Singles & Dating - 4 July 2007

This question is for white girls:
(First of all I speak perfect English and have been living in the U.S since I was 2 weeks old when I was adopted by my white parents.)
As far as looks go it just seemed like for the most part white girls prefer the 5’10-6 something blue or green eyed, blond or brunette white guys (and the average Hispanic man in the U.S is 5’6) or Black or mixed guys. Ever since I was a little kid, I’ve honestly never heard them say anything positive about Hispanic guys, as far as being attracted to them. All I have ever heard is negative stuff. Every time dating Hispanic guys in general has ever been brought up in front of me, all I’ve ever heard said is they’re dirty, I hate them because one of them said this or did that to me one time, they’re ugly, they’re too gangsta, they stink, they’re grungy, no one wants their immigrant dick, they’re disgusting, I like white boys, they’re too short, eww, hell no but a lot of times just no. I could name at least a dozen girls off the top of my head that I know, some my friends. Even one of my good friends told me she is afraid of being raped by Mexican (Hispanic generalization) guys, which surprises me that she could just say that, right in front of me. The only time I’ve ever heard positive things being said is when they’re talking about mixed, half or three quarters white and half or a quarter Hispanic guys or they mistake them for being Hispanic like Antonio Banderas (partially Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Enrique Igleseus (half Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Jessie Metcalf (Italian) ect. The census say’s only 834,000 out of 40.4 million white women in the U.S are involved in serious relationships with Hispanic men; that’s only about 2%. I mean sure they might like you if they get to know you, just most of the time it seems, not like that. Where I live 99% of the girls are white so I don’t really have much of a choice. I’m not bitching, I’m not trying to make anybody feel sorry for me, **** that, it is what it is. All I’m asking is do attractive white girls really prefer, white men way more than Mestizo men?

2007-07-04 13:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a cute boyfriend 2 years ago but my friend was so jealous of me, so she told him that i was on a sex triangule so he broke-up with me. next day they were dating out!! then i had another boyfriend she was so cuter than the other and he was rich, my "friend" tell him that i was taking his money so he broke-up with me and she broke-up with his boyfriend to have this guy, and it happened.. then i was single, and my other friend did a partyand i knew a cute guy and we were dating so she did the same thing.
and i have 3 more boyfriends and she steal them .... and she will be doing the same thing.
what should i do??

2007-07-04 13:39:26 · 39 answers · asked by fashionista :) 3

my best friend is 20 years old.
she's not your ordinary 20 year old.
she has the best personality and is extremely mature. she is so wise. & i am so serious about all of this. if you were to meet her you would think she is the best person.

now she had been talking with this man who is very highly respected because he is a 1st drill sergeant in the marines and he used to play pro football. he's an amazing guy. and very, very attractive. but he has a 22 year old daughter and a 18 year old son.

they seem perfect together, but my friend is scared out of her mind that the age difference will ruin things. they are perfect together though. it's not your typical old guy young girl relationship. its different!

oh yeah... they are not in a relationship yet, but they talk everyday and they go on dates and makeout, but that's it i think. they talk about it all the time but my friend is scared. and i wanna help her.

so please give me helpful advice!

2007-07-04 13:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think so, do you?

2007-07-04 13:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought I was over him, but I'm not completly. I still think of him a lot... when I wake up, before bed, and I have dreams about him still liking me. (I don't know if he likes me still or not). How can I get my mind off him? Thinking about something else isn't that easy because he slips back in my mind somehow.

2007-07-04 13:25:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need as many answers as I can get! Both guy and girl are college aged in this hypothetical scenario, LOL.

Details helpful, be detailed! Any past experiences helpful too! Chatting up a guy in the gym seems like a sticky situation, especially if he is pumping weights and whatnot!

Go on!

2007-07-04 13:18:59 · 7 answers · asked by ultra _ girl 3

My last girl started making out with someone behind my back just weeks after telling me she wanted to be with me forever. Now she won't let me get over her. I've told her I need to move on but she keeps texting me and wants to be friends. I've tried spending time with her as "friends" but it hurts too much and she acts like she could care less. All I want is to meet someone I can have a long term relationship with. I'm a shy and private person and I don't like the idea of starting over :(

2007-07-04 13:08:13 · 24 answers · asked by what? 5

2007-07-04 13:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5

Im completely fine with my sexuality but its funny I get alot of gay guys sending me messages on myspace. Also my girl friend has started making comments about how some times she thinks I would make a great gay guy. I help her pick out clothes, help her with her hair and give her facials. What do you guys and gals thinks?

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2007-07-04 13:01:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHY? do men only like to date girls who are wild,party,drink and smoke, WHY? do you men only like women who are high maintenance and not ready to settle down? WHY? do you men only like to put up with such female who brings you pain.
OPEN YOUR EYES AND LOOK AROUND YOU, you have some woman who are not like the ones above listed, and you don't want them, WHY? some would be loyal, commited and respect but yet thats not what you want, WHY? some are christian and would make a good girlfriend, wife and maybe mothers to your children, BUT! you don't want them, those who bring you drama you want, goal diggers you want. the ones who would give you the stars and the moon you don't want. I dont understand, it makes me think that YOU ALL ARE CONFUSED. I am a good woman, and I tried to help a man who I spoke of above, and he always tell me the drama in his life with a woman who fits all the above negative. I would have taken him in but thats his life. and he missed out on a good thing to

2007-07-04 13:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by Warrior For Christ JESUS 1

I really need ot know please.

2007-07-04 12:59:10 · 18 answers · asked by La-La 1

i dont want to meet her in bars or grocery stores

2007-07-04 12:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

If it does, why aren't there more horny werewolves?

2007-07-04 12:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just by imagining (sometimes), by doing "it"
i know i would feel bad doing it.
3 reasons not to do it:
1. Religion
2. Disease
3. Guilt
4. Pride/purity

2007-07-04 12:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there any way for us women to know what your intentions are? How do we know when you're being honest/honorable? And how are we supposed to know whether or not you're serious about us?

2007-07-04 12:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

-i never knew till recently when he accidentally said his age. At first when he asked my age.I also asked him and he said the same. now , he told me he rounded up his age and their is one month we same age was born january 1987 and i february 1986 thats his view that we are same age, but still we are 1 year apart.
-he is a 4th year in university,went to school early, has good job.
-he is nice,loving,caring and sounds mature but still .
-I feel embarrased by age since am the older one as a gal.
-Am afraid its gonna be aproblem i hav never thought i will ever date a guy younger than me and i always wanted a guy atleast 2yrs older or same age with me.
-I told him that i feel wiered but for him he has no problem with age, he says age is a number but i think its more than a number.
-My brother dated a girl older that him (5yrs older) and everthing went wrong so am afraid to follow same path
-Please advice me becoz i love him but i think we are not compatible in terms of age

2007-07-04 12:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by laka1 1

my crush seems to be interested in me but every time i ask him he won't get with me.

2007-07-04 12:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by iluvmyself 1

Do you prefer french kissing or normal?

2007-07-04 12:36:33 · 25 answers · asked by danielle 4

So I like this girl Janelle, but I want to approach it in the right way. I'm friendly with her brother most of the time, and I wanted to ask him for his permission to ask his sister out. How would I go about doing this. What would I say to him?

2007-07-04 12:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by Peter M 1

i havnt seen my bf for 10 months now because were living abroad! so im goin with my family next friday, should i leave as a surprise so that when i get their he can come in at my aunts house as usual & just find me their or should i telll him on wednesday?? my family doesnt know about him except my aunt, so what do you guys think? what would you rather?? what would he like more?? xxxx

2007-07-04 12:28:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it a sign of disrespect when your boyfriend masturbates right next to you when are are going to go to sleep? what should i tell him?

2007-07-04 12:24:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend told me that for guys, sex is just sex. It's just an instinct. So my question is, do guys get aroused just looking at any pretty girl or is it essential for most guys to have it if there are emotions involved? Also, will they get the same kind of satisfaction having sex with the one they love and someone without emotional attachment?

2007-07-04 12:21:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

That is the type of relationship he wants. Emotionally committment with him, but physical things with other guys. Maybe it's called open marriage. He gets turned on by his girl being with other guys and then telling him about it. Isn't this weird? If a guy likes you, he doesn't want you to be with other guys does he?

2007-07-04 12:20:35 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-04 12:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this shy yet popular guy in the neighborhood.
When he talks to this girl he'll look at her unless if there's something to fiddle with or move, in which case he's too "preoccupied" to look at her, which is almost always the case.
He never asks her questions nor initiates conversations, which usually end in awkward silences.
He rarely smiles at her, keeping a serious face.
As soon as they say bye, he disappears.
Yet when they see each other from across the street they stare at each other without saying hi or waving, or sometimes he would "just happen to" turn his back to her and look the other way at the moment they would see and pass each other.
Their conversations together are polite.
When they're in a crowd he's either looking her way or with his back completely to her.
When she asked him once about a certain topic, he offered to give her one of his old magazines on it. When she asked for it 2 weeks later, he said his friend has it.
What's going on?

2007-07-04 11:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

girl is 20 and the man is 27

2007-07-04 11:31:04 · 20 answers · asked by susan 1

what is the one physical thing that turns you on the most. my last bf said when i clawed his back that it drove him nuts. what about you?

2007-07-04 11:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, me and my Boyfriend have been going out for a while and i LOVE him but i dont know if i can trust him, he broke up with me while i went on a trip my with mom and now he wants to get back toghther, what should i do, beacuse i like another guy!!

2007-07-04 11:22:05 · 26 answers · asked by avril Q 1

we have been fighitng for years and things keep getting worse. they yell, call me names, and my dad thinks its fine to hit me and punch me when i give him attitude back because i am sick of living at home. and infront of other relatives or my friends they are so sweet to me its sickeing but behind closed doors, its hell.
i have oly 1000$, and not house, nothing. i want to room with someone from college but i have no college money to pay or anything.
so i have to start planning everything. I have SOME financial aid but i should consider loans, etc. what belongings should i bring with me (cant bring furniture because its too much of a hassel and i am leaving without y family knowing so i might have only 2 hours to leave the house and pack...any suggestions?

2007-07-04 11:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2

I have seen so many teens and tweens post this question, it is beginning to make me sick. When did you lose your virginity and was it the right time? What are your views on this issue?

2007-07-04 11:16:10 · 25 answers · asked by Whitney W 1