I met one girl more than a week before infact she works in the hotel where i live in Israel. And even i am not that kind of guy who falls for girls easly. but i fall for her on her first looks. there is somethign in her eyes which makes me atracted towards her
Well let me come to the point here. Well i started speaking to her and she too started speakign with me. In between she told me she is dating some one(oh i forgot to tell she is israeli and i am indian) Well i ssaid ok but i thought let me try my luck well i tried to spend more time with her in hotel when i get time i got a feelign she became comfortabel with me in conversation.
But i use to ask her can i drop her home she always use to say no sweaty its ok.yesterday when i again askd her she siad no please i like to go home alone. i know when a person fall in love he do crazy thing and he or she really dotn want to loose a person .is she avoiding me because i am not jewish?
2007-03-19 22:49:05 · 13 answers · asked by vikas_dellcomputers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This does not have anything to do with her religion. I feel that since she does have a boyfriend, this is getting in the way of your relationship.
Perhaps she just wants to be friends. I know you may not want to hear that but that more in likely is the truth. She may be comfortable with you in conversation but again, so are friends.
I know where you are coming from with this as I had exactly the same thing happen to me where the girl just wanted to be friends and I wanted more. It ended up where I did not see her anymore because of my yearning for her and that was not fair to not only her but myself.
Don't blame yourself on this one. Sometimes that is just the way it is. I hope and wish you success on your next try at true love.
2007-03-19 23:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Randy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's telling you the truth - that she has a boyfriend. She's just being polite to you by talking with you. Her behavior means that she's not entertaining other guys.
There are so many modern women now who believes that, in love or relationships, it does not matter if you're American, Indian, Norwegian, Asian or African. So, in fairness to this Israeli woman, she's not avoiding you just because you're not like her. Although in conservative families, women usually obey their parents' wishes when it comes to relationships or marriage.
Just look for another woman.
2007-03-19 23:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a journey and a test. You have a lifetime to figure out who you are. What you're made of is your legacy. Will the world remember you? Or just a few you've touched thru your life?
2016-03-29 07:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly not... she is juz not in love with u... its obvious right? If she is really like u, sure she will let u drop her home... if a girl says no, means she doesn't want to create any misunderstanding... and juz wanna be frens with u
2007-03-19 22:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by WaiYee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, sometimes its hard to involve with someone with different beliefs and strong family ties. Anyways, just tell her how you feel about her and maybe you will get the answer quickly than trying to think about what is going on. goodluck!
2007-03-19 22:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. maybe she avoiding u because of someone she dating with. u are rushing her to like u and accepting u. i dont think that wise moved. specially when she told u that she's dating someone. i think it means she availabe only for a friendship relationship.
2007-03-19 22:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see my dear don't get frustrated be practical, if a girl is avoiding means she is liking u , keep trying , best of luck
2007-03-19 23:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by dino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are only attractd towards her,... n its not love... its infactuation... it is pretty normal... n u too have ego right.. why u wanna go behind her if she's not interested??
u like her, i know.. just let the feeling be the same.. she doesn't deserve more... keep your feelings for the one who deserves... right... hope i answered you ... all the best..
2007-03-19 22:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not give up!!!! You must try harder to win her heart... i know she got boyfriend but some day she will break with him... so you should not give up so easy.. or not you will lose!!! =X
2007-03-19 22:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always show your love decently, their is no question for struggle or give up.
2007-03-19 23:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋