Singles & Dating - 9 July 2007

i'm never going to be with him and i never even really was with him but i was so attracted to him that now i'm not attracted to anyone anymore because its not him. i regret that i got intimate with him and have all this pain and longing in my head. ill never see him again and i dont think i would really want to but... cant forget him anyway.

this is stupid, irrational. how do i get over this?

2007-07-09 12:14:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that intelligent, opinionated women post Paris Hiltonesque pictures of themselves, when they know they look nothing of the kind?

2007-07-09 12:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by 1977rocks 2

When it comes to guys being bi / gay, i've been told that its impossible for them to become straight again? Even if they do, they will become bi / gay again? If you know what I mean.

Is it true?

Or was that person lying? lol.

Thanks for your help in advance!

2007-07-09 12:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by Cynz 2

I can't seem to have a good reason. But he'd smoke the reef everyday of the week if he could. He's already done it 3 days a week. He's been smoking a long time. and his last girlfriend dumped him all the time cause of it. and he's known as a stoner in my school. i just think its a wrong way to spend your time. he's even cried cause he couldn't smoke. he refuses to stop and says no one can stop him.
HELP.

2007-07-09 12:03:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This one. http://www.myspace.com/iluvjmac

Or This one. http://file017b.bebo.com/6/large/2007/06/30/22/2478748152a4839598492l.jpg


I know they are the same pic but does the black and white or the color one look better?

2007-07-09 11:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ugh! do they think Im easy!?
Ugh! do they think Im easy!?
I never had a boyfriend ever, I am a decent good girl and a devouted follower of my religion. Anyways, this guy comes to me and starts flirting and I do the same and then this other guys come and starts to join for no reason and I dont even talk to him. Like, why are they coming after me do they think I am easy cuz all their friends stare at us and smile and giggle and what not. I mean I am a mature girl for my age, am fourteen. I know I need to not be involved with them or flirt with them but the teacher doesnt care! I am fourteen. I think they might think I'm easy-what do you think? Oh yeah and another third guy joins in and my friend (girl) comes and then the teacher breaks us up.

2007-07-09 11:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1

well my bf is away on vacation...n just recently he read a comment a guy left me on myspace sayin that i looked beatifull.....well that guy is only my friend which i haven't seen in a long time, n i don even know where he saw me....nways my bf read that n accused me of cheatin on him wit that guy....
i told him d truth n he didn't believe me .. wat should i do????now he tells me he has 2nd thoughts bout me...should i brake up wit him b4 he brakes up wit me?

2007-07-09 11:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by bgirl stacey!!!! 3

He works 2nd shift and I work during the day. So I never get to see him. I have a very high sex drive, and whenever I want it, I have to BEG him for it! Sometimes I have to wonder if he is cheating on me. Whenever we do have sex, he always wants it doggie style.

He could easily get away with it since I'm not home from 7:30am-5:30 pm. He is also bi so he could have a boyfriend instead of another girlfriend! What do you think?

(Oh yeah, It's not low testosterone levels, he was tested for it last month because he is losing his hair at 20 years old)

2007-07-09 11:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this weird or WHAT????? 10 POints for decent mature answer?
the girl i live with is really starting to freak me out...its as if everything i do she has to mimic and im finding it a bit suffocating....i moved in to her house about 4 months ago...anyway for the first time in 6 months had a date and because she did not have a date she literally went on the internet and found any guy like a mad rush, there have been many a times i have not had a date and been on my own and because this one time i had a date its like she had to prove she could get one too and she is 30! Now she has decided she want to change careers and try what i do for a living and she is even hell bent on working for the same company?? Im 26 so i dont know why she feels the need to be this way,, why do you think she is behaving like this??? Do you think she has issue should i speak to her about it how do approach the situation has this ever happened to anyone else???

2007-07-09 11:42:48 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do so many guys like women wih fake breasts, fake orange tan, fake nails and fake blonde hair? Does anyone know the psychological reasons behind male attraction to ths type of woman?
Why does this particular group of features, real or fake, attract men? What does this type represent to them?

2007-07-09 11:41:37 · 15 answers · asked by Nat R 2

I've been dating him a year.The baby is over a year and he took a paternity test to see if he was the father of his ex-girlfriend's son. The test says he is. He says he wants nothing to do with her and he still wants me in his life. I will see if I can still continue my relationship with him but there are no guarentees. I need advice from women and men who have been in a similar situation...

2007-07-09 11:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by Whitney C 2

Saturday was my birthday.So on sunday one of my guy friends (who I had not seem in years) came to visit his mother and came to church and he brought a chain with an I love you pendant.I showed it to my boyfriend immediately and he seemed fine with it.

Later in the day he told me to give up the chain or give him up. My friend knows that I have a boyfriend,so I don't see why he is so upset with just a friendly gift.

I love my boyfriend but I am not going to give back a gift.Guys please tell me why he is so upset and girls what would you do.

It is not weird that the pendant says I love you.All my friends (even girls) says that to me I am easy to love.

2007-07-09 11:34:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 11:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by P.Jay 1

I like this guy. I see him almost every day, and how he acts around other people is what I have been looking for. His sister said that I should tell him in person,but i'm to shy. I don't really ever talk to him, but once when I did, he was really nice and joked around. I can see myself talking to him, but telling him?!?!?!?!? I tried writing a letter, but I decided not to give it to him. He doesn't have an email. I hate talking to people on the phone. What should I do?

2007-07-09 11:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jesus freak! 2

I want to say all of the right things to this guy. I want my body langauge to agree! But at the same time I don't want him to know that I'm interested until he lets it be known he is and is available. so...how do I flirt? I'm a natural flirt, but how do I get him to notice me and want to flirt with me without coming on too hard?

2007-07-09 11:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been talking to a guy online for 6 months....and i love him alot and he tells me he loves me too everyday we talk for hours together and are really good friends too.....but yesterday he asked me to send him my pic and i told him i will send him my pic as soon as he tells me his nickname.. and he said u go first and i told him to go first and then he said if i don't send him the pic first then he won't talk to me and i got really mad at how can he even think about that...then i sent him the pic and was mad and told him how can he even think about leaving me and he said he was just kidding (while in hte msg he wrote he was serious) then he said he was emotionally blackmailing me....i got so mad when i read that. then i told him that i still thought he was serious and now he is mad that i didn't believe him and i don't know who's fault it is but i m kind of blaming myself for it but then i think if he can stay without talking ot me then why can't i stay without talking to him too

2007-07-09 11:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by DeSIKHalsa 2

2007-07-09 11:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2

are they're any other guys who don't like to? and why not? I go down on him,ANY TIME HE WANTS. I just want the same thing in return

2007-07-09 11:17:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean like want me to be with him more. I mean how do I arouse him in a way?

2007-07-09 11:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u fall crazy in love with someone who
then breaks your heart can you love again another person with the same passion and completely let go of your true love?
some say true love only comes once..
if so then what is true love?
and how does one know when in love..
because if u can define it, then its not love anymore
but a comparison to the literature, films and music..

2007-07-09 11:10:43 · 11 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2

Why do you do things you don't mean? Why do you say girls are beautiful when they're not and say you'll call when you won't?

2007-07-09 11:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am totally crushing on this guy and i no that he likes me back.
i invited him to go to the river to hang out and he said that he has to work but he will try to find time and he will ask his parents.
i am friends with his ex girlfriend and she said that she would call him to see what is up.
she called me back to say that he was definatly gonna ask his parents if he could come.
y didnt he say that to me?

2007-07-09 11:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf are still Vs. in Jan. i turn 18 and i really want to have sex with him and i know he wants to have it with me... i have read stuff about 'it' so i know the stuff i need know but... i need to talk with some one and my friends just sat to 'go for it' and my mom always says 'wait untill you are married ' i need your help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-09 11:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lied to a boy about everything, and he now really likes me, I feel so fake.. What do I do?

2007-07-09 11:06:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

read last questions i wrote incase know one knows what i am talking about. im hurt because we were being together like if we were going to be together again and there was times when i asked her stuff about things i found out. she just lied to me for the past month. and well it hurts because i feel like its my fault. she lost it and she told me that shes very sorry. totaly regrets it. we both want to be with each other again but not now. we are both focusing on school and thtas fine. but im miserabe because i really want to forget about it and be happy again. i know we are both going to start over again. but its hard to trust her now and believe her. and its really hard to accept wat happen. so i need help on how to gget over it and still be hapy again with her. ive been so depressed. its really hard and i cry everyday. im trying to understand her also she,told me that she though of me when it happen and she was so confused at that moment.she told me that she wouldnt lose it untilmarrig

2007-07-09 11:01:25 · 2 answers · asked by cky_alex89 1

i was at the skating ring w/ my boyfriend and my boyfriends friend sayed i had a nice rack

2007-07-09 10:57:31 · 21 answers · asked by junehout 2

I and my partner decided to have a break from each other since yesterday because we have been having problems with our relationship.since last month we have been constantly arguing because of issues such as respect and trust.i have been going out with him for two years but know the fights have been worse and i recently slapped him durin a heated argument of which he slapped me back.so we hav decided to take a break from each other..and conclude wen 1 is ready to talk simply call the other.how shud i handle this break and how and when is best to get bak together??should we negotiate on some issues (like i feel he treats me differently around his friends(with no respect))or should i just move on with my life without him?

2007-07-09 10:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by kapatikana 1

Especially if she dates a black man. Do whites or white men get offended by this? Talk about it.

2007-07-09 10:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, why do you think that if a girl thinks she looks average, she is lying?

2007-07-09 10:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3

me and this really kute guy used to date a couple weeks but we broke up. the thing is that we broke up over da internet and my friend was the one that was talking to him and i just read the last message that he wrote which was like don't talkt o me no more we are over.. i have no idea what my friend said to him buz she delted the messages... and just the other day my friend hacke dinto his myspace and he thinks i did it so now he won't talk to me... I WANT HIM BACK.... i just can't get him out of my head... i dream about him all da time ... he says that he dont like me no more but i know that he does becuase of the way he looks at me... what should i do, i really want him back.. sum1 plz help me ????

2007-07-09 10:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by Devi T 1