Singles & Dating - 20 March 2007

This is my situation...my girlfriend of 10months recently broke up with me. It has crushed me, and every little thing reminds me of her. Now she came over the other day, we were laying with eachother, holding eachother, just like old times. The thing is, all she says is how much she is gonna miss it. But everytime I try to talk to her about getting back together, all she ever says is that she is sorry. So what I dont get is, if she misses me, loves me, and is going to miss what things we used to do, why is she still refusing to get back, and why did she break up in the first place. And what should I do to maybe get her back?

2007-03-20 21:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by pigskin_player2003 1

everytime i post a question about this guy. all u jockers feel you need to defend him by writing his life story on here. how much money would u spend to be with him for one night? probally alot u probally would do anything he asks. u clowns worship him like he is god

2007-03-20 21:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by killingkids05 2

Nobody in particular. I'm a VERY shy college student who needs to meet people, especially girls. How do I beak the Ice. What do I say to start. Whenever I say Hi, it comes out funny. I can say hey better. (Don't ask why, that's just how it is)

2007-03-20 20:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

2007-03-20 20:59:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so he always gets me the best gifts, this though is not my strongest suit. I really want to get him something special. I thought about normal stuff like cd's etc.. but i need something inventive. Any ideas? Or maybe something i could plan for us to do together? Thanks

2007-03-20 20:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by S W 2

just broke up with my girl freind 3 days ago
now i recieved a text from her best friend that she likes me...and she wants to go out with me for movie...

2007-03-20 20:55:11 · 28 answers · asked by gaf 3

Ive met a wonderful,spiritual,& kind man, but after his last relationship ended harshly, he spoke with his pastor& decided to make a pact with god, that he'd focus more on god by not dating for a year.(hes 4months in) We've hung out as strictly friends,but as more& more time goes by we have devoloped feelings that we cannot express completly due to this pact. (were both abstin. and waiting till marraige)
Things were too heated when we were alone so we decided not to be alone in his room, or have as much physicial contact (i.e- back massages ect)Now it feels like were just..there.Not really "friends"...not dating..just around each other.I dont know if hes just guarding his heart or what b/c he seems very distant since we made that pact.He tells me that he really cares for me & i really feel that he does. To see the person you want to be with everyday but you cant have them..its hard.Ive prayed about it alot lately but would really like some advice from some christians out there.Thanks.

2007-03-20 20:53:41 · 9 answers · asked by American Muslimahhh 1

I am really feelin this guy and from what he is sayin he is really feelin me but I am going to wait a while before I have sex with him b/c thay is somethin I want to do and I want him to respect me and as well as respecting myself. Would you respect a woman that had sex with you after a month? 2 weeks? how much would you respect her? How long of a wait? No wait until you married answers plz I know that is best but not really reality.

2007-03-20 20:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

What would you say if a man e-mailed you at work?

2007-03-20 20:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Phillip 4

i'm a black female 26 yrs.I ve a black b/friend that i ve been with for 2 yrs.I then met a white guy his 30yrs while i was having lunch.fast forward 3 months later i slept with him.it has been 9 months & i'm still seeing him & i enjoy beening with him.I love my b/friend but i don't know what to do.I'm confused & scared.My family loves my b/friend & sees him as my future husband.
I ve been having a secret affair with this guy & he knows i ve a boyfriend.After sleeping with the other guy i noticed that i don't want my b/friend to touch me & he has asked me what is wrong because he notices i avoid having sex with him.The funny this is i love having sex with other guy but i think we can't have a serious relationship because he is white. He on the other hand thinks we can.He has given 3 months to leave my b/friend or he leaves.My parents will kill me if i leave my b/friend for a white man.My b/friend has been a good man but i ve fallen for the other guy.what should i do? Serious answers

2007-03-20 20:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1

My ex-bf and I have broke up for 1 month plus after 7 months of courtship. He said that I am not giving him any space and he feel suffocated. We have broken up and get back many times but I believed this is the last straw. Cos after compromising to him alot of times, he still has no intention to get back with me. He said that he enjoy being single and do all the things which he like. Nevertheless, he still answer my calls and go out with me occasionally. I really love him and want to be with him. What should I do to bring back our relationship? He will be leaving the country in 2 weeks time for business trip and would only be back 2 months later. I want to get back with him before he leave. Right now, I have already stopped interferring with his life. But I feel that no matter what I do, he will not be moved. Please advise.

2007-03-20 20:48:57 · 8 answers · asked by StarGirl 2

I'm new in this site and very naive. When I posted for the first time, one guy responded that "he would rock my world" and being a convent-bred girl, I was really intrigued by it. We have been e-mailing since and it had been pretty intense. I know there's anonymity and all that (so maybe it's safe enough) but I still want to know your opinions/comments on this. Am I treading on hot waters?
Please help.

2007-03-20 20:41:21 · 21 answers · asked by tin2 5

there is this boy that i met over the summer at a public pool and i really like him and i finally got his number from a friend and i called him but i dont know if her likes me back but in the summer he was asking my sister a bunch of questions about me but i dont know what to do because i want to ask him to the movies this weekend but i dont want to get rejected because my mom is joining the pool this summer and im sure his dad is too so there is no possible way that i could avoid him what should i do?

2007-03-20 20:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by monkey_lover808 1

actually bestfriend that you are in love with.. but he is not aware of that...

2007-03-20 20:39:58 · 4 answers · asked by crystalink 2

Hello I have a few questions, This girl I work with I have great interest In starting a friendship and hopefully going forward from there. I've talked with her a few times once for about an hour. She had told me some Odd personal thing's she did as a kid I listened like a normal guy would. I realy wanna ask her out But everytime I consider doing it I shoot myself down before asking, I think she maybe interested in another guy I work with Although He has a girlfriend and she know's it. She sometime drops suddle hints about wanting somebody to goto lunch with her around me sometimes but again I shoot myself down. Now Im a confident guy But this one girl just makes me crazy to be around Not like other girls I've dated. Maybe somebody could put a little insight for me.

2007-03-20 20:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 18 months and I had a massive fight last night.He claims I always put him last and make him feel bad about himself and I couldn't agree less.Examples:
He was sick with the flu for 3 weeks and I didn't go see him but talked to him on the phone.What else was I supposed to do?If I went over there I could have caught it too.
He was in a car accident 3 months ago and ended up with a broken arm and leg and a concussion.He got mad at me because when I got the call from the hospital at like 7 am,I was sleeping off a night of partying and didn't go to see him until 6pm that day.Did he want me to drive over there half-asleep?He claims I put him down all the time in front our friends.I may talk about hooking up with other guys in front of him but it's all said in good fun and everyone but him takes it that way.He also keeps getting mad when I flirt with my ex.My ex and I are just like that.It's harmless fun and nothing more.
He's threatening to dump me if I don't change.

2007-03-20 20:37:26 · 27 answers · asked by Jamie 1

I became good friends with this girl at work, only one problem she has a boyfriend but he lives about 100 miles away so they are distant and been going out for a year with him. He already cheated on her once, he also calls her names, gets mad at her really easy, and very controlling of her. After about a month I knew i should make my move so I did and swept her off her feet, she broke up with her boyfriend and started dating me but after a month she said she missed him, and broke up with me, I asked whats wrong with me she said "nothing", I asked what she sees in him all she can say is I miss him. Why do assholes like that get awsome girls? I gave her her first flowers, I was surprised about that, she just wants to be friends too, but i'm trying to win her back, should I keep trying?

2007-03-20 20:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems like everytime i try to get closer to a girl...something gets in the way...whether its the girl already having a bf or by her just not being interested...I know i can be shy but i try my best to open up but it just doesn't seem to work out. I ask a girl out on a date and there have been many that simply dont follow up with a phone call for me to go pick them up even after I try calling them a couple of times. what am I doing wrong?

2007-03-20 20:37:05 · 5 answers · asked by jroq 1

Anyone else seem to agree with me? They grow up fantasizing about prince charming and are conditioned to think that's what they need, but in reality they are blood thirsty vampires who like a guy who is cocky and a jerk. Their mind is one thing, and their instincts are another. Ever hear the term women date nice guys but marry azzholez!

2007-03-20 20:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

help me pleas

2007-03-20 20:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by gs 1

respected sir,
i am an 18 year old boy confronting with deep psychological problems.I have never studied in a co-educational school and have never felt a great inclination for girls(in my neighbourhood and in my music/art classes 2-3 years back).I am a studious boy,a lover of aesthetics,who is undergoing coaching for engineering exams.After passing my boards with a whopping 93% i set out to accomplish the aforementiond task.At the coaching i joined ,however there was a girl in my batch for whom i felt a deep inclination and an unknown attraction.I started talking to her and felt my subconcious attached with her.I smuggled her phone number and surprised her.Every activity of mine was an act of impulse rather than deliberation.I felt her to be the distroyer of my mental peace and i hastily left that coaching and joined another.Even then i was not able to evacuate my mind . Since the last few months she was constantly on my mind.Not a single day did pass when i did not remember her.She is not too beautiful and not at all intelligent.I do not know her history and i am unable to gauge her attitude towards me.she has studied in a co-ed and i have seen her talking to many boys.There is a subtle look of derisive mockery,appreciation vanity and i dont know what in her eyes when we talk.She used to inflame me by peeping over her shoulders when i used to be seated at her back.She begins to breathe heavily when we talk on the phone.Is she afraid of my advances?I do not look at her in any unchaste manner.
I am realy sad to say that iam not able to assuage my mind,free it from the tenacious grip of her thoughts.She is turning me a mental and moral bankrupt.on top of everything exams are coming near.WHAT IN THE NAME OF THE LORD AM I TO DO?PLEASE HELP

2007-03-20 20:34:56 · 18 answers · asked by maxovich 1

I am 44 and the guy is 33 is that way too much of a difference in age?

2007-03-20 20:33:22 · 22 answers · asked by kathleen h 2

Mines not. His toenails on his big toes are literally so long and gnarly, that they ripped a hole in his socks, and he's STILL wearing em!!! No joke.

2007-03-20 20:30:41 · 4 answers · asked by !!joinCampaignforLiberty!! 4

His god-brother said the guy has a sex addiction.

The guy hangs with two different females at work.

Doesn't have a girl friend.

Acted a little weird when I touched his belly with my hand over his shirt...not under.

Acted weird when the other female pretended to grab his crotch...she's nervy.

How do you tell if a guy is gay if he hasn't proclaimed it?

2007-03-20 20:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

*He loves public displays of affection which bugs me to death.Why can't he just act like every guy around his gf in public?

*He keeps calling me at work just to say "hi" and "I love you".What kind of loser does that when he's going to see me in less than 6 hours?

*He keeps making big deals out of anniversaries while I don't so I always end up having to feel bad about forgetting to get him something while he goes all out.

*He's so attentive it's drives me mad especially when I'm in a bad mood and he wants me to talk about it.

*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.

I'm thinking of ending it.

2007-03-20 20:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie 1

2007-03-20 20:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been seeing a guy for almost 2 months now...we see each other once a week, he told me he likes me and all that...then last week he told me he's not really into the dating scene...so i take that he means i'm not really someone that he would date and he'd rather date someone else...but he still wanna hang out with me. i still get emails from him and text messages...i dont know what the hell he's looking for or even know what he wants...i'm just sick of men playing games with me and i'm not stupid not to know it, i can read between the lines they tell me. so right now im just ignoring this guy, i delete his emails because i just dont see the point of seeing him anymore, even tho he still tells me that he likes me and all that crap...i feel like im just one of his options. i've been heartbroken many times and i'm not gonna let it happen again...and go through all that pain

2007-03-20 20:26:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I love you even though we met online? Is it possible that I do?

2007-03-20 20:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do any of you guys know any good singing classes/lessons In Phoenix For teens that are like 12 years old

2007-03-20 20:22:09 · 4 answers · asked by Priscilla 1

my friend fall in love with a very beautiful, intelligent, shy, nice girl. but i can describe my friend as a big guy, not so clever, don't have any confident, and little bad guy.
was it any possibility for the girl to fall in love with him. how,

2007-03-20 20:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by albab 1