This girl's confused. Don't know why, but every once in a while she gets in these weird moods where she gets all moody (and it's not that time) but she resigns herself to telling me that she's inconsolable. I assume she just wants the attention but it irritates me to no end. I would, and do, give her all the attention she wants whenever she comes around. So how do I get her to tell me what she wants from us? When it's good w/ us, it's really good. And it usually is. But every so often, she gets like this and w/out any input from her, I can't help but assume she isn't sure she wants us to be together. Am I just jumping to conclusions and reading too much into it?
2007-03-19 23:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could have a mental disorder (and I don't mean a serious one, perhaps depression) Maybe it's time you tell her if she doesn't want your support during this time, you still care about her and to call you when she's feeling more herself. She'll maybe pull it a couple times before she either dumps you if that what she is having trouble with. OR she will smarten up when she figures out you're not going to take her crap.
2007-03-19 23:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Enchanted Greenheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sure could be PMS. It could also be that she's a little needy and sometimes really just wants attention. It happens to a lot of my female friends I know. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or is trying to be a pain. Best thing to do is sit down and seriously talk to her about it.
Alternative Solution: if you're able to get her into MMORPG gaming and get her addicted to WoW (World of Warcraft), she'll make friends and have fun there and leave you some alone time. Downside: you might be wanting more of her time that she'll wanna spend on the computer, then you'll be the naggy needy one. I guess maybe look at other alternatives. Something to keep her attention and distract her from you every now and then.
2007-03-19 23:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by hoangnkarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and Women by nature are actors. Their acting only gets better as they grow older. And they are such wonderful actresses that we poor men believe in what they are doing and although we get frustrated, for the sake of PEACE we endure all this drama.
Women have been told that they are the weaker sex all these years and this drama bit is their way of self preservation.
So friend, either you put this up with your girl and suffer silently or you are going to loose her.
2007-03-19 23:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect she gets dramatic when Auntie Flo is in town. You just have to grin and bear it those few days a month...
The alternative is to find someone who's a bit less of a drama queen (they aren't all like that)
2007-03-19 23:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama? hey if she really worth it, give her what she wants. I mean boys, no offense sometimes get immature, lazy, late, piggish and stubborn sometimes. get the pros and cons. Mostly guys don't anything that girls don't like, if you don't like the drama. If she really do like needs attention, tell her snap out of it or else get a new bf. goodluck!
2007-03-20 02:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks are all into drama. she's a drama queen.
turn and run as fast as you can. there are plenty of normal chicks out there. dump that one and find one with less dramatics
2007-03-19 23:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...don't jump to conclusions. Sometimes us girls need to go a little crazy. It just hormones...just be nice to her and hug her alot.
2007-03-19 23:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
very frankly ken your are being very dramatic urself and U yourself sound very very confused,how can you expect someone to be simple you seemed to sound more complex urself to me.
2007-03-19 23:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋