why do some women think its ok to tell tell married men their problems?

Question

i know that married men talk on emails all the time to women and female work colleges but why do these emails cross the line and divert on to a personnel level what posesses someone who they dont really know to spill out all their problems or seek advice on a personel point

Answer 1

They are sluts....they like to cause problems for people who are happy...they know men are weak and they can get attention from them...did i mention that they are sluts? oh yeah...they are.

Answer 2

Why do some married men think it's ok to hit on unmarried women? Why do they cross the line?

Generally, the women are seeking advice and consider married men 'safe'. I've been hit on by so many married men, that I totally wouldn't even bother. Sure, I think some of those women maybe want something more. However, many men are the opposite. They are seeking a thrill of either actual sex or something like that to turn them on later. Some of my best advice came from married men, but I don't typically don't seek out their advice for personal problems. More like how-to-fix-something problems.

Answer 3

Im married and my best guy friend is married too. I talk to him about issues that are personal and he gives me advice from a male's point of view and it's very very helpful. I trust him rather than a single guy because when I tell him about relationship issues he never thinks I am telling him this so he can assume I am about to end my relationship with my guy and he would have a chance and that he knows there is no leading on or anything. They are safe. Now I know thats not always the case. Some women get off on married men hitting on them and wanting them. They think of it as more of a challenge. It's pretty sad!

Answer 4

I don't agree with the "he's one of the girls" comment. I think some women are trashy, men too. Women tend to show weakness to a man, hopeing that he'll feel needed. Knowing that some married men just need that to feel needed. They spill there guts about how rotten their life is or horrible their husband treats them, in hopes of enacting the Lancelot phenomon or "the knight in shining armor", response. A man can't help but love helping the damsel in distress. Anything that a man can't write or read from the opposite sex with his wife standing over his shoulder probably should not of been written. This is a dangerous area and has the tendancy to lead to an extra marital affair.

Answer 5

Some people will talk to (or write to) any one who will "listen" and having sympathy from someone of the opposite sex is an ego boost.

Men do it too by telling other women their tale of woe about their marriage and wife doesn't like sex, etc etc etc (if I had a nickle for every time I've heard THAT story...)

Sometimes people just want an ear/shoulder and other times they are actually after more than that...but all it takes it the person on the other end to say "Sorry you're having issues, but I'm not the appropriate person to discuss that with".

Answer 6

It depends on what he/she's talking about with them... It's probably easier to talk to someone that isn't connected to him or the situation, but he wants a woman's view, or vice versa. He may be afraid of being judged by you. Do you really listen to him? (I'm not trying to turn this around on you). You should talk to him about how this makes you feel, and you should both work on communicating with one another. Don't be paranoid, but at the same time- he shouldn't be getting close or forming relationships with women that could turn into an adulterous relationship.

Some women are just evil and this is their way to snag a guy and manipulate them. There are a lot of men out there that will play into it, and become their knight in shining armor; helping them with their problems, growing close to one another, and then cheat.

Answer 7

one among those good kind of clarification why and combination of them i could be right here for an hour attempting to record all of them, so enable's get all the way down to the nitty gritty: egocentric, lackung any actual basic experience and solid judgment interior the topic and delusional. egocentric because of the fact they do no longer care who all is harm via their abode wreckinhg, spouse, babies and different prompt relatives. Destroying a house and familyperiod. lacking basic experience: The married guy cheated on his spouse, lied, deceived had to place forth some actual attempt to accomplish that and the abode wrecker does not think of he will do one or all of them to her? advantages a cheater with a dating? With marriage, with babies? Delusional because of the fact they somewhat have faith they are able to turn a cheater right into a solid husband and have faith that there is no reprocutions for the two the abode wrecker and cheating husbands incorrect doings. The spouse and or babies are not going everywhere and his attitude is going to become tremendously nasty as quickly as he's paying toddler help, alimony collectively as attempting to maintain a roof over his head. he is going to have a many a days whilst he thinks extra suited of his determination and could better than possibly take it out on the abode wrecker and particular to return to his spouse. Like I pronounced i could shop going, yet what's the factor. abode wreckers international think of they are going to be the single to conquer the percentages, to stay thankfully ever after with an adulterer. And yet time and time back that's shown the percentages are so stacked by contrast variety of dating that one has a extra suited probability hitting a 10 million dollar jackpot on a slot device in Vegas.

Answer 8

They often want a male perspective and feel that married men are experienced in relationships so could potetially offer good advice. They also feel that because a man is married he is "safe" to talk to . Generally speaking, he's not going to take advantage of a woman in a vulnerable situation or want to be anything more than a friend because he is married.

Answer 9

It depends on who you ask. My personal opinion is they're seeking something more than just a "shoulder to cry on." I personally wouldn't dream of spilling my personal issues to anyone BUT my husband because I know he wouldn't be happy about that. It can lead to nothing good.. maybe even what could be referred to as an "emotional affair." It's completely different if it was a friend of hers BEFORE the marriage. I'm talking about spilling your guts to someone you "just met" at work. Not a good scenario.

Answer 10

I would say because they know that the guy isn't going to try to hit on them or judge them since they are already taken so its easier to open up to them? OR.. Because they want your husband and when he's married then there is no commitment.. they can do what they want and not have to worry about the guy begging for them back.. sounds bad but no strings attached! Could be a couple different things.. Good luck!

Answer 11

Dont fornicate says the Lord. Dont move near the line of fornication. Talking to a stranger can be cosly. Take time to make friends because we all have different history. Our perception to life is complex.
God's regulation suffice we human being, but we think we are wiser than God and when we suffer for our error of judgement, we still blame God. We are failing because we are disobedient- to God's legislation.
Marriage is a sacred isntitution. God knows this- infact He legislated on this. But we oftentimes feel we can try something new and illegal and came out clean without harm. But most of the time, we get hurt. I watched the film, the 'unfaithful' and cant help seeing myself making such silly mistakes. We need to go back to God and reference Him for all time.
You are right Janet.