i am not a coward, dont get me wrong, but it is not easy bringing the words out of my mouth.i just cant look my fiance in the face and tell him.
His cousin does know and he thinks we should just let things remain how they are. but the guilt.the guilt is just eating me up. thank you all for your replies.i am going to tell him.but i need time to get ready for it.
he is such a good man and i hate myself for having to do this to him.i really dont want to loose him though.so what do i do after telling him.oh god i am so confused.i know i have to pay for my own actions but this is just too much.by the way i am pregnant with twins, and he is already looking for names.i dont know if i can do it..god help me but i know i must!
so the question is what do i do next after telling him?
2007-03-19 22:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait and see what h will do next.after telling him you would have done your part(a good part)the rest is all up to him what he decides to do.but make sure you dont push him.im so sorry you have to go through this
2007-03-19 22:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chelseachic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Liz
You are in one mell of a hess
and you're certainly not going to make it any better if you keep stacking the lies up---one upon the other !!
And, face it, that's what's going on here
If you don't come clean on all of this garbage right away
and let the chips fall where they may--- this will hang over
your head like a curse for what could be the rest of your life !!
2007-03-19 23:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....just read your prev question......
Right here goes....
(1) It would break my heart to find out that the babies were not mine....
(2) I would how ever want to be told..... if you are going to keep them....?
(3) Have an abortion..... then make babies with the man you love....
(4) I would kick 7 shades of Sh*it out of my cousin....And Dump you so quickly....
It would completely destroy me as a person..... either way....so best you have an abortion with out him knowing and just say that you miscarried....
And to start with get his cousin out of the house......
2007-03-19 23:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a job to raise the twins but of course don't give the baby to anybody include their father.
2007-03-19 23:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by syaoran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to tell her the trueth, what is going on explain it well to him, it is better to tell the true than to keep it
2007-03-19 23:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋