Singles & Dating - 4 April 2007

So i was talking to this guy for about a week, he made me feel comfortable around him even though we barely knew each other. I came into his life while he was talking to another girl, he also told me he felt as if he was getting to know me better than her. So as the week passed he dropped her for me because she was really shy and never said anything to him. He told me that he wasn't going to give up on me because i wasn't her, and that i knew how to work things out. But then the next day he went to her and said that he still had feelings for her. But he had told me he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. Now i tripped out on him, and i'm ignoring him because i don't know what to say. He made me feel so low, but it's okay. I guess. So is it wrong to be ignoring him now ?

2007-04-04 12:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never really had much of a father growing up so I'm not sure what a man is really suppose to be. I know what a good man is though, i just got out of a serious relationship of about 2 1/2 years and he was a good guy but he has hit me and cheated on me a few times. We tried to work through it and people kept telling me you just have to forgive people because EVERY ONE makes mistakes but i need to hear different, please are there any guys out there that can tell me the truth about abuse and cheating on your g/f's that wouldnt do the same to you.

2007-04-04 12:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by meh? 3

I seem to find that i can talk to any boy besides my bf Branden like crap like I treat them wrong and hurt there feelins but when Im talkin with Branden I seem to listen and do whatever he says.
These are his rules:

1.im not allowed to talk to no other boys since he says talkin leads to kissin then kissin leads to sex [im still a virgin i dunno why he gave me this rule]

2.i can only call him once or twice a week

3.im not suppose to ask him too many questions

4.i cant raise my voice when talkin to him

5.im not suppose to answer other calls while on the phone with him

6.dont do anythin or else anythin i do he'll find out and then curse at me and make me cry or beat the **** outta me

7.dont ever hang up on him or say anything rude or thats the end of our relationship

We've been together for 10 months and he makes me cry alot but I follow every rule since I did him wrong in the past cause his cousin grabbed me and kissed me right infront of him.What should I do ??

2007-04-04 12:33:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't really see why I need one. I can live alone without going crazy and I live alone all the time. I don't need company. I don't like showing my emotions, so I could never show someone I loved them. I could never accept loving someone because I view love as a bunch of gooshy crap that whimps like. That is how I have always felt and I don't think I can change. Plus, I think I am too ugly for any girl to be attracted to me, so instead of turining my attention to romance, I will go into religion, so I am not allowed to get any girl. I am ugly, so I have no clue why so many girls have actually called me cute before. They must feel bad for me. So I just get pissed when people call me attractive and I want to punch them in the face because they are probably laughing behind my back. I could not even imagine a girl saying she loved me. I would probably have a stoke I would be so pissed. I don't love anyone and I don't want anyone to love me.

2007-04-04 12:30:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 12:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by N 2

Hi. I am a lesbian and my girlfriend and I just broke up. We were only together for a little over one month and lived two hours away. I am tryng to figure something out. She broke up with me last week and said that she didn't she didn't feel the same for me but two days before that she was crazy about me. She also had said that she was dealing with an issue she was dealing with for a while now and wanted to be single again and straighten out her issue/life. She said there was a possibility that we could get together once she settle "her ****". Idk what that means, but I don't believe it. The day before she broek up with me, she had gone to Pridefest with some friends. She wanted me to go so bad but I couldn't due to the fact I couldnt' get off from work. We still talk now a little and are still friends. Either she found someone else or I think she's got bipolar or somethin. I know at times she said she felt liek she was someone else..so maybe she's got a metal issue?? help! lol

2007-04-04 12:30:10 · 1 answers · asked by girl 2

my boyfriend alway want to know what i am doing or where i am going or who am i with y is that?

2007-04-04 12:17:13 · 3 answers · asked by bonnie 2

2007-04-04 12:12:55 · 79 answers · asked by Ms.Mo 1

What is the difference between hot, cute, and pretty?
I get described as cute or pretty ?I am 5ft6 110 pound runner.
I wish i was hott though so guys would like me more.What can i do to be considered hot?

2007-04-04 11:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 11:50:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys think about the girls they like, or just think are cute, even close to as much as girls think about guys?
not necessarily if they are bf or gf either.

2007-04-04 11:39:08 · 15 answers · asked by coolio 4

Guys, what do you think about that? Girls, what do you think about that and do you do it?

I wear boxers 'cause they feel comfortable to me. I'm a female and I just LUV boxers and thats all I wear.

2007-04-04 11:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Chicago 4

im felling kinda sad latly does anyone have anything cheerful to say?

2007-04-04 11:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Bball girl 1

alright so like a month ago my friend, me, her boyfriend and his friend went to the movies. well me and his friend made out and i thought i liked him so we all hung out the next night and i realized that i don't really like him. well we kinda talked after that and i wasn't gonna be mean and not answer his calls but i guess he kinda got the message. so we stopped talking, and i heard that a girl at his school was talking about me saying i was a hore but i've never even met her so i guess that she likes him and he was talking about me or something like that...and that was a week ago. and so i was just messing around on myspace and i checked out his page and he has me on his top 8 friends.....and he has like 7 pages of friends. should i send him a message or something cause i kinda feel sorry for him. but do ya'll think he still likes me?

2007-04-04 11:31:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

The names in this post are made up..lol..My good friend "jane" is upset because her boyfriend "bob" has made friends with a girl he works with "ann"Ann has a boyfriend too. Bob drives ann home every time after they finish work, but not without stopping for coffee first. They get off work at 1 am, and sometimes bob doesn't get home until between 3 and 5 am. bob says that his girlfriend jane shouldn't care, because she should be sleeping. Bob talks about ann a lot. Ann is pretty and jane feels jealous. Sometimes when bob gets home after dropping ann off, they get on msn chat and talk through all hours of the night. My friend jane has a tendancy to have low self esteem and get jealous. Bob tells her that him and ann have so much to talk about and he can't have those kinds of conversations with her. He likes to be intelectually stimulated by ann,in other words. Is he cheating?

2007-04-04 11:22:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know what unsave love ones mean?

2007-04-04 11:21:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this boy three years younger than me! What should I do?

2007-04-04 11:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by ANGEL 1

2007-04-04 11:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Ms.Mo 1

I have tried every thing but I will not Kiss her *** or treat her better then the other daughterinlaws.I get along great with both the others the age differents of the grils is not by much.I try the opening door with all the children,But no matter what I do its not enough.What do I do my son and I are very close I dont want to cause problems for them but she never has excepted me or his borthers.What to do ? Very up set need real answers right away they will be here for easter.

2007-04-04 11:10:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex broke up with me. but the way he did it was the stupid part. i am 15 he is 19. he told me i was too young for him when he knew how old i was. he left me a break up messege on my cell. how screwed up is that.

2007-04-04 10:57:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know why my bf has to hide porno from me like i wont find it. ha .. we have been togerther for 5 years and i do all i can to keep him happy. why does he need porno?? i know i work but its only a 8 hour shift. im so lost ...

2007-04-04 10:55:59 · 1 answers · asked by lost in thought 1

My kids have been away at my parents all week and I have been going over to see my bf as he usually has to come to mine as kids with me 24/7. Anyway I thought we may get to spend an extra evening together (tonight) but he txt to say he had to call at sisters after gym, I txt him to say if he had something on and didn't want me to pop round later on just to say so, he replied with txt saying wasn't sure what time he'd be home then at 9.58pm I got a txt saying just got home.

Am I right to be peeved at him, I just felt like he should of just said can't make tonight but instead skirted round it.

I didn't reply to his last txt as was peeved. We don't get to spend much time together on our own (which he has pointed out before) and I don't think I'm going to get to see him on these bank holidays either (I know he's probably working Friday).

2007-04-04 10:54:01 · 19 answers · asked by luz2loz 3

Money cant buy happiness but then again love cant pay the bills!!

2007-04-04 10:44:20 · 92 answers · asked by Sarah..XO 3

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A Little Chubby
e) Fat

2007-04-04 10:41:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

A hot guy I met through work two years ago and I recently got in touch again three months ago. We live in different cities. I will be seeing him in a month. our emails started off casual, catching up with each other, but in the last month, we were emailing Monday-Friday almost every day. The last two weeks, we emailed about eight times a day & got flirtatacious. I decided to email and tell him I loved being back in touch, but that I didn't feel comfortable with the frequency of contact if he were in some committed relationship, because if I were in the other person's shoes, I would not like it. He immediately emailed back and said he was shocked by my comments because he believes in having friends. He has never said to me we are friends or asked me if i was dating. He said he does not tell everything to his girlfriend but if she were to ask, or she found out, he doesn't find what we were saying as jeopardizing his relationship. If he were single I'd be after him. How to handle?

2007-04-04 10:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by defiantshamrock 1

Soo bad that everything just came crashing crumbling down. As if reality just snuck up behind you and hit you.

2007-04-04 10:32:49 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 10:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The age old dilemma (no dilemma at all, if you ask me). I still see my friends, not nearly as much, but we have jobs and most of us serious relationships now anyways. But w/ summer coming up, there will still be softball and the occassional weekend debauchery we all grew accustomed to. Anyways, one of my good friends is being a real *** lately. It centers around me spending way more time w/ my gf now who I am knowingly and happily getting pretty involved with. I know it's just sour grapes, but anyone go through this with one of their best friends? He's rather spiteful and curt lately and I had patience for it, but it's running thin. I am going to get him out one night, we're going to have lots of drinks and we're going to put this to rest. Any tips?

2007-04-04 10:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6

i split up with my first love recently,because he had acted badly,and i couldn't forgive it,although most girls probably would.We had been together nearly a year,and hadn't had sex,although we were really in love and eventually would have.i mean,we're 15.once when i cried,he promised he would always be there for me even if we split.He always showed how much he loved me,and i and everyone believes that.But,when we split up,he had sex with a girl i hate a week later and is seeing her.And he's going out getting drunk all the time!=s at first i was ok,but now i feel completely heartbroken.sometimes i just want him back,but i know it wouldn't be right.whenever i do see him,he awkwardly attempts to talk to me and bring up memories,even though he's with 'her'.What's wrong with me?!I need help.and What's wrong with him?!

2007-04-04 10:26:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel bad because I don't have a woman in my life . How can I learn to be happy without a girlfriend ? How can I learn to be more independent ?

2007-04-04 10:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3