I was just wondering this because although some guys make it blatantly ovbious that they like me and shower me with affection and attention, other guys, including one that I'm seeing now who acts a little flirty, then a little aloof, then back and forth. I'm an attractive, independant, smart and funny 22 yr old. I know he's attracted to me. I am pretty good about not showing him i like him too much. I know girls intentionally do it, but do guys actually think that much/that far ahead? do guys intentionally hold back or act aloof from a girl that they are interested sometimes, and why? and how should I respond when (and If) this guy is acting aloof? should I do the approaching or call him/make the first move,. or still wait till he makes the first gesture/call/IM etc? Normally when he does this I distance myself too, untill he finally comes around.... ??
2007-03-27
07:08:27
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katie colmes
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