My ex wife & I, have been together for 10 years, & recently broke up we have 2 children 9 & 5 years old, any way recently i found in her documents videos of her masterbating & also found sent e-mails to a guy which shes been sending too! I dont know if i should say something about it or just let it go, why does it bother me that shes doing this
2007-03-20 21:42:20 · 3 answers · asked by joeyht@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mostly because its a pretty immatue thing to be doing. I mean I think I was 12 when I thought that was cool. Had fun with it, now I'm older and it just seems like a foolish way to get your ego off. Ether way it would only make since that this troubles you and it would seem far that you have ever right to talk to her about, as the mother of your kiddos. I wouldn't worry about confronting her for your own sack, but that women should realize that she has kids. That in its own right means she should act like a mature adult not a spoiled kid who just found out how powerful her own sexuality is. Thats what highschool was for. Bring up the point, is this what should we love for her kiddos to be doing at her age? Doesn't she expect more from herself? I mean its kinda sad when all a grown up needs for a fullfilling relationship is a computer..... I'd say talk to her, but then again you are also to blame for letting her get this bad... you were her partner for 10 years, and it would seem she ether laid to you bad about how she felt about herself or you laid to her bad about how she felt to you. This is usually what happens when people havn't developed a healthy since of self.... for the kiddos you both might need to work on this...
2007-03-21 03:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of roughly this. If divorced human beings went interior the direction of the comparable psychological problems as you.....the place could be? Ask your ultimate chum how she might sense if she theory you have been going out along with her ex. And cyber intercourse isn't the comparable ingredient as real intercourse.
2016-10-19 05:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex so you no longer get to have a say in what she does. If it was effecting your kids thats one thing, but it sounds like she moved on and so should you.
2007-03-21 14:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by G Money 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋