I am with my gf for about 3 months now and we always argue about the stupidest things, its usually about me asking her questions because Im scared that she doesn't or won't like me. She has said that I am pushing her away. What can I do o stop these thoughts from taking me over. I have a low self esteem btw...and I dont want to lose a good person bcuz of something I never learned to take care off.
2007-03-19 22:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her, ask her what can i do to make things better. she's the only one that would know your flaws
2007-03-19 22:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to become more confident in yourself. Take up a hobby like Karate that will teach you discipline and give you confidence. You have to realize that she is with you because she finds you special....don't question it, enjoy it...revel in it!! You will push her away by being insecure. If you don't want to lose her, shower her with the love you feel for her and learn to accept the fact that this wonderful, sweet person finds you to be the one she wants to spend her time with! Ease up on yourself!!
2007-03-20 05:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good you know your weak points. Now work on it..
Start admiring yourself, say loud your good qualities in the shower, speak loud and confidentally.. L0ok at everyone in their eyes when you talk.. Whistle a tune when you are walking.. Put your hands in your pocket as you walk in a crowd.
All the above starts giving you confidence and very soon, you will feel confident and that will make a tremendous change in your relationship with this girl. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-20 05:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to learn is to trust your girlfriend thoroughly and secondly, set aside worries that she doesn't like you. That's the only way you can annihilate your insecurities in your relationship. If your gf told you that she really loves you, believe it, don't doubt it. Afterall, no one ever knows if two persons really are meant for each other. Just believe in her...
2007-03-20 05:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Maricor D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your insecurity or hers? I'm not making sense out of what you say. Your questions are driivng her away? Why is she scared of answering your questions??????
2007-03-20 05:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust man! y question? does she do things that you don't like tell her and she will i think understand you, its about communication, don't talk like an arrogant person all the time.goodluck!
2007-03-20 05:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her questions.........please
2007-03-20 05:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋