A few years ago I met a nice guy, Sam, while dating another. Sam has been anxiously waiting for me to break up with "other" guy. I finally have, and Sam wants us to be a couple. I love hanging around Sam and going out with him, but I do not feel that "zing" of romance when I'm with him. I like him, think he's smart and capable of being a great boyfriend, but I just don't feel anything romantic for him. I'm trying, but it isn't happening. He gets mad when I try to date other guys because he feels I ought to be his. He feels that God brought us together.
I'm not sure whether to trust my feelings or not. I've been wrong in the past. Should I continue with Sam, hoping that those romantic feelings grow? Right now, I cannot even think about holding his hand, let alone anything more. We are both middle aged. I ought to grab this chance at romance, but the thought of being intimate with him just makes me cringe. Help!
2007-03-19
07:52:29
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Kitten Hood
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