Singles & Dating - 19 March 2007

just been given 10k by mum wondering whether i should use itso i can travel and surf around the world for a year ot two. Plus i just been dumped. or should i stay and concentrate on a career and have the burden of my ex just around the corner.

2007-03-19 23:14:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend went away to new york for 5 days, i was afraid of her cheating on me. I believed her that she didnt do anything but i had her myspace password and when i checked it, i saw messages between her and this guy she saw while she was visiting and it suggested that they did stuff. Shes known him for years and the message was pretty clear about what happened. She swears on her life that the message was fake and she did it because she assumed that i was looking at her myspace... so now i dont know if i should believe her or not. What do you guys think? Shes sworn on everything and i brought up the idea of a lie detector test (not serious but she thinks i am) and she was more then willing to consent and is standing her ground....

2007-03-19 23:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by chris j 1

2007-03-19 23:11:10 · 12 answers · asked by dino 1

my girlfriend went away to new york for 5 days, i was afraid of her cheating on me. I believed her that she didnt do anything but i had her myspace password and when i checked it, i saw messages between her and this guy she saw while she was visiting and it suggested that they did stuff. Shes known him for years and the message was pretty clear about what happened. She swears on her life that the message was fake and she did it because she assumed that i was looking at her myspace... so now i dont know if i should believe her or not. What do you guys think? Shes sworn on everything and i brought up the idea of a lie detector test (not serious but she thinks i am) and she was more then willing to consent and is standing her ground....

2007-03-19 23:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by chris j 1

i'm just wondering. thanks =]

2007-03-19 23:10:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

why do you blokes never want to commit? or what is it about commitment that scares ya?

2007-03-19 23:08:20 · 12 answers · asked by parent 1

Whats the sweetest thing can a girl do for a guy? And the most romantic thing also. How can a girl show her guy that she cares and that he's the only one for her

2007-03-19 23:07:07 · 8 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2

what do you look for in a 14 yr old girl??besides personality and niceness like how they act around your friends and people??

2007-03-19 23:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl's confused. Don't know why, but every once in a while she gets in these weird moods where she gets all moody (and it's not that time) but she resigns herself to telling me that she's inconsolable. I assume she just wants the attention but it irritates me to no end. I would, and do, give her all the attention she wants whenever she comes around. So how do I get her to tell me what she wants from us? When it's good w/ us, it's really good. And it usually is. But every so often, she gets like this and w/out any input from her, I can't help but assume she isn't sure she wants us to be together. Am I just jumping to conclusions and reading too much into it?

2007-03-19 23:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6

Why is it so bad to date an older guy if you are having a perfect understanding, You love each other and the s** is amazing.

2007-03-19 23:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by lencic 1

2007-03-19 23:01:33 · 2 answers · asked by sarah1 2

GUYS / GRILS PLZ ANS I need ur opinion.

so this girl i work with. Seemed really intersted in me, gave me her number. I really liked her. So I call her try to ask her out, but didn't work

I try to ask her out again after couple of weeks, and she said she's busy.

But now she's acting weird, her attitude and smile is changed. I don't know what to do? (She only wants to talk about work related things, nothing personal)

PLEZ help!

2007-03-19 22:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by S. 1

Even though no one in the office suspects anything.

2007-03-19 22:58:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you could still be with this person...but,. they have moved on with their lives?
How have you been feeling because of them moving on? Have you tried moving on with your life...so that it won't bother you any longer?
Has this helped at all?
Why or why not....?

2007-03-19 22:57:34 · 6 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2

i am not a coward, dont get me wrong, but it is not easy bringing the words out of my mouth.i just cant look my fiance in the face and tell him.
His cousin does know and he thinks we should just let things remain how they are. but the guilt.the guilt is just eating me up. thank you all for your replies.i am going to tell him.but i need time to get ready for it.
he is such a good man and i hate myself for having to do this to him.i really dont want to loose him though.so what do i do after telling him.oh god i am so confused.i know i have to pay for my own actions but this is just too much.by the way i am pregnant with twins, and he is already looking for names.i dont know if i can do it..god help me but i know i must!
so the question is what do i do next after telling him?

2007-03-19 22:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

any heart broken indian gal wanna be my friend?

2007-03-19 22:56:31 · 11 answers · asked by Manu 1

2007-03-19 22:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by jessica 1

You just in no way at all possible were ever gonna be attracted to, EVER in your whole life?
What did you do? Did you tell this person, or not? What was the outcome?

2007-03-19 22:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2

I have no partner at this point in time, and I need some new ideas for fun on my own, So .... i'm broad minded so the sky is the limit!!

2007-03-19 22:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by mamabear_45 5

2007-03-19 22:54:13 · 17 answers · asked by sharad srivastava 1

2007-03-19 22:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a loving n caring guy... the best among my exes... however im elder than him 2 years... but he act so much mature than me.. which is good to me..

However, I keep on thinking about marriage already... I know its too early for me n him... some more he is not financially stable as he is jus a salesman... but to me... he is really a good yet hard to find type of guy... i dun wanna lose him...

The problem is im scare... wat if im already 30 and he stil doesn't earn much for starting a family? He once told me tat he wishes to hav his own car & own house then only he can give me happiness in life... but he could not buy a car n house in juz few years time... at least he must hav more than $100k...

If tis really happen (he stil unable to settle down with me)... wat should I do? Im already 28 - 30 years old, should I wait?

2007-03-19 22:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by WaiYee 2

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. i dunno why his mate keeps on bringing it up randomly. sometimes this boy say he doesnt fancy me.

2007-03-19 22:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with my gf for about 3 months now and we always argue about the stupidest things, its usually about me asking her questions because Im scared that she doesn't or won't like me. She has said that I am pushing her away. What can I do o stop these thoughts from taking me over. I have a low self esteem btw...and I dont want to lose a good person bcuz of something I never learned to take care off.

2007-03-19 22:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am talking women that are like a size 16 plus.

2007-03-19 22:50:11 · 2 answers · asked by Black Mamba 1

I'm with him for almost half a yr.Sometimes I think we have diff values.Like,I care about my work.Last time I didn't get the promotion I wanted and I got very depressed and a bit snappy but he was not considerate or being understanding.He even asked me what's so bad about not getting the promotion?Also,I went to Starbucks with a male coworker after work,he got pissed off...oh hell no half of the population is men geez!!!Initially he got pissed off when I went for an one-on-one dinner with a guy fd.I explained we have no common fds and we are purely fds.I compromised and promised I wont do that again.And later I couldnt even go grab a drink at starbucks with a guy coworker....things just seem to get worse and worse.I feel very stressed in everyth I do.Even I went for annual dinner for my company he got pissed off coz I didnt text him to say I miss him or sth.He always wants me to swear this and that.Now Im worried that Im gonna break those promises.Sometimes I just think we dont match.

2007-03-19 22:49:59 · 2 answers · asked by Lisa C 1

should i give it time before i start being friends with my ex again or should i totally shut her out my life for good.As she hirt me. She said to me the last thing she wanted to lose is my friendship.

2007-03-19 22:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my special someone so much and I would like to be his wife. I'm just afraid someday he will found out that I dont have my Time deposit bank account ever since. It will really show my dishonesty. I know he will understand it but i cant tell him the truth just by now. I have my pride that I'm taking care of. He just taught I'm good in savings although I have savings but not as big as he think..and he likes me for that "save money for the future characteristic". I dont know where he got that idea that I have a Time Deposit bank account. But its my bad when he asked me do I really have that, and I said yes. Ever since, I didnt tell him any stories that is a lie, only that thing that he knew I have that Time Deposit acct. So, sometimes I think that I rather let go of him just for that pride.

2007-03-19 22:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met one girl more than a week before infact she works in the hotel where i live in Israel. And even i am not that kind of guy who falls for girls easly. but i fall for her on her first looks. there is somethign in her eyes which makes me atracted towards her
Well let me come to the point here. Well i started speaking to her and she too started speakign with me. In between she told me she is dating some one(oh i forgot to tell she is israeli and i am indian) Well i ssaid ok but i thought let me try my luck well i tried to spend more time with her in hotel when i get time i got a feelign she became comfortabel with me in conversation.
But i use to ask her can i drop her home she always use to say no sweaty its ok.yesterday when i again askd her she siad no please i like to go home alone. i know when a person fall in love he do crazy thing and he or she really dotn want to loose a person .is she avoiding me because i am not jewish?

2007-03-19 22:49:05 · 13 answers · asked by vikas_dellcomputers 2

I was dating a guy for 4 years who I'd fallen in love with. I've now broken up with him and have met someone else who I really like. My new boyfriend says he's fallen in love for the first time and wants to marry me. I haven't fallen in love with him however and I'm wondering (after 6 months!) how many people out there would continue the relationship? Give it time maybe?

2007-03-19 22:43:27 · 12 answers · asked by sky 1