I like him but I like my freedom too we spent a lot of time together and he wants to do it I need extra cash for my bills what to do
2007-03-18 13:27:19 · 13 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all u need to figure out if your ready to live with someone and can handle it. cause if your not ready then dont do it.
2007-03-18 13:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by mysterious_yet_sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a tough one do just start living with him cause you need extra money that is a very bad move you have to want to give up a little of that freedom and make everything 50/50 or it will never work and will be that much harder to get rid of each other if it doesn't work out. So if you really are not ready to give up some of that freedom and make the relationship 50/50 then i would say no don't do it well good luck to you
2007-03-18 20:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by yo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Based on the facts you gave I think it would be a mistake. There's no reason to rush anything. Just keep things the way they are.
2007-03-18 20:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by josh m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the status of your relationship. If you can not really stand him for long periods of time, you can not really live with him. If you do want to live together make sure you talk to him about the freedoms you want to keep. If you were really meant for each other everything will work out. Plus it helps to have double income, that may even release some tension in the relationship.
2007-03-18 20:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I can understand your question. You're currently holding a job and that helps you pay your bills. Meanwhile your boyfriend wants you to keep him company. If I'm correct, you need to address this with him before the relationship is beyond salvage. Let him know that you have bills to take care of. Unless he's able to assist in some ways, otherwise he will have to be more understanding.
2007-03-18 20:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be advised. Living together is more than just liking each other and being able to pay bills. If you like your privacy and freedom, live alone.
2007-03-18 20:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it will be a problem concerning the freedom part then don't rush in. BUT if u care more about your bills than the relationship,move in with no expectations.
2007-03-18 20:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well financial reasons are not a good enough one to move in with someone...get another job or stop spending so much money, stuff like that to help there, but dont just do it to save money, it might end up costing you much more if you two dont work out together like that right now...
2007-03-18 20:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have recently moved in with my man, but prior to doing it we set down some ground rules. I didn't want to be harrassed all the time and I wanted my space. The only time that we really see each other is in the bed room.
2007-03-18 20:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not live together. Get another job and keep your freedom!
2007-03-18 20:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tom B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋