likes. Maybe when he is on his way home (make sure it's early cause he needs his sleep) surprise him with a skippy outfit, wine, music, and a little mouth to lower front action.
; )
2007-07-17 03:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Carinangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like such a nice guy! Its because you've been used to so many guys who have a uncontrolled sex drive your expecting him to have one too!
He sounds like hes less experienced in the 'sex'area than you and your past relationships have been.
It sounds to me as though he also doesn't want you to think he's in it for the sex! Which I can add, a lot of guys when it comes down to it are.
Teach him, let your woman insict tell him what to do, don't obviousl sit him down and get aout notebooks! But if he does something right say' Thts nice' and hel get the picture!
Good luck!
2007-07-17 03:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Foxylittlekitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe be more discriminating when you choose to move in with a guy. Maybe get to know someone longer than 2 months. Maybe concentrate on finding a husband instead of shacking up...
2007-07-17 03:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just too busy. or at least give him SOME credit for working so hard lol. no but seriously, stop comparing him to ur ex because that just makes everything worse! he is himself, ur ex is someone totally different! no man can be the same...if you're so frustrated, just tell him it's not working! maybe he'll try to please u the next time....
good luck.
2007-07-17 03:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM HE'S NOT IN TO YOU ONLY FOR THE SEX.........................I'M SORRY FIND A REAL MAN THAT'S IN TO YOU AND CARES AND LOVES YOU YOU NEED TOBE LOVED IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE BE HAPPY NOT USED I HOPE YOU FIND WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR IF YOU GET NO SPARK OR NO PASSION MOVE ON HE'S NOT THE ONE FOR YOU WHEN YOU FIND MR.RIGHT THERE WILL BE SPARKS FLYING ALL OVER THE PLACE AND YOU WILL BE SO HAPPY GOOD LUCK
2007-07-17 03:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aries if ou want to talk hot and uncontrollable. All fire signs would be good for that type of sex. If you want to talk romantic it would probably be Cancers or a water sign.
2016-04-01 08:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing do in it. if you are not satisfy you can go. or you love him and adjust life. every man had never same sexual feelings
2007-07-17 03:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to your self.. sex is all the life.. but he is actually cares for you a lot.. so dont mistake.. him... he will be back to you.. soon..
2007-07-17 03:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats just the way he is, there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-07-17 03:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋