please don't say don't change yourself...
something else...
would be more helpful...
2007-03-19 08:04:13 · 14 answers · asked by geniveve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seduction . thaths the best way know to man if yo dont want to change yourself
2007-03-19 08:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I don't mean to say the opposite of what other people say, but I will say this.
1. Don't seem desperate. Flatering the hell out of someone will make it seem like you're too easy. He's go to give too, you know.
2. Strike a conversation, make it personal. Talk about what you like to do with other people...not remotely what I meant. Talk about the good thing you like to do for people that will make them better people or fun thing you like to do.
3. Once you get a good conversation going, tell him you think he's a nice guy, but look away like you've suddenly become embarrassed or shocked at something you said. Slightly graze your ear with a finger. Then, turn and smile for ONLY two seconds. That step by step tactic works for me every time. If that person continues to shoot looks at you, I think you'll be set. Just don't use it for evil....
4. The conversation is the important part. It has to be about something that would tie you two to a similar converational need. Hopes and dreams, that sort of thing. Make mention about the last man in you life, and only mention. Don't go on about the other guy. Nothing about current events, no gas prices, or he'll get the feeling that you need him for money. Show that you are independant. You are strong and an enjoyable person to be around.
I hope that's what you needed....Just be yourself. If it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. I say it anyway, don't change yourself. Just make yourself the best YOU can be. There is a difference.
2007-03-19 08:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If you flirt with him just very subtle , you should get his attention. Most men love any kind of positive attention that they get from a woman. Compliment him on his hair, or the shirt he is wearing.
2007-03-19 08:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on becomming best friends cause if you can't achieve that goal the don't expect the love connection to be solid.
Keep those legs closed and you'll get more respect in tthe long run.
2007-03-19 08:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes. Show him how you can be one of the fun girls in life. Help him with the car watch football, do guy things with him and he will want to do more with you.
2007-03-19 08:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my favorite is to spit a coffe or soft drink or water or something .. the best way to be noticed by a guy apres moi .. but make it look like an accident you know
2007-03-19 08:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont seem intrested 2 much
2007-03-19 08:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by black bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a guy want you, he either does or he doesn't. Don try to change yourself to please him.
2007-03-19 08:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt w/him.....this is the best way for guy to recognized us...always compliment him but remember dont look so obvious..
always smile and look good.
good luck
2007-03-19 08:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self as much as posible but if you want to get his attion low cut shirts and tight jeens always work
2007-03-19 08:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by jo m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋