My question is would you date a stripper? now most guys say they would but i am being serious would you actually have a realationship with one take her to meet your family stripping is just a job it doesnt make the person and if you say yes would you try to get her to stop stripping after a while of dateing please honest answers
2007-07-17 03:16:38 · 27 answers · asked by sara24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first thanks for all the feed back i really just wanted to know what guys thought about this subject but the funny thing about it is they have no problems coming to see me dance but when its a realationship is a big no well it doesnt matter cuz i am not looking for anyone i love what i do i make good money and its a fun job and just because i strip doesnt make me a bad person once people get to know me they find out that dam theres more to me then stripping but i just wanted to thank you all for replying
2007-07-17 03:41:33 · update #1
i would not date a stripper at all. watch one yeah,date one hell no
2007-07-17 03:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by kevlar1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Strippers are generally not the kind of girl you take home to mom, unless mom is also stripping or used to. Don't get me wrong, being a stripper doesn't make you a bad person, but where is your intimacy with your partner when your job is arousing other men for money. In the long run the "sharing"
weakens the trust between partners and arguments arise from it. Would I ask someone I had a relationship with to quit?
Of course. There are hundreds of jobs, they may not pay well, but the pride in saying, I am worth more than a $20 lap dance, can be better than money. After all isn't happiness and love better than money?
2007-07-17 10:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by ampsto_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes by all means... Strippers are HOT. Anyway as long as the person in question was faithful in the end of the day thats what counts..
Most guys would be hung up about dating a stripper because they are insecure and are scared that the "stripper" would cheat on them !!
2007-07-17 10:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I would date her,and if she enjoyed her job I wouldn't try to persuade her to stop. I'm very opened minded,you're right when you say that stripping is just a job. People shouldn't be defined by their profession,there's much more to a person then that.
2007-07-17 10:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Troy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be really hard for me considering I had trust issues...I would deff. give it a try though. As you said a job doesn't make a person. You could just be doing it for the money and if that's the only reason and you wouldn't cheat and my trust would grow eventually. It'd be rough, but I think everyone deserves a chance right?
2007-07-17 10:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by smokadacrais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that would depend alot on her personality. Some women can strip as a job and be fine with it, others get caught up in it and end up doing more than they need to to make money. I think it would be very difficult.
2007-07-17 10:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by writenimage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here you go... I was divorced in 2006 and I met a girl while the guys brought me to a go go bar. She is a beautiful person and treated me like a king. She is loving, loyal and honest but yes she is a stripper.
I hung out with her a while and because I have two small kids and I was fighting for joint custody, I had to break up with her in fear that if their mother found out, I would be in less a, position to get my kids.
I broke up with her and I hurt that girl and aside from what she did to survive and pay bills, she was a beautiful person so yes I would and have dated a go go girl
2007-07-17 10:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would date a stripper. Would I ask her to quit? It would depend on the environment she worked in. If she was in a seedy club that was a safety risk - for sure.
If I dated her and learned to trust her, it wouldn't be an issue (except for personal safety of course). If I didn't trust her I would probably ask her to quit, but that really wouldn't solve the trust issue.
2007-07-17 10:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd date her but if i ever went to see you work then i'd probably feel differently with other guys. Plus it's too close to flirting so i'd try to find another job that would suit you. I couldn't see havin a LT relat. with a stripper.
2007-07-17 10:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by placid_acid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Striping is a job ..it doesnt reflect a person or that persons character i would problay date one but i would try to get her to stop striping simply because i wouldnt want to share
2007-07-17 10:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt bother me a bit. But for some men they would get really insecure or jelious and they would try to make you quit. But for me I wouldnt have a problem. As long as you came home to me everynight.
2007-07-17 10:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by J22401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋