2007-03-27 07:03:01 · 20 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Couple things: Read Men are From Mars, Women are From venus, this book should be every man and woman's bible. It explains that men have the instinct to flee when feelings of inadequacy, love, emotional distress, stress, etc come about. So when I woman shows how strong her feelings are for a guy, they flee b/c thats all they know how to do. Supposedly, they just need time and space to cool off and think rationally about the situ.
2007-03-27 07:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Heather L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier for a guy to run, or anyone else for that matter, then to face your feelings and deal with the situation. A lot of men tend to hide how they feel and dismiss those feelings and just move on to another prospect. So many people in relationships have one disagreement, and instead of dealing with it, break up or end what they have. No one ever said love should be easy! It shouldn't be HARD either but sometimes, you just have to work some quirks out instead of running away...
2007-03-27 07:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people will 'run away' from a relationship if the other person appears to be moving too fast or getting attached too quickly...it's often seen as a red flag that the other person is needy or desperate.
Feelings for someone tend to take time to develop, and it takes time also to really get to know someone...those who move too fast, before their partner feels they've really had time to get to know one another, come across as just wanting a partner (any partner) and not being very interested in who that person is.
2007-03-27 07:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, feeling trapped into a relationship that they are not yet certain they want to make long term. i mean you just met the girl a few weeks or so ago and she's already planning your lives together and naming the children, heck your just getting to know her. now on the other hand if both are hitting it off really well, and stuff, and both talk about a future together, then maybe, but other wise give the guy some time and space.
2007-03-27 07:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by sivracious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get strong feelings for someone in the beginning of the relationship? ARe you giving it up too fast too soon? ARe you putting too much in the relationship in the beginning and not giving him enough room to breathe? Are you coming on too strong and being to dependent on him without having your own life?
Answer those questions and you have your answer!!!
2007-03-27 07:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys run from girls that are "easily" involved and start falling head over heels and are attached too soon.
You shouldn't tell a guy how you feel unless he asks you and still you should hold back a little. Don't give him the whole I LOVE YOU right away...let him come to you first....let him tell you how he feels!
2007-03-27 07:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For girls, it's normal because we don't get into relationships unless we have strong 'good' feelings about it.
For guys, they look for flings (not all) and when they find out the girl is way serious than they are, it's too much for them.
2007-03-27 07:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you refuse to get psychiatric help then you definately've a real situation. look what you're telling me sounds like its borderline anger administration or some type of disease. you want a councilor. Step returned and understand what you assert you have innovations of wounding the adult males that slept with your lady pal. tell a councilor and bypass get help earlier those innovations develop into different issues. additionally you decide on me to not bypass elementary on you properly i think of that your obsessing over the failings you could not have solid seems. you may desire to provide up putting out this this "ultimate pal" with the aid of fact being with him is harming you in view which you sense such as you commonly might desire to compete with him. additionally your lady pal had intercourse and there is not something interior the international that is going to alter that so settle for it. the two you agree on your lady pal and supply up attempting to be greater effective then your pal or you get counciling..
2016-10-20 13:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not hard question. young girls wants to find Mr.Right and love. Us young guys wants to experience with many girls before making a commitment. If the guy stay with the girl too long in that case, he would fear that he has to make a commitment which he doesnt want to do
2007-03-27 07:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commitment problems? Going too fast?
2007-03-27 07:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋