ok since the 6th grade almost every guy i go out with has gone out with my best freind.in the 7th grade i like this kid and a couple weeks later she liked him too so i was ok about it. all the guys like her anyway for her too like some guy they are like so happy so i knew at that point i dont have a chance.and she i PROMISE i will not go out with him ! and we were outside school and we all were walking outside and i was getting pick up and my mom was there so i left them and i got to school and they were together and he asked her out and she said yes to him after 10 min before that she promised she wouldnt.and we are in 8th grade and it happend all over agian she was helping me and this kid to go out and she started liking him as days went on and wouldnt tell me so i was cool with it and she promised and did it again to me.i dont want to be her freind but its so hard to not be freinds with her cause she my best friend.WHAT DO I DO !
2007-03-18 13:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by dallas t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She really can't be a best if she does all that to you. I would let her know that if she can't stop whatever she is doing.. than you couldn't that close to you. Stop leaving all your hopes and dreams on someone that you went to school with. I learned the hard way with. She says she won't do to you again. Honey all your learning to open the jaws and out it comes. Keep her in suspense. Then when she finds out don't let her alone with him. Maybe if you tell him what to watch for, he may be nice, but don't let your heart out to her again, she likes to see you in pain,. No more tell her.
2007-03-18 13:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by blue_eyedpixies2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had plenty friends help me tell a boy I liked him, but never once did they ever date him themselves. Hun, she's not your friend. She's using you to make herself feel better, because she thinks any guy you can get she can get and as long as you keep her around or at least keep telling her everything the more she's going to keep doing it. Sometime the only way people learn is to be pushed away. And I think your so called friend needs a hearty serving of the cold shoulder. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 13:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem. The thing is to find if she is "stealing" from you. Tell her, not the guy, that you like that guy. Make sure the guy is likable in all attributes, but anyway. Don't tell the guy; that's cruel! but anyway. If she ends up liking that guy then you need to decide whether that friendship is worth all that. If it is then yhe best thing to do it to get with guys from the other side of the school district. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-18 13:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Answerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well l dont even know her and i think she is a bit.ch so what you should do is get a boyfriend and make her really jelouse and kiss him and touch him and stuff in front of her also catch her doing something and get a lot of people to turn against her shell know what it feels like then and then eventually hopefully yo will make up and become friends again
2007-03-18 13:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by sammy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should tell r friend how you feel and tell her that if she was your friend and she made a promise that she needs to keep it. Tell her that real friends don't do that .
2007-03-18 13:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by nyshayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you have self esteem issues that you need to work out. your friend is obviously jealous of you for some reason, talk to her woman to woman, solve the problem or say goodbye.
2007-03-18 13:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no okay........that is not right really....She is not your bestfreind cause obviously she doesn't care about your feelings she selfish....you need to to not be so insecure and get confidence just like her you can get any boy you want if you try....but she seems to like to many freakin people and it's wrong that she talks to them after you tell her you like themm....tell her about it you have given her to many chances if that was my friend I would cut her loose....... she's not worth the pain
2007-03-18 13:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she competes with you and you don't even know it!!!! You have to talk to her about what happens, and on top of everything DO NOT trust her!!!!! It's sad to say but SHE ISN'T your friend as you are her.
2007-03-18 13:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by claudetteeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront her about it in a nice way and after youve tryied then let her go
2007-03-18 13:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by mskiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to kinda stop
communicate its better to do that
and see what her reaction and go from there
2007-03-18 13:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by Future Basketball Playa #3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋