Singles & Dating - 6 May 2007

when im on aim and i talk to the girl i like we have GREAT conversations most of the time, but then every once and awhile well just have a couple minutes of akwardness, were no one says anything, and i dont really know what to say, any ideas? just something that i could say that could lead to other topics so we can have a conversation instead of just sitting there not talking

2007-05-06 18:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by tupersrooper 3

So Friday night I went out with my friends and two of them came back to my place afterwards. It was a girl and a guy. We were hanging out and next thing you know, toes are being sucked, and one thing led to another, and you get the jist of it. None of us had sex. Just a lot of heavy hooking up to put it that way. I feel extremely guilty cause I am getting married in 4 1/2 months. The other 2 feel extremely guilty as well since we are all friends and know one anothers fiances. We have all sworn never to say anything, but I feel so guilty. I love my fiance. He is my world, and I couldn't imagine not having him in my life. I can't sleep and feel like this will hang over me for awhile. What should I do?

2007-05-06 18:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by curlysuepeggysue 1

Have any of you asian men had girls reply to your ads or respond to your emails? From a research paper called: What Makes You Click? Mate Preferences and Matching Outcomes in Online Dating "The research found that members of all four ethnic groups examined did in fact “discriminate” against users belonging to other ethnic groups and women seem to discriminate more. For example, African American and Hispanic men only get about half as many first contact emails from Caucasian women as Caucasian men do while Asian men only get about one fourth as much contact. Asian men and women seem to be least discriminating when pursuing other ethnicities." "For equal success with a white woman, an African-American man needs to earn $154,000 more than a white man. Hispanic men need an additional $77,000, and Asian men need an additional $247,000 in annual income."

2007-05-06 18:50:25 · 9 answers · asked by SL1983 2

Please I need help with my relationship
I need ideas to spice it up
He enjoys spending time with his mates, drinking, motor biking, driving the usual boy things
We are expecting our 1st child in 3 months soooooo i want to be closer to him; I want him to want me
In the bedroom I need to think of things to A LOT!! Help me there
Plz help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-05-06 18:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by sarah f 1

2007-05-06 18:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by casperleehp 1

2007-05-06 18:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by travelling_john 1

why dont some people wont let go what u did in past?

2007-05-06 18:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by bianca 2

I love this girl very much and i have tried my level best and even told her that i loved her so much but still she ... I have many female friends and they trust me a lot I am guy who is not a pervert and they know even if i ever touch them its not a bad thing. But still the girl i love does'nt feel the same for me. I came to know she hangs out with a pervert((without knowing) and she sometimes even goes alone with him. Even i am cool ,rich , and don't look bad. What do you think is the problem, i would be happy to know your opinions

2007-05-06 18:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by samir 2

if... you like a girl what terms would u use when talking to her... or actions...

2007-05-06 18:31:15 · 20 answers · asked by cheeky_babe 2

My Man of 16 months are in a rountine. I go to work 30 hours a week and I am 40 hours a week in an EMT academy. He works 55 hours a week. Our Love life is soo boring.
He says I never dress sexy, and I never am in the mood. IM NOT..He never is romantic anymore. He used to buy me flowers and dance with me but never anymore. I am always tired and stressed. Having him Live 45 minutes away dosen't help either. We are talking marriage and looking at houses...When we do get married, it will still be the same anyways. HELP!!

2007-05-06 18:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4

I like to have sex with different men, especially (but not always) when drinking . After the first or second meeting I usually lose interest. I like the persuit more than the actual sex itself most of the time. Sometimes I even have sex with different men on the same day. I can't seem to get enough.
Some of my friends say that I am just a big slut but personally I don't see much wrong with enjoying my sexuality.

This is a serious question, please refrain from smart *** remarks.

2007-05-06 18:23:06 · 42 answers · asked by TinaAnne 2

ok...so im a sophomore in highschool...never had a boyfriend, i mean ive had crushes and stuff but nothing serious. (sad i know) anyways...you see all those movies and things where people really love each other...do all these things really happen? do people really feel and act this way or do they just make it up?

2007-05-06 18:20:39 · 26 answers · asked by mandie 2

You know he is pretending because he was crazy about you. He left starring at me and we felt that connection.

2007-05-06 18:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 18:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by ryan e 1

Anyone ever got into this & know when the kinky line has been crossed?

2007-05-06 18:09:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ebie 2

its a gross feeling huh

2007-05-06 17:52:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

but the women will deny that and actually say it's what they like?

2007-05-06 17:42:14 · 61 answers · asked by waddle02 2

I just turned 19 years old and she's 16. I know shes attracted to me. I know it would be illegal to be sexually involved, but even if I am willing to wait for her to turn 18, is is still wrong to date her right now? This is killing me so please respond promptly.
Thanks

2007-05-06 17:41:33 · 26 answers · asked by briefhistoryoftime 1

me and my ex were going out for a LONG time and he broke up with me 2 days ago cuz his dad was gunna call the cops on us because he cant be with me cuz its illegal (hes over age) but yeah he said he wants to ask me back out in 6 months because he will be out of the house and his dad wont know and i dont know if i should wait 6 months to be with him or if i should just move on soo please help me..

2007-05-06 17:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by Alisonnnnn 3

I had a friends with benefits relationshiop came to an end abotu six months ago with this guy.He broke it off with me, by ext message and told me that if i contacted him again he would file a restraning order against me AND tell some associates of mine of our relationship, including his best friend(which was my friend), the next day hsi best friend calls me and invtes me to an event he happens to be hosting I decline the offer because I thoughts it was pretty weird that she would just call me up after not hearing from her in six months.But now, when I see him on campus, he speaks and says hello, and even told me to call him, and smiles at me like everything is all okay, but with her it's a different story. she doesn't speak at all, I even tried calling her and I got no response. I even heard that they are not friends anymore. So my question is why the adverse response.Do you think he went back and told her something and if so why is he cool about the situation and she's not.And what s

2007-05-06 17:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful inside and out. 1

i need a guy who is sweet and doesnt always think about sex but looks hot and is living in oregon how do i find him?

2007-05-06 17:05:05 · 5 answers · asked by Harley C 2

2007-05-06 16:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by NB64 1

Is it looks? personality? Whatever it may be, please answer honestly and, if possible, include a reason why you find that trait most attractive.

2007-05-06 16:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by iluvmurphie 3

2007-05-06 16:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by rosey 7

I love her, I tell her on her myspace profile, and she writes me back, I love you too. She writes to other guys, "I like you, kisses." I was thinking about writing the same thing to girls, will that make her jealous, or what will?

I just want to give her a taste of her own medicine.

2007-05-06 16:32:17 · 26 answers · asked by Jacob S 1

I ve met this guy in church. I tried to let him know that I like him by slipping him a note with my phone number. The next day he acts all friendly and sweet by initiating conversation and hugging me kindly. I am still upset that he has not called. Why do i still catch him looking at me during the service and even smiling at me. I am confused. I am so upset I even avoid looking at him in church, like he does not exist. Should I do something about that situation? because I am still interested in him?

2007-05-06 16:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1

i have been talking to this man for 4 months and we are deeply in love but lately he has been acting really strange when he gets mad hes like i gotta go and i dont here from him until the next day. Well yesterday we had another fight over nothing and he hung up on me, Today i have called him allday and his cousin picked up once and said he left his phone outside that he would tell him to call me , i called quite a few times after that and his cousin answered said something and hung up i didnt really here him , im at a point i dont know what to expect or how to feel.
If you were in my situation what would you think how would you feel Could it be possible he has found someone else

2007-05-06 16:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by theflawlessrose 1

classic story. girl hates guy.guy likes girl.girl falls for guy.guy sends mixed signals.girl and guy become friends.girl doesn't know if guy likes her more than a friend.girl thinks constantly about guy. girl doesn't know how he feels. girl is too afraid to ask.

then something happens.

we were at a school event sleepover and he brings his guitar (we both love the same type of music) and plays for me a song he wrote (no lyrics, just music) he is AMAZING. no seriously knowcks me off my feet. he then tries to teach me his song. he's so sweet and modest about how good he is and is patient with me about it.

which leads me to think he likes me.

but then later he goes to a bunch of girls (when he was playing with me it was one on one) and plays for them. they all think he's really good and want to learn how to play. he kinda teaches them, but gets frustrated and leaves.

in the group of girls there is one who says he is her "lover" but they are friends and she is joking about

2007-05-06 16:09:27 · 4 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3

Either willingling or not, you know what i mean?

2007-05-06 16:05:05 · 3 answers · asked by enano 4

i go to a privite school where there are no girls that i could even think about going out with.....their way to vally girl type.........besides youth group.....which isnt that great of a place to be looking for girls......where should i try to pick up a girl?

2007-05-06 15:59:32 · 2 answers · asked by bert 2