Earlier in the night this girl I've been dating on and off for about 4 months and I got into a little arugment. Nothing big though and we made up over dinner in no time. However, when we went back to my house, normally she has been very affectionate, but this time when I moved into kiss her she said that she didn't feel like being touched tonight. I asked her if she was still mad at me or if she didn't feel attracted to me anymore and she said no and she said she was still attracted to me. She also said, " well if you knew me well enough then you would understand." In other words, she refused to be touched but she said she still liked me and wanted to hang out tomorrow when she got off work. Is this even possible? Or is she just being nice and trying to let me off easy? Do women not like to be touched by a guy they like? Any and all thoughts welcome? thanks!!
2007-03-20 20:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please.... I dont like your kind of boys at all......
If she said that "she like u" mean she really do..........
& if she ask you not to touch her then whats a big deal....
Trust me she likes u & give her some time to be with u.... Dont try to get sexual but say u like her too & say sorry again & ask her to be with yoou always.......
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 20:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she said she wasn't still mad, I have a feeling she wasn't over the argument, or at least it was still lingering in her mind and at the moment in time, she wasn't in the mode to be touched. The tough thing about your question of: "is she being nice and trying to let me off easy," is that you won't really know until tomorrow, if she cancels or wants "to talk." To your last question, yes, women do not like to be touched by a guy they like if they are still miffed at them. Give it the night, hang out tomorrow, and if tomorrow is going well, then don't let what happen today ruin it. Or maybe, the whole thing just needs a second conversation, which isn't the worse thing in the world. Hope that helps, and I know, the time b/t now and tomorrow will seem like an eternity. Good luck, I'm pulling for 'ya.
2007-03-21 03:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by spadamski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the solution to your problem reall easy: she's still upset about the fight, but doesn't want it to get worse. Odds are she probably was losing the argument, or just didn't care to argue anymore so decided to try to put in the past when she wasn't resolved on the issue. I've been in a steady relationship for a while and my best advice from now on is pick your battles. People always have differences in relationships, so let her win the fights that aren't important to you, so when it comes times to the issues that affect you most she can be more understanding. oh and PS, from experience, women are almost NEVER going to be in a good mood after losing an argument even if they know you're right, give her a little space, she'll calm down if it's really resolved.
2007-03-21 03:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by hiller128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of of women/men take awhile to get over the effects of an argument. The adrenalin flow leaves them tense. It is not easy to be romantic when your tense. Give her time for her body to relax again. If she is not really angry, she will be back to herself by tomorrow.
2007-03-21 03:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME, shes pissed off about the fight. Whatever you were arguing about, you may not think its a big deal, but she does. Sometimes men dont understand that women get upset a lot easier than men, and men dont always understand why.
So if I were you, id REALLYYYYYYYYYYY apologise about whatever it was you were arguing about, and tell her that you realised it upset you, and that was the last thing you wanted to do.
2007-03-21 03:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nashwa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi guy! i just want u 2 know dat d kind of luv ur glrl has 4 u is pure INFATUATION (obsessed). all u hav doin is just 2 BE WISE.
2007-03-21 03:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by ayo hurler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, red scare.
The commies will leave in a few days.
2007-03-21 03:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is on her period... probably that is what she ment maybe pay attention to her no just go there and think u r going to get laid... be more into her
2007-03-21 03:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something may have been bothering her, is it something at her work or home? ask her if she's alright, or else she may still be mad but it doesnt sound like that.
2007-03-21 03:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy,you really pissed her off.Give her room and dont push her.She'll calm down.Just dont bring it up again.
2007-03-21 03:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by jack y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋