my girlfriend went away to new york for 5 days, i was afraid of her cheating on me. I believed her that she didnt do anything but i had her myspace password and when i checked it, i saw messages between her and this guy she saw while she was visiting and it suggested that they did stuff. Shes known him for years and the message was pretty clear about what happened. She swears on her life that the message was fake and she did it because she assumed that i was looking at her myspace... so now i dont know if i should believe her or not. What do you guys think? Shes sworn on everything and i brought up the idea of a lie detector test (not serious but she thinks i am) and she was more then willing to consent and is standing her ground....
2007-03-19 23:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by chris j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's lying. Act accordingly.
2007-03-19 23:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Memphis Lawdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit of a stresser, if you take her word for it then it will niggle in the back of your mind forever and if you let her take the lie detector test then you are simply telling her that there is no trust between you and that will also seriously harm the relationship, therefore your in a no win situation only you know what you have to do but be prepared to live with the consequences.
good luck.
2007-03-19 23:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prolly shouldn't have done the myspace thing, you know you'll find something.
I don't trust her, why would she do that? That's like saying, I am gonna f myself right now, so I can get f'ed later. Doesn't make sense.
She's lying bro, but it's probably nothing; she prolly went there partied a bit, and had a good innocent time.
2007-03-19 23:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question isn't about whether or not she's telling you the truth. The question is really do you believe she's telling the truth. You are in a position where you either need to decide, yes, you do and drop it and convince her you're sorry for pushing the issue or no, you don't and do whatever you think is appropriate in a relationship where you've been cheated on.
2007-03-19 23:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is easy. the respond is time as you have already concluded and there extremely is not any beneficial hearth way which you will ever have confidence her returned. notwithstanding in case you do finally recover from it, you're constantly going to have those concepts interior the back of your head. issues like: "Wow she's putting out with so and so this night, do you think of she'll do something?" And paranoia is a given. the only way you could totally have confidence her is to possibly save tabs on her. i'm no longer saying secret agent on her and lock her remote from all and sundry, yet possibly you could ask one in each of your good finding guy chum's to flirt together with her and notice the way it is going?
2016-10-01 05:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her why did she put the message up...tell her how you felt....she may have put the message up because you were using her myspace account and feeling uncomfortable with that....communicate with her and see what her end of the story is....try to make things work for the best....
2007-03-19 23:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on how much you trust her. if you really liked her and if she really likes you. and if you think you can work it out between the two of you..
2007-03-19 23:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by gothic girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let let her choose
2007-03-19 23:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋