English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Why is it that whenever I'm around in school or times in life, I have attracted dumb chubby guys? What I am saying is that there's this guy who likes me at school and he does alot of stuff with me: He helps me set up my percussion instrument at school band concerts, picks up stuff I drop like pencils, books, etc, and tries to flirt with me ALOT. The thing is, I don't like him because he's just not my type and he's a little bit overweight and girls hate him. We don't have anything in common and one of his friends told me he likes me and that makes me feel uncomfortable when I am around him. I don't want to like him, but I don't want to be his enemy either. My mom tells me that skinny people attract overweight people. Do you think that's true? That's happened alot to me in the past. I have attracted really dumb and overweight guys and I really want someone who's skinny like me. Also, what should I do about this guy who likes me? Should I give in or stay away from him?

2007-03-18 13:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

Try being friends with him, and leave it at that. You don't have to say anything; just be cool, and don't give him any ideas. The path of least resistance is just as good as that of active resistance, but causes fewer problems.

2007-03-18 13:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0 0

I don't think all girls would hate him. I have an overweight guy that Ilike too much for my own good. Just explain to him that some girls like the Winnie the Pooh type and some like the Tigger type and you are one that likes the Tigger type

2007-03-18 20:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Yvonne B 5 · 0 0

Um, you sound a little insecure about what everyone else thinks. If you like him, who really cares if he is chubby. You would be surprised, some people who are chubby in middle school are the most attractive in high school.

2007-03-18 20:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0 0

You really shouldn't be so harsh about his weight. Some people just don;t have the confidence in themselves to lose it. Maybe if you gave the guy a chance you could help him lose it and you never know, he may turn out to be really sweet and caring. I say go for it and if it doesn;t work out you can always be friends!

2007-03-18 20:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by green.eclipse 3 · 0 0

and what is it you dont like about him? hes chubbiness? if you dont like him stay away from him. dont let him help you do anything. do yourself a favor, consider changing your attitude about chubby people. some of them arent so bad.

2007-03-18 20:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0 0

do whatever you think is right but just think about how if you like someone maybe and they dont like you back and u get sad yeppppppppppppppppp

2007-03-18 20:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just because other girls hate him, doesn't mean you shouldn't give him a chance. looks aren't everything.

2007-03-18 20:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by rt1290 6 · 0 0

fattues like skinnys there more slutty, you should dress more conservatively.

2007-03-18 20:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by ihate c 4 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers