Why is it so bad to date an older guy if you are having a perfect understanding, You love each other and the s** is amazing.
2007-03-19 23:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by lencic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People think it's bad because usually the older person is just using the younger one. Even if the younger person is having fun and consenting, as you get older you'll begin to see that the younger person is wasting time and energy getting screwed by someone older and smarter than they are when they could spending their time more wisely and constructively. But most people have to make their own mistakes rather than learning from others. Good luck.
2007-03-19 23:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really difficult to answer this question without knowing how old you are, and, how old he is! If you are a teenager, and he is older than you by more than a couple of years, it could be "unhealthy" in that you may not be on the same page, emotionally, physically, or in other profound ways, and usually that ends with the younger person getting hurt somehow.
2007-03-19 23:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More promising and caring are the old man. How they are considered bad?
2007-03-19 23:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only bad if you are underage and he is over 18....other than that, love does not see age...
2007-03-19 23:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing bad about it...love has no age limits, so just dont listen to others and do what makes u happy ;)
2007-03-19 23:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by blabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said it is bad? older guys pamper girls they are more mature and they definitly do not cheat...much!i love older guys
2007-03-19 23:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chelseachic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its bad it doesnt matter about the age gap go for it ! lifes too short.
2007-03-19 23:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by lindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋