I have a long distance relationship with a girl. We talk almost every day. she goes out with her friends which is fine with me but some of them go to her house with the excuse of visiting her brother but actually see her. last week her favorite team played and she made bets and she lost and had no money to pay. a friend who she told me likes her asked her to kiss him if she did not have the money and she did. I got mad and have not talk to her since.
2007-03-20 21:32:40 · 16 answers · asked by Just a friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously, long distance relationships almost never work. It's not fair to either of you to try to keep this up.
On the other hand, give her credit. She was honest enough to tell you. That says something about her character, I think.
2007-03-20 21:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut, then you won't ask these questions. Sounds like you already know the answer. Forgive yes, and move on, yes. If you stay she'll probably show the same disrespect and hurt you. Your self-esteem will suffer as well. Anyone who treats you that way doesn't deserve you, literally. You just need to raise the bar or standards on who and what you allow for yourself. Your worth it. Good luck!
2007-03-20 21:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you haft to ask yourself what would you have done if the situation was reversed. what would she think and how would she handle it. if it was just a kiss because of a bet and she told you about it it is because she has trust in you, and that she loves you enough that she would not keep a secret like that from you. also she might not have wanted you to hear it from the other guy. if you heard it from the other guy than she probably just wanted to keep you sheltered. if a relationship is to work you must have comeplete trust.
2007-03-20 21:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive. It's best to forget her. It sounds to me like she is playin you for a fool. How many other guys do you think she would kiss even if she had money? Or what if that friend,asked her to have sex with him cause she didn't have any money to pay her bet. Do you think she would have did it?
She sounds untrustworthy to me.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-20 21:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ღ♥Jeanene♥ღ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
That's angering. I feel the injustice...
But yes, you should forgive her (easy as that is for me to say). We need to forgive each other, because we all do stuff that hurts other people.
Forgive her and clear your conscience of this thing. You may not stay in the relationship, but there is no reason to lug around hostility, anger, or hatred. It will eventually eat you from the inside.
God bless.
2007-03-20 21:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was honest, talk to her about how you feel. Give yourself some time to decide if being with her is what you want and can handle. Decide if you can forgive and forget or move on. I bet there are alot of local girls if you do break up. Good luck.
2007-03-20 21:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say ...forgive her...keep on contact with her..as
friends...but forget about having or carrying on a gf/bf relationship....for as long as you guys are miles apart
there are gonna be transgressions to the relationship
from one or either side...and so the best is to do away
with it..and be only friends..ok
2007-03-20 21:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is kissing to pay for a bet what else is she doing??? You know her better than any of us, so if this was a isolated incident and its not normally in her nature then forgive and forget, if it is in her nature then kick her to the curb
2007-03-20 21:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by missy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u have the right to be mad man cuz if she didn't have the money she could have asked you to spot her cuz I know you would not say that she owes you right!!!!!! not the question is should u forgive her!! I think so....... but let her know that you were upset and that it can not happen again!!!!!!!!!! on the REal
2007-03-20 21:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nazaire J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, there are millions of women on this earth. If one chick does something that you don't like, then you either have to accept it or move on to the next one.
If my woman kissed someone else, I would not accept it, I'd go find one who kisses ONLY ME!
Cheers
2007-03-20 21:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋