Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

2007-03-18 13:36:29 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah S. 1

Me and my girlfriend, whoo i love with all my heart, got into 2 fights this week. We've been together a year and a bit and i know she hates it when we fight and that it really bothers me. Seeing as it was my fault i thought i should make it up. I wrote her a really sweet, long letter saying basically that shes perfect and that i want to be the one whos always there for her, the one who makes her smile when nothing can. Its on nice paper and in a very cute envelope. I also included "heart coupons" i cut out and wrote little things she loves on them...such as a massage, a movie night with a movie of her choice ect. I really want to make her happy and make up for the fights...will this do it or am i just being corny?

2007-03-18 13:34:06 · 21 answers · asked by Hurt 1

I need some thoughts and reactions on this. My girlfriend for 5 years just left me and she tells me its how i treat her. She knows that i love her with all my heart and i would do anything for her no matter what. But I was at work and i came home one day and i find all her stuff missing and all i got was a note. Im not going to lie to you i did try to control her sometimes by saying that i dont think she should be hanging out with certain friends. But for the whole five years she said that she loved me with all her heart and she would never leave me no matter what happens. But in the note she left me it mentioned that she loves me with all her heart and she cares about me but she cares about her friends to. She also mentioned that she needs to find herself and what she needs. Also saying that we might get together or we might not. What should I do? Because i hurt so much and all i want is a chance to speak to her.

2007-03-18 13:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by Kdog 1

I am a really big sports guy. I love to play, and watch all sports. And girls always love that part of me, but then I am really shy. So I can't talk to them because I am so shy. So I need some help. What would u do?

2007-03-18 13:32:36 · 15 answers · asked by Snow 2

Why is it that whenever I'm around in school or times in life, I have attracted dumb chubby guys? What I am saying is that there's this guy who likes me at school and he does alot of stuff with me: He helps me set up my percussion instrument at school band concerts, picks up stuff I drop like pencils, books, etc, and tries to flirt with me ALOT. The thing is, I don't like him because he's just not my type and he's a little bit overweight and girls hate him. We don't have anything in common and one of his friends told me he likes me and that makes me feel uncomfortable when I am around him. I don't want to like him, but I don't want to be his enemy either. My mom tells me that skinny people attract overweight people. Do you think that's true? That's happened alot to me in the past. I have attracted really dumb and overweight guys and I really want someone who's skinny like me. Also, what should I do about this guy who likes me? Should I give in or stay away from him?

2007-03-18 13:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend and im 13... is that bad? were not doing anything wrong...just like hold hands and always are toegher and hug. i am going through a hard time in my life right now and i need some1 to lean on. do u think its okay for a 13 yr old to have a bf?

2007-03-18 13:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2

I love eating burgers and stuff like that and she is a vegetarian for religious reasons. Is it wrong for me to eat meat when we are on a date?

2007-03-18 13:30:28 · 28 answers · asked by j-rod 2

I don't want to be mean but seriously all these guys who I don't like like me. And then like all these people think I'm mean cause I don't like them back. Help!!

2007-03-18 13:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 21 year old guy, 8 girls ever, I have only gotten a number twice though, the worst time I was ignored like I wasn't even there.

2007-03-18 13:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by Michael S 1

2007-03-18 13:28:34 · 4 answers · asked by william r 1

ok since the 6th grade almost every guy i go out with has gone out with my best freind.in the 7th grade i like this kid and a couple weeks later she liked him too so i was ok about it. all the guys like her anyway for her too like some guy they are like so happy so i knew at that point i dont have a chance.and she i PROMISE i will not go out with him ! and we were outside school and we all were walking outside and i was getting pick up and my mom was there so i left them and i got to school and they were together and he asked her out and she said yes to him after 10 min before that she promised she wouldnt.and we are in 8th grade and it happend all over agian she was helping me and this kid to go out and she started liking him as days went on and wouldnt tell me so i was cool with it and she promised and did it again to me.i dont want to be her freind but its so hard to not be freinds with her cause she my best friend.WHAT DO I DO !

2007-03-18 13:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by dallas t 1

I like him but I like my freedom too we spent a lot of time together and he wants to do it I need extra cash for my bills what to do

2007-03-18 13:27:19 · 13 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4

but then i fell in love with somebody younger who actually cared, but everytime i see the older guy it messes my mind up and by the way the younger guy is so caring and we really get along but the older guy can be an angel 1 min then a total jerk the next- i really cannot stop falling in love with him . what should i do????

2007-03-18 13:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl and I think she might like me. What can I do to find out if she likes me without making it obvious I like her?

2007-03-18 13:24:09 · 14 answers · asked by Poster 2

I have recently been wondering, as you guessed with this question title I am a virgin- but I'm only 13. I'm wondering... I don't want to seem like a nasty person- but what makes sex so good? I don't really understand how a boy inside a girl can cause eruptions of sexual feelings. I understand the whole sex thing- I'm just confused about how it makes you feel good.

2007-03-18 13:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or would they rather just date someone who hides her smarts or someone who is smart but acts stupid?
Guy's or girl's answers are both welcome and appreciated.

2007-03-18 13:23:16 · 6 answers · asked by Ivy D 1

answer it yay~!

2007-03-18 13:21:58 · 3 answers · asked by Alayna H 2

okay would you rather have a girlfriend that doesnt care what she eats like today i ate a big hamburger and fries and a milkshake at red robin and didnt care how many calories it was or someone that cares about what they are eating 24/7. i weigh 110 pounds why should i care about my weight? i look good without counting the calories of everything that goes in my mouth

2007-03-18 13:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by Grace W 4

I love bing under the man so its man on top for me.

2007-03-18 13:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, my name is Jazmine. I'm 15, and i am having a difficult time with a guy that i have like for a while now. I've been told i'm very mature for a 15 year old and this is a serious situation that i need advice on. I met the guy about 6 months ago. He introduced himself, shook my hand :), gave me his name and number. We set up a date to hang out, and it was great! I really felt a connection between me and him.Hetold me he was 20 :-/ BUMMER....But some of my friends told me there was nothing wrong with this Plus i really like this guy!Anyway, i have been waiting for the relationship term to be brought up, but it hasn't. All that has come up is the sex discussion.He keeps bringing it up! I hate to think that he is just trying to have sex with me,plus im not that type of girl,im saving it for marriage. He invites over to his house ALOT when he's ALONE. Someone smart on yahoo warned me about him n told me what he's doing can fall into staturary RAPE. WOW, that scared me. I need advice..

2007-03-18 13:20:50 · 23 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to. Does he feel guiltyor miss me?

2007-03-18 13:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1

I had 1 girlfriend I had to dump because she was trying to use me to support her drug habit, + found she was doing other guys ummm, because of her habit.

I can't seem to find a woman who doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs, or is monogamous?

The main think I wish is for one who loves me that I can love, who will work with me, & not use me?

Do you think I am asking too much from a woman?

I feel like giving up sometimes!

2007-03-18 13:20:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I've been dating this guy for a couple months.Things are going great between us, in my eyes hes amazing. Hes done some cute things for me like left a rose at my door step in one of those religious candle holders because he actually collects those candles which i loved because it was more personal. Small things that I actually REALLY appreciate more than any of the flashy fake attempts past guys have done for me.Well he didnt call all day today and so i msged him and turns out hes been making something for me all day!That just made me melt.Hes been so sweet and great I feel I should have something for him too.What do you guys think? Something small sweet personal? I'm open to ANY suggestions you guys may have.

2007-03-18 13:19:04 · 4 answers · asked by TheLight 5

browsed thru his email today and found unopened mail for girls, dating sites, porn pics, and rx pill sites. how does this happen? what the **ll is he doing online???

2007-03-18 13:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by chwylvr 1

Why don't I trust people, especially people who are nice to me? I've had somewhat of a rough life, (but who hasn't?), but I'm always on the lookout for people who are there to use me. I've been brought up to treat people nice and respect everyone and their decisions. But if someone (especially women), treats me nice for no reason, I'm always thinking in my mind that they want something, or there's a reason that they're nice. I have been told by one of ex g/f's that I'm too nice of a guy and woman will always walk all over me. I try not to think that way because that would be stereotyping all women, and I can't do that, but I really don't trust people, why?

It's so bad that one of my ex g/f's was trying to get to know me and get me to ask her out, she was being all nice and everything to me, and I never saw it that she liked me. She was being nice and to me she wanted me for something (not relationship).

2007-03-18 13:17:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

how come if a guy who isn't really attractive looking hits on women, they are usually creeped out and act like he's being a creep, but if one of those younger guys who have that young looking cute boy look( usually in their teens or early 20s) women usually take it as a compliment and are really nice about it? this applies to all women, even women in their 30s. why is that? and isn't it unfair?

2007-03-18 13:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer and will undergo a mastectomy. Today I went to the Dr. and was shown pictures of women who have had the proceedure done and I really felt horrible seeing the end result of what the breast looks like after reconstructive surgery.

My question is this: How does it feel to meet someone new and be comfortable with my body when I have this breast that's totally reconstructed and none of it is actually mine? I will have scars on my breast and no nipple for a while. Will a man see me as being attractive after the fact?

2007-03-18 13:17:21 · 4 answers · asked by ShrunkenFro™ 7

4mo points keep it goin keep it goin!

2007-03-18 13:16:47 · 2 answers · asked by wamzy 2

Hey, this about my Girlfriend, she's a great girl, and more than that she's my angel, I think about her all the time, and if i don't see her one day I already miss her a lot...

In these days she wrote me a letter saying that she felt uncomfortable when I hug her, and things were going too fast, and well I cannot know that because she's my first date.... But I feel like I care so much mure about us than she does, and well I was suggested to dump her, but I wanna try other things first...

WHATS A GOOD WAY OF GETTING A GIRL TO TRUST YOU?? I dint care if she doesnt wanna have sex or anything, but I do want her to trust me more....

2007-03-18 13:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by mr. luis 1

Okayyyyyyy. I was talkin to this boy and we drifted apart for a little while....I had asked him how he felt about me and all he could say was that he liked me.....So anotha boy stepped up and wanted to be with me so I go with me....the only thing about him is he spends more time with his freinds then with me and he's boring in person....The other boy isn't boring I can talk to him about anything but now he's mad at me cause I have a bf.......He said that he really like me and would be with me and only me but now he don't know....I said I would break up with my boring bf but now he says he doesn't even know if he wants to be with me no more cause he thinks I did him wrong...I told him I'm sorry and I want to be with him but he won't text me back

2007-03-18 13:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by Hello Kitty 2