Let's keep it real: guys like to sleep around because we're hardwired to do so. Genetically, we've evolved but our orignal role as mammals was to propogate the species. This meant sleeping with every fertile woman that you could, get her pregnant, more kids, life continues, and now we have global warming (but I digress).
Now it's 2007, and suddenly guys can't fight to the death over dwindling food supply, go out and hunt with a bow and arrow and bring down game (and stay in shape while doing so), and be the undisputed lords of the cave (err...household). But we still kind of want to do those things, just like we want to sleep around.
But the reality is that we can't commit murder (a thing called the law), we can't kill and eat whatever animal we see (the zoo frowns on that), and we can't tell our women what we want them to do and expect them to do it (Hillary Clinton (LOL!))...we also can't sleep around without ramifications (Hillary Clinton, again!).
So, the drive to be promiscuous is strong in men, just as strong as the drive to nest is strong in women (if you don't believe the latter, watch what happens when a woman comes in from a weekend with an engagement ring...it's like PIRANHA!).
If you want a guy to be faithful, understand that he's going to look and don't come down on him, but draw clear boundaries on what else he can do (like touching...all girl-touches are bad-touches to a married man!), and then find a guy who respects you enough to remain faithful. That's really what it boils down to: his love for you needs to outweigh his urge to nail his personal trainer, even though she's got a six pack tighter than a drum and wears those frakking running shorts that barely cover--ahem--where was I...?
And THEN don't be a doormat...if someone cheats on you once, trust me, they're gonna do it again, especially if you tolerate it.
Finally, you may want to consider an older guy (within reason) since they'll be more likely to have gotten it out of his system vs. a younger guy who's ready to nail a knothole (being one of the latter, I can tell you from firsthand experience).
Hope that helps!
2007-03-20 21:30:18
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answered by Anonymous
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I have friends who have been married for 25 years, they r totally in love and loyal to one another after all this time, so the answer is a big yes, Rare, but possible.
2007-03-20 21:30:22
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answered by flamingo 6
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See there's a false impression right here. I easily have debated over this subject count for many of my grownup existence. remarkable isn't somebody who purely we could the female get each little thing and make all the strategies. remarkable is somebody who's respectful, has manners and treats a woman like a female in any respect cases. remarkable is raised, remarkable is taught and remarkable is inspired to be that guy. All women human beings quicker or later of their existence needs remarkable... from what I hear and notice. yet what they decide for is the undesirable boy. See undesirable boys are not inevitably ones who abuse women human beings or tear them down right here and there. undesirable boys purely, for loss of a miles better description, gets the female in mattress. And it oftentimes goe no extra than mattress room antics. it ought to final for days, weeks, months or now and back years. And on an identical time as she's permitting the undesirable boy to drill her for oil remarkable stands outdoors patiently waiting an hazard. as quickly as she's achieved with the undesirable boy she might easily even supply remarkable a attempt... yet she'll yearn for that undesirable boy. remarkable won't in any respect, ever, ever stand a finished hazard. possibly as quickly as she's wiped out and given one or 2 or 3 undesirable boys a baby or many will she finally settle for remarkable. possibly. As damn!Im wonderful! published she'd %. a remarkable, solid warm guy over a undesirable boy anyday.... however the solid, warm area is what constitutes a undesirable boy interior the 1st place. remarkable does not get the undergarments moistened. remarkable does not have a 'look' or a sense to it that makes it warm. stay-each and each-day-properly says she'd take a remarkable guy over a undesirable boy anyday... yet that may not likely and the fact even pronounced that she hasn't achieved that yet in the different case she might have mentioned that she HAD taken a remarkable guy over a undesirable boy. you reside expectantly and assertively and you will continuously attraction to the comparable style of girls human beings. the fast-term relationship type heavy on the actual and lightweight on the emotional. remarkable does not in basic terms purely end final... they under no circumstances get to the commencing line.
2016-10-19 05:50:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I know alot of guys that are faithful to the women they love. Just because there is one bad or maybe even 20 bad apples in the batch doesn't mean they are all bad. Move on and meet a wonderful man who will treat you like the princess you were meant to be treated like.
2007-03-20 21:19:11
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answered by Alicia E 3
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I thought there was until my boyfriend broke my heart for no good reason. I hate men most of them are all the same they all play games lead you on take what they want and leave you and move onto other things when it suits them. They can say I love you all they want but it's just a joke. Screw Ryan Williams I hate you for what you did! LoL sorry just had to say that!
2007-03-20 21:22:16
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answered by allie84 1
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Let's see there's
Superman...he always had the hots for Lois
Batman...never admitted he was gay (don't ask don't tell hero policy) but, he sure was a little too close to Robin...Christ did you know they lived together?
Well that's two and hopefully the third will be the Hero you are with now or will fall in love with tomorrow.....
2007-03-20 21:24:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Me and every married guy I am friends with.
2007-03-20 21:15:56
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answered by Cybeq 5
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GAWD I wish there was a grammer check..anyway, the answer is NOPE!
2007-03-20 21:17:07
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answered by Bonita Applebaum 5
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Yes, and I'm married.
2007-03-20 21:16:27
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answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7
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yes im the one
2007-03-20 21:15:47
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answered by gaf 3
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