i have been dating my beau for the last 5 months, i had a feeling something was going on but put it down to our age gap (i am 24 he is 44) finally the truth has reared its head. Of course the situation is pretty complicated, he was living with a woman for 3 years, they broke up and had only just (literally within the week) gotten back together when we met. My boyfriend says he has wanted to tell me several times but didn't want to hurt me, he insists that he is going to break up with his partner (they don't reside together now) and he wants me to be his one and only. He says he always feels horribly guilty when he is with her instead of me but doesn't feel bad about what he is doing to her and doesn't plan on telling her about me when they break up. The trouble is I have fallen for him so hard, and he treats me so beautifully. I have only had very violent and controlling boyfriends previously and am really enjoying my time with him. What should I do? should i set him a timeframe?
2007-03-20
21:18:53
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