Singles & Dating - 21 May 2007

I always seem to be attracted to girls with boyfriends and go after them. I talk to a girl I like a lot, try to hang around with them, joke with them, flirt occasionally and then BOOM, what do I find out, they have a boyfriend. I don't find this out until someone else tells me or I find out for myself of course. It's caused me many Goddammits and I would really like to know why I am always attracted to these girls and even if they have boyfriends...what to do about it. Cause you know I'm a playa...haha, yeah, so what do you guys think?

2007-05-21 06:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by Chris G 2

I have had my nails done for years because I have always thought it was sexy and looked nice plus it shows I take care of myself. BUT a guy friend of mine told me that he thinks that they are vain and a waste of money...what do you think? (I am 31 btw)

2007-05-21 06:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by supergoober 4

This guy and I are talking (not dating) and he said he was interested in me. Soon it became a connection and we started to like eachother. We would txt everyday and even had cute nicknames for eachother. I started to have feelings for him. Then I didn't have my phone for about a month, but I used my friends phone and talked to him sparingly. When I got my phone back I made sure to txt him and we were fine but he said he was busy. He then asked a question about my sex life and I told him the honest answer and it seemed like he was upset. He stopped calling me baby and stuff. So then I would text him but he would be busy. And the other day, I asked him if he still liked me and he said, "I think I still like you, I mean we haven't really talked in a month" What does that mean...that he doesn't like me anymore, or that he moved on? What should I ask or say to find out the truth?

2007-05-21 06:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by Me nutrit Me destruit 3

A couple of my friends have dated black guys & said the sex is either the best they had or the worst becuz it hurt too much (cuz they were bigger down there than any other guy they'd been with). One of my friends is married to a black guy & he's a great guy . I've been asked out by some black guys but I always say no. I'm just not attracted to any black guy at all. I think there are some good looking black guys, but I just can't see myself actually doing stuff with them like kissing or especially have sex with one. My friends tell me I don't know what I'm missing & when they talk about their experiences with black guys I'm totally left out of the conversation since I've never been with a black guy in that way. Kinda makes me feel like just going ahead & getting with one just so I won't be left out, but I'm just not attracted to any of the black guys that have been interested in me. I don't have any interest in knowing what it's like to be with one either. Should I go ahead & get w/ 1?

2007-05-21 05:58:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found a necklace in my jelery box that one of my ex-boyfriends gave me years ago. Its a heart shaped diamond. It looks real, but i'm not sure. Does anyone know how to tell the difference between a real and fake diamond? I'm excited I hope its real! lol

2007-05-21 05:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by Simon 2

I met a guy on the internet. He lives about 75 miles from me. We have sent each other numerous emails and talked on the phone for hours at a time. We haven't met in person but he said that he wanted to get to know me from the inside out not the outside in. He said that I am easy to talk to and that he is falling in love with me. I think that it is sweet but I am a little nervous because I did meet him on the internet. He sounds like a really nice guy. Should I pursue this or should I leave it alone?

2007-05-21 05:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by donjour6961 2

how old were you when you lost your virginity x

2007-05-21 05:48:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

was on top, she got so excited that she crapped a small load right there on the sheets; when i found out i just laughed my butt off, i couldnt stop.....and then she got embarrased, started crying and then left the room. Now she doesnt want to talk to me. What do i do?

2007-05-21 05:44:56 · 24 answers · asked by fahd_dogg 3

I met this guy who is in the military. We are both expats in a foreign country. We've been dating for a month and everything's perfect. Our dates were romantic, we have amazing conversations that would go on for hours and so far, he's a complete gentleman (we're not intimate yet). I'm starting to fall hard when he suddenly told me he's leaving at the end of this month. He's been transfered to another country. I'm devastated. I am waiting for him to broach the subject of long distance relationship but so far, he is saying he doesn't want one. What's puzzling is that he is asking if its possible for me to apply to another company thats based in his own country. He also told me he is planning to come back but he is not making any promises because its really hard. Although we both know our relationship is going nowhere, he still wants to see me until he leaves. I'm so confused! Is it because of our difficult situation that he wont commit or he is simply not just into me?

2007-05-21 05:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my girl goes off on a trip to visit a friend. Her friends friend a man is organizing her a place to stay. She talks again about he is her friends friend. Then I have to drive all night to go pick her up because things have gone sour between her and the guy who she rented the place from. While I was on the phone she said 'thats it I am never meeting anybody from myspace again' meaning she met him on myspace. She was talking passionately and made a slip up revealing that.. Now when I arrive after driving forever, she is very affectionate and is now punting the story that he was her girl pals friend. I did not call her up on her little slip up about myspace.

So its her friends friend, then she met him on myspace, then back to her friends friend.

Does this sound suspicious?

2007-05-21 05:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by john g 1

We have dated for 5 yrs and I told him I was not interested in sex with a man who could not committ. He was really angry and said he didnt care and to get out.
I am tired of this. I have dont a lot for him and am just fed up. I cannot see sustaining a relationship with someone who is dragging their feet and living in the past. He is still hung up on his ex wife after 6 yrs. She is re married and has totally moved on.
What should I do to help myself move on?

2007-05-21 05:41:00 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I want to say something to make her feel better, shes got bronchitus, or atleast to show her how much I care about her and that I dont like seeing her this way

2007-05-21 05:38:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I've been in a few long term relationships and I find the ones that are usually the most fun or most 'successful' are the ones where me and the other person dont spend every waking moment together. I mean, we see each other a few nights a week 2-4, hang out.. watch movies, go out to dinner, whatever. I find when I am in a relationship where i live with a person all we do is fight and complain, its like we spend soo much time together that we dont really appreciate the time we spend together.

Is this a common thing or am I just socially hosed?

2007-05-21 05:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Drew W 2

My best friend which is fixing to be in college (19), cheated on his girlfriend, with her friend (16) in the back of his truck. I want to tell her, but hes my bestfriend and I'm going to see him this week, and how can I look at him without blowing up on him for cheating on his girlfriend with another girl in the back of his truck?

2007-05-21 05:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by punkprincessluvspink91 1

I already know that this question should not be in this category but people like to answer here so I'll try here. Recently people have been adding me to their contacts after I answered thier questions and so I want to know what you think on why they are adding me to thier contacts. And people here who have added me I am not complaining but I want to know why.

2007-05-21 05:31:59 · 37 answers · asked by Nich 2

I mean I really don’t get people who do it. Isn’t it disrespecting themselves? Why do something that’s so immoral just for sex and money? Have they no shame? Don’t they worry who on earth is going to go out with them because of what they do for a living?

2007-05-21 05:30:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to go see my guy friend this weekend. We live 3 hours away from each other. There are different things that he said that made me wonder if he is starting to want more. I told him about a job that was open and he said well they have jobs like that here too. Then he was talking about guy nights and how he felt like if he was serious with someone he could not have that. Then he said well with the right girl I probably could. Was he hinting or am I totally misreading him?

2007-05-21 05:29:32 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

why?

2007-05-21 05:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 18 year old daughter is dating a half white half mexican guy... Help!!..Im NOT racist.I let her hang out with all different kinds of people.I just dont want her to marry a different culture than her because she dont understand other racis...She is white and I think she should marry into her own culture because shes familiar with it.She told me she loves him.!!.What can I do to get her to understand that she belongs with a white man??

2007-05-21 05:21:30 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you saw a really good looking man/woman in a bar say, ould you be a little scared of approachin them if you really liked them?
experiences would be good lol!!

2007-05-21 05:20:06 · 18 answers · asked by inapickle 1

I'am confused is there something wrong with me if i got involved with a 15 year old guy?Am'i going to be sued considering that I'am separated ffrom my husband whose also 1 year younger than me.please help me..

2007-05-21 05:12:39 · 22 answers · asked by siverdust 1

2007-05-21 05:10:36 · 10 answers · asked by Queen B 2

well i like this girl and i know 100% that she likes me too. but the thing is i am really shy and i am not doing much about it.
she is always touching me and rubbing on my hands holding my hands and other stuff.
i asked if she wanted to watch a movie and she said yes!
and she is just waiting for me to go out with here.
wat is a good place for first date and do u think i should touch her around too?

2007-05-21 05:06:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and how do I know if she's compatible with me..? because we only chat through email, no IM yet.

2007-05-21 04:56:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-21 04:49:21 · 1 answers · asked by werdn w 1

2007-05-21 04:47:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many weekday evenings? And how long on weekends?

2007-05-21 04:46:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-21 04:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by sonia o 1

What do you do when you are in love with someone and you think he's in love with you to. And you tell him that you will see him one day, but you don't make it and it makes him mad and he dosen't want to talk to me for the moment. I think.

2007-05-21 04:44:14 · 6 answers · asked by Tia J. 2

they seem to let girls fall in love with them and then start doing things to be unfaithful.

2007-05-21 04:41:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous