see me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months now and i feel that he is the one. the only problem is i am like "preppy" and he's "emo/goth" is that ok?? i mean we love each other...and aint all relationships based upon the connection and based upon the spark? nobody, but my mom and his mother give us consent, because they like someone else better......WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2007-03-27 07:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up the goodies. This relationship won't last and you'll have regrets when you do find your match.
2007-03-27 07:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, Sometimes They Can Complement eachother
For Example; A Girl Who's Quite is a good listener
& A Guy Who Like's to Talk Needs Good Listener
Awefull Quite w/ two Quite ppl
Heres a better one;
Say A guys, Terrible at Administration But Good at handleing the public & Sales
But the Girls Not so social or a good comunicator But Great at administration
Good Combo for a Family owned Bussiness such as Contracting
I See No Problem W/ An Executive Woman Going Out W/ A Lil' Rough around the edges Construction worker , Mountain Man, Like Myself, Kinda Sexy if ya Ask Me :-)
As For Your Situation ,
Gotta Love That Ole Teen Movie "Valley Girl"
2007-03-27 14:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by forgivenbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two like each other, then what's the issue? Who cares that you like to dress differently? Apparently you have some common likes or views or you wouldn't be compatible enough to be a couple.
No, all relationships aren't based on connection and spark, but many are and it's mandatory for some (if that's not there, there's not going to be a relationship).
Go forth and date...but please lose the word "aint"...that's not preppy and it's just poor grammar besides.
Good luck! âº
2007-03-27 14:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a question of whether your relationship is acceptable by society. It whether you accept each other.
You should bear in mind that you're both going to be swimming in different social circles and integrating as a couple into your 'preppy' scene or his 'emo/goth' scene could be difficult (although in a perfect world it wouldn't be and we'd all accept each other for what we are).
If you're strong and happy, you'll sail it. Don't be put off by others judgments, the most detrimental thing is listening to those who cast their opinions without knowing you.
2007-03-27 14:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by jkkjkjkjkjkjkjkjkjkjk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites should compliment each other's weaknesses. Shy w aggressive, quiet w loud, etc. Preppy and goth sounds like a relationship doomed to fail but if you are happy go with it.
2007-03-27 14:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the saying opposites attract? Its true! If you guys love each other, who cares what other people are saying or what they think. If you're happy then you're fine! I have been dating my bf for over 3 yrs, and we are opposites! Best of luck!
2007-03-27 14:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by dazed&confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract. If you love each other that's all that matters. Who cares that your prep and he's goth? Go with your heart.
2007-03-27 14:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine for opposites to date. And who cares what others think. As long as you are happy in your relationship and he treats you well then that is all that matters.
2007-03-27 14:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by kaicey247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. Who care's if you're "preppy" and he's "emo/goth"...it's about the person...not the labels.
2007-03-27 14:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex were like that...dating for 6 months and known him for 10 years...he is Kroq White boy and I'm hip hop hispanic...
He likes Bars...I like clubs....
He's not social...I'm social...
We had nothing in common but we made each other crazy in laughter in the end...it didn' t work...he is too insecure...Alway accusing me of cheating if I wasn't too affectionate....
It was crazy!
Don't analyze it too much! Just let it flow.
2007-03-27 14:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋