me and my boyfriend have been together for the past two years. now we have a long distance relationship as ive had to move.
in the beginning everything was so magical and perfect. but for the last couple of months we've been having a lot of arguments and fights over very silly things like not returning calls and the type.
this guy is also my best friend and i share everything with him. and when he's not there to listen to me and make me feel special even if the reasons are genuine, i feel resentful and angry and start screaming at him or being cold to him which kickstarts a fight.
i love him a lot and when he says he's busy or tired i feel that he doesnt love me anymore and doesnt really care about me the way he used to.
we've discussed this and he said that he really loves me a lot and doesnt want to lose me and that things have been happening that take up a lot of his time and he's tired at the end of the day.
i understand all that but i still can't help feeling that he doesnt
2007-03-27 07:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iam very confused should i end our relationship cause iam miserable most of the time or should i do something to bring out his caring side? what do i do to bring out his loving side??
plzz dont ask me to wait and give time , i've been doing it for a couple of months and i cant stand any more of it.
2007-03-27 07:19:38 · update #1
you all should go on a vacation
2007-03-27 07:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jainiecya H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very labor intensive. And having a hissy fit will not help. You both need to be understanding to each others busy lives and make time for each other on a schedule that is not draining to either person. You are feeling unloved but how do you think he feels when you start screaming at him? Of course that is going to kick start a fight. My advice is to talk to him about how you are feeling and be quiet and listen to him when he tells you how he feels.
2007-03-27 07:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of all fights in a relationship start over shared stuff ..from love to hankies, food plates etc
infact many marriages breather easier when they share a child...and these are the ones which bloom over a period of time...again
now i guess you got to analyze if you have stopped sharing with this person..perhaps this person feels that you have stopped sharing ( you have to find out what you have stopped sharing )
hope this helps !
2007-03-27 07:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does love you, you are just trying to feel loved and validated while you are far away. You have to stop feeling that way unless you want to ruin the relationship.
2007-03-27 07:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋