Why don't I trust people, especially people who are nice to me? I've had somewhat of a rough life, (but who hasn't?), but I'm always on the lookout for people who are there to use me. I've been brought up to treat people nice and respect everyone and their decisions. But if someone (especially women), treats me nice for no reason, I'm always thinking in my mind that they want something, or there's a reason that they're nice. I have been told by one of ex g/f's that I'm too nice of a guy and woman will always walk all over me. I try not to think that way because that would be stereotyping all women, and I can't do that, but I really don't trust people, why?
It's so bad that one of my ex g/f's was trying to get to know me and get me to ask her out, she was being all nice and everything to me, and I never saw it that she liked me. She was being nice and to me she wanted me for something (not relationship).
2007-03-18 13:17:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like an essay, not a question.
2007-03-18 13:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man!
I've actually got the same problem. I trust no one!
This may sound immature, but alcohol gets me to lighten up, and stop worrying about trust, security, and the daily routine.
Find whatever will make you lighten up, and just let go of your worries.
2007-03-18 20:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by fieroturbo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time trusting people too........... i guess my reason is ive been stabbed in the back to many times.... it takes time to build trust...... take that as a good thing!
2007-03-18 20:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋