Singles & Dating - 21 May 2007

So I'm 19, and i was wondering if 15 is too young... Shes almost 16 but almost 4 years is a lot but i thought i would see what people think.

thanks =)

2007-05-21 13:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a circle game we played at class today and everybody get to write one positive thing that describes you but I’m not sure these nouns are positive. Do I sound miserable?

quiet (4 times)
silly
thoughtful
shy
sweet kid
nice+shy
quiry
hi!
smart(2 times)
cool! Quit!
very quiet
here
you are so cool
work well
sleepy
unique
nice!(2 times)
quiet+mysterious
phantasmagoric

Ok, now what bothers me the most is how can i be silly when I’m always quiet. It feels like an insult! isn't it?

2007-05-21 13:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ladies i want your input and guys i guess i want yall's

2007-05-21 13:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by latoya r 3

He just gets everything handed to him, and he is 26... his rent paid, EVERYTHING.
I can't handle it, because I want him to go to college, he even is very interested in things in college, but he gets everything handed to him, and never has to do anything, I am afraid he is gonna get used to that way of life.
What can I do to make him not rely on his mom so much?

2007-05-21 13:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with a guy 5 times now and each time he has trouble getting a hard on...sometimes it happens but just for a few minutes. he won't discuss why? he is about 52. Help ...what could be the reason...and don't say it's me if he wasn't attracted then why would he even be with me.

2007-05-21 13:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by Single Gal 2

my sister is 18 and her bf is 16 and i am in love with him most of the time i think that he is hitting on me like he always touches me like he will rub me not like that but you know what i mean and most of the time we talk more than they do if i am a sleep when he come i want to be woke up or i get mad at her most the time he will come up and wake me up we always flirts and sometimes i feel bad because i dont know if she can tell so i try to play it off i yell like stop when we are play fighting or i will be like get you boyfriend most the time they dont act like they go out but when they do it about kills me i dont know what to do like sometimes i am afriad to be alone with him because i dont know what will happen i dont know if i am just thinking he feels like this because i do or if he is really hitting on me i wont go out with anyone else becasue i really do love him i know we could never go out because it is my sister bf i dont know how to get over him cause hes always around

2007-05-21 13:02:31 · 10 answers · asked by ebonee h 1

another boring nite tonite, how bout, you anything good going on

2007-05-21 13:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 20 and i think i have feelings for sum1 a bit older then me in his 40's? Can it be?

2007-05-21 13:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by lupe m 1

There's this one guy who I've known for awhile now. He stares at me alot and smiles at me a lot too. We even have a staring game thing. He even called me his gf once, but I joked around with it instead of taking it seriously. I might be open to the fact he likes me, but there is a year age difference which makes things complicating and he doesn't act the same way with me around his friends compared to when it's just both of us. I'm not sure on what to do. Do you think the gf comment was insinuating something?

2007-05-21 12:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by angelz 1

im 16 and i never had a boyfriend yet! i feel stupid and just.. i dunno, wow.. so how old were you when you got a boyfriend/ girlfriend?

2007-05-21 12:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by just a girl 4

There's this boy who ive been crushing on 4 some time now but one of my friends beat me to him. They went out for a week or two and then broke up and she still says she likes him but shes going all over over guys. We have a dinner dance coming up next week and i want to ask him to it because my friend is going with one of my other guy friends so i thought maybe i could ask the kid ive been crushing on out to the dance. Do you think its wrong do ask this guy even though my friend says she hates him and she is going with one of my best guy friends or should i not ask him, and go all by myself?

2007-05-21 12:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Rose 3

This guy and I were in a long distance relationship. The relationship was good till recently he was stressed because of his work and we didn't get to spend much time together due to his busy work schedule. Also he did not tell me on the phone I love you as much as he used to. I felt he had changed so I confronted him. He assured me he loved me still and said it made him sad too that we could not spend much time together. But he did tell me he was a little worried about our future.

Anyway, he was out of touch with me for a week and I tried to call him but he did not answer. I thought he wanted the easy way out by ignoring me so I wrote him an email and told him I let him go as it seemed to me that was what he wanted.

A few days later he contacted me and told me why he was out of touch,but said NOTHING about me wanting a break up like it had never happened.

Was he trying to leave the door open or was that what he really wanted.

I don't know what to do. I still love him.

2007-05-21 12:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by OS 1

i no one how should i take action?!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-21 12:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG! This guy is always showing up at my house, calling me at all hours-but I never answer -_-, and telling people that we are going out! I WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH THIS CREAP! HE IS SO FUGLY AND ANAL! He says he's white but he tries to act black. He thinks he's so cool. Whenever he asks me to hangout I tell him I have other plans, and then when I'm at the movies with my friends he somehow is also there and he drags me away from them. He is really starting to bother me!!! I CAN'T GET RID OF HIM!

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=84471647

2007-05-21 12:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by ;-) 4

My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months. I really like him a lot. I don't wanna be all nasty but i know that i can please him.. physically. I want to be more than that. I want to be the person he leans on, trusts, and can tell anything to. I understand that he does tell me things that he never told anyone else, but i want him to be closER to me. I don't know.

2007-05-21 12:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u No if your a good kisser if you havent kissed anyone yet
like u no hook up kiss

2007-05-21 12:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a really hot girl at my school. Actually, she's so astonishing, no guy doesn't think she's the bomb. I seriously think she likes me. She's athletic (not a tomboy, athletic), so she plays kickball. I'm a good player too, but not as good as most boys there. Everyday at kickball she picks me as the first boy. Today, when we were losing, I was wringing my hands b/c I'm one of the fiercest competitors you'll find. Accidentally, I hit her hip while my hands were shaking from losing. I immediately apologized and she automatically responded, "It's OK" in a soft tone. She's friendly to everyone. I was visibly embarrased and she saw it because I ran over to the boys to join whatever they were arguing about. I could care less. I was so angry that I visibly almost showed how embarrassed I was and how much I like her. If you've read other of my Q's, you see I have confidence in girls. But they're not at my school. I'm not in on the latest gossip, so I'm afraid she's with someone else. Help

2007-05-21 12:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy awhile ago and we talked about going out. Then i hung out with him yesterday and he said that he could never go out with me because i was too young. Then he said he wanted to be friends with benefits. One problem i like himt oo much to see him with other girls and also he thinks i am 16 when i am really turning 18 next week. I told him i was 16 because i thought he was younger and i never thought we would meet up again. How do i tell him that i am 18 and how do i tell him that friends with benefits wont workout. I REALLY like this guy and i dont know what his problem is. And if a guy wants to be friends with benefits does he think you are attractive??? And is friends with benefits good??

2007-05-21 12:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by sophie 1

Ok listin up i am oh soo totally in love with this one boy and have been for about a year now but he doesnt kno and just 5 months ago he found hisself a girlfriend and it breaks my heart so i tyed to get over that and start to go after on of his bestfriends and he seem interested in me cause we was going to watch a movie together on weekend and i didnt so i told him the next weekend so that saturday rolls around and guess what i didnt go becuase my friend didnt take me so i think hes mad or something and he leaves this girl well his ex girlfriend comments all the time and picture comments over myspace maybe ever messages lord knows what they talk about on icq so im kinda heart broken there to but by god i am watching a moive with him this saturday you can count on it for sure but i guess my point is that all the guys i have liked they acted like they were into me at one point in time and they just lose interest in me or something so please i just wanna know if i will find the right

2007-05-21 12:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was jsut wondering what everyone thinks about gay relationship. Would u ever consider it? Do you think it works out for gays when it comes to relationship?

2007-05-21 12:27:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so what if we like eachother but i am too scared and he is very shy..should i grow some balls and ask him face to face or should i wait and see what happens later??

2007-05-21 12:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by xxcutiepiexx05 2

My ex boyfriend keeps on calling and text messaging me.It's drivin me crazy..He just won't leave me alone.

2007-05-21 12:20:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im really pretty(not be arrogant) and i am also really weird. Guys are attracted to me because of my looks, then get turned off by my weird counterculture, perverted humor, personality. All the guys like me are really ugly, and i do believe looks play a role in the attraction to someone but its just one of the factors. Im 17, will i ever find someone out there like me?

2007-05-21 12:20:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so say some guy comes up to you that you don't know and he wants to start a conversation and you can tell he would like to get to know you. How would you like to be approached without seeming liked you've been being stalked or creeped out? What would you like the guy to say to you, like any specific usage of words at all? Guys that have been successful in meeting girls are just as open to answering this too, from a guys perspective of course. I've never in my life done this, and as I'm working on finally building self esteem up, I would like to know how this is done in the best manner possible. I also do realize I need to display a good amount of confidence as well. Thanks in advance for responses.

2007-05-21 12:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by squanzone1015 1

if this boy and you flirt all the time and hang out everyday..should you ask him out, or wait till he asks you??

2007-05-21 12:14:27 · 9 answers · asked by xxcutiepiexx05 2

Ok. well my boyfriend of a yr and a half. broke up with me bcuz i lied about somthing. . . i dnt blame him but over the past 5 months ive proved to him that was a one and only thing. well he took me back but 2 weeks later told me he couldnt be with me bcuz he still cant trust me. it seems like one minute we're great the next he pushes me away. it hurts. . and it seems like the more i wait for him the more it hurts me. . . everyone tells me to move on. but i cant. everytime i try he acts like he wants me back.not to mention he's my first love.it was love at first sight for me and he was my first everything.weve bn through more than you can imagen and we were even engaged but yet it seems like we cant work through this.ive told him im sorry and ive told him ive learned and that i love him and it was a mistake.but he jus cant trust me no matter wat i do.i dnt want to give up but it looks like i have to.cuz all it sms like is he hurts me he stood me up this weekend on a date. wut shud i do

2007-05-21 12:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A popular "code" among groups of guys who are friends is, "Bro's before Ho's". While I don't necessarily agree with the term, "Ho", I want to know what you think of this philosophy. Basically it means that you should always make your friends a priority over girls/ girlfriends. Alot of my friends use this term, yet never actually do it. The thing agree with is that you should never abandon your friends for a girl because there is no telling how long you will be with her. Also, your friends like you just the way you are and (usually) have no further interests than friendship. The thing I don't agree with is that after being with a girl a certain amount of time you are going to have to start putting her first if you want any kind of serious relationship, right? What do you think? Bro's before Ho's, or not?

2007-05-21 12:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Smirx 2

all the guys do is stare at me and check me out, but no guy ever asks me out! i feel so lonely, all my friends and family say that i look like a gorgeous supermodel, but i dont get it! its like guys are even afraid to touch me! for example if i want to open my locker if there are guys next to it they will move like 5 feet just to give me room to put my books in, so whats going on?? the most handsome guy in school likes me, but he wont approach me, all he does is stare at me and stalk me! please help! no mean answers please!

2007-05-21 12:02:27 · 4 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2

Bought me a Shrek 2 video for Christmas. and thats all.
Took me out on Valentines day and asked his 2 teenage sons to come along.
Bought me left over Christmas candy for Valentines day off the clearance rack at a Dollar tree and gave it to me after he dropped it on the floor.
Played on a soft ball team with his ex wife for 3 months. claimed he always played the game, but never told me
Forgot my birthday and then reminded me he bought me a 8 piece Chicago cutlery 3 months earlier.
Do you think this is cheap and crappy or is it just me?

2007-05-21 12:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by happydawg 6

when you both have just gotten out of a relationship.

his was pretty long.
but weve both liked eachother for a long time, even when we were seeing other people.
now we are both single and im wondering when is it ok to go out with eachother, since we both just got out of a relationship

2007-05-21 11:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by big red 5