Ok, here's the situation: my boyfriend is coming to visit me in a few weeks and we're going to visit some of his relatives who reside where I do. Well, about 17 years ago, I messed around with his aunt's stepson at a party who at that time was a married man and I didn't know it. My boyfriend let me know from jump that my past is my past and he wouldn't judge me from that - however, I'm not sure how he would handle that. I really want this relationship to work. He, like most people, is big on honesty and I'm just praying that this doesn't get out. Sooo, should I just bring it up and explain to him what happened, or just simply say nothing and if someone in the family says something, then explain? I don't like the idea of withholding anything from him, but I also feel that some things should just remain untold being that it was so many years ago and I was a teen. Also, he doesn't know that I'm aware know that he's associated with this guy.
I would appreciate your opinions
2007-03-20
19:23:05
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