Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

Do you think people can change permanently or temporarily, was in a relationship for some years it turned violent, the guy says hes changed however my twin begs to differ and thinks I should pursue another man who has an interest in me because it isn't the other guy.

My heart is confused because my answer will inevitably be my life. Do I give the ex a chance or do I start a new with the unknown, the ex is comfortable because I know his capabilities.

I am a young adult, 22 and sound advice would be good.

2007-03-18 14:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by Diva 3

if a 34 yr old guy was in a soundproof room with an attractive 18 yr old girl...
1.)do u think he would hit on her with, u know sex?
2.)if so how would he approach her with it?
3.)also do u think there would be raping involved if she declined?

2007-03-18 14:09:19 · 15 answers · asked by kelsey p 1

for those of you that dont know my story ill post it below and u can catch up. . but anyways . . . she last contacted my in mid december until this week she sends me an email that just says .. . . "just wondering if you are done hating me yet?!?!lol ". . . . . why do u think she is continuing to try to contact me when she is still with the guy she left me for and i have no responded to her since june?

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6 minutes ago
ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

2007-03-18 14:08:59 · 4 answers · asked by cbs2904 1

arguing over practically nothing and everything has been great up until a few weeks ago but he has been wanting to go out with his mates and he turned around to me last week and said he needs a break but we can still talk just not see each other as much he says hes not gonna break up with me and he loves me he just needs his space but i dont wanna be away from him im a jealous person and jump to the worst conclusions all the time and im afraid that if he doesnt see me he may not still love me i dont know wat to do pls help me ....
im almost 20 and he is 19 and we are both Aussies

it really hurts me to be away from him i dont like it at all I LOVE HIM!!!

2007-03-18 14:08:28 · 17 answers · asked by Missaann07 1

okay i'm almost 15 and i've been dating a guy who's 20 for almost a month. he is the sweetest guy i have ever met and so respectful about the fact that i haven't had sex yet. i'm very mature for my age just because of what i've been though. he is completely amazing has done nothing wrong but i guess i'm still wondering does the age difference matter?

2007-03-18 14:08:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

do girls are attracted by christian guys or guys who aren't christian , why?

2007-03-18 14:07:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 14:06:52 · 22 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2

Well, my gf and I have been together for about 1 year and about 4 months. We used to be happy and always want to spend every second together. Our sex life was great. We loved eachother, I met her parents and her WHOLE family and they all loved me. I get along great with all of her family and talk like if I was family. Well, up until 5 months ago, i started to feel like she didnt like me anymore. The sex was gone, she was more interested in being with her friends, and arguments happen alot. Although she claims to love me, I dont feel loved as much because she hardly ever shows me affection(very little) She is a good girl, smart, pretty, and a very nice person. She is a very good girl overall. Lately ive been feeling like she doesnt like me but shes too nice to break my heart, so she doesnt do it. We see eachother every day, so its almost like shes tired of me, although I would never get tired of her. What could cause this? Could she have someone else?Does she love me? Help!

2007-03-18 14:05:59 · 17 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2

I have been with my boyfriend for a long time and love him sooo much...couldn't live without him honestly and i know that isn't good but it is the truth...The thing is...because I am with him sos much and if im not with him i am talking to him...he is destracting me from my school work and i am in highschool he is in college...it sux because my grades are dropping a little and i am very goal oriented with school i dont know what to do any advice??? i cant break up with him so other than that??

2007-03-18 14:05:54 · 2 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3

I know legally ..... things vary from state to state but ..... what's your opinion on minors dating when there is a certain age difference ? WOuld a 13 yr old girl dating an 18 yr old male be inapropriate ? Is it different because he is an adult ? A 13 yr old dating a 17 yr old ok ?

Whats the youngest age dating should be allowed ? What are he cutoffs ... the age difference and situations you would not condone ?

2007-03-18 14:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by burlingtony 2

2007-03-18 14:04:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I miss my boyfriend sooo much and it is so weird because i see him all the time like i just saw him today and already i am basically crying because i miss him so much...weve been together 8 months and it is hard for me to sleep when i he is not in bed with me i get so sad because i miss him! what is wrong with me what should i do!

2007-03-18 14:03:31 · 14 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3

2007-03-18 14:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by bluefire_sam 1

My brother is a couple yrs younger than me and even though I am in my early 20's....he acts like it's his job to spy on my, when i go out with a guy(he never likes my bf's) he will follow me and text me creepy things saying he's watching me! he even threatens to kill the guys!!! what should i do? i'm serious too, this is not something i'm making up....it's kinda scary!

2007-03-18 14:02:42 · 2 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3

I'm a high school sophomore, and I'm attracted to geeky, shy guys. I am friends with the guy I like, and we talk, but there are a lot of other girls he likes talking to more (as it appears by the amount of time). I'm neither ugly nor pretty, fat nor skinny. I can only wear very modest clothes because I have a back brace for scoliosis. We share one interest, Latin, and I'm too nervous to talk to him in situations where I could find out more. I'm very shy about romance, very outgoing about friendship, usually. We have no classes together. Can you help me?

2007-03-18 14:02:34 · 4 answers · asked by Halcyon 4

what would any of you out there do to get the someone who you really really wanted???? im a female trying to bag this guy i want how do i??? -x-

2007-03-18 14:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lousiana 1

I want other girls opinions.
What do you find attractive in a 14 year old boy?
mainly physically
and what clothes can he wear to turn you on?

2007-03-18 14:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Christine Y 1

2007-03-18 14:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by linda l 1

my big 40 birthday is in the middle of july.Personal ly id like to be under the duvet with a bottle of vodka!However my friends wanna do pyjama party, bed hair , pub crawl in my local town!!!what say you the yahoo community???help me out here guys......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! any other suggestions to save me the humilation!! PPPRRRREEEEEZZZZZZE !xxxxx

2007-03-18 14:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by oldybutgoody 2

2007-03-18 14:01:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get a guy that i like to talk to me

2007-03-18 14:01:05 · 28 answers · asked by sue 1

Last night was on a first date with this girl which went pretty well but when we went back to mine I had er 'stage fright' and was pretty lousy at $ex. I was a bit disappointed with myself and this probably came across. I texted the girl this evening and made a jokey reference to it and asked her if she'd had a good time. She did get back and tell me she was fine although made no reference to last night. Not sure what she thinks as she did leave a kiss at the end.

Girls (and guys) where do you think I stand. Also, how the hell can I get better at $ex in the meantime?!

2007-03-18 14:00:27 · 11 answers · asked by secondslip 1

FarOut is driving us crazy wondering about her. Can someone please let him know how old she is.

2007-03-18 14:00:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a cancer and a gemini.... i kno i kno it sounds wierd but its tru... i was born on the border line between the two each year my sign change between the two i think its pretty cool!

2007-03-18 13:59:43 · 1 answers · asked by jazzmyn b 3

Ok I hate myself! I am like the shiest person on earth. When I go to the movies and my friend goes to talk to abunch of girls and i follow him im like so shy my face turns red. When they say Hey i'm like what do i say back!

What can i do!?!?!?! please help me!

2007-03-18 13:58:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is feeling really bad because her mom spazzed at her. How should i comfort her. I'm 13 years old and don't give me the stupid answers because i am only 13!!!! years old.

2007-03-18 13:58:05 · 2 answers · asked by willy 1

i have such drama its unbelievable. i met this guy, and its just nobody ever looked at me like he did before and we have this conection. its been years and hes still here no mater how bad iv treated him. and for the longest time i thot he was the 1, i told him that i loved him and always would. but even though he is THE most important person in my life, i cant see him at all, then this other guy told me he liked me at first i didnt really like him but then i got to spend time with him everyday. were going out and i actually can see him. i think i love him now but i dont know. he yelled at me and blamed me today cuz we went to go see a play and my ex was there and last night he was at the mall with his friends when we showed up. i lied.i told him i didnt even like the guy and that we wernt frends nemore. ik they dont like eachother but all he did was say hi to me and he stays out of his way. my bf flipped. theyd kill eachother. so why is he jealous? who do i chose?

2007-03-18 13:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1

ok it all started about a week ago when i was at a party for my friends 17th birthday, the ugliest smelliest fattest discrace from college was there (i think she was still a virgin) any ways my mates bet me £20 that i couldnt do the dirty with her anyways me being the stud i am used sheer charm and looks and blew her away anyways minutes later i was pumpin like a piston, so we finished up an went downstairs and i had the amazing idea of humiliating her the best i could by throwing her knickers around to everyone and grossing them out an then announcing to the whole party that she was a hore and i hammered her for a bet and that she was disgusting and i threw up afterwards, then all of a sudden she burst of crying an ran out the door now this was last saturday and all week she hasnt been to college and earlier on some one told me that she had overdosed earlier on in the week an she is in a bad condition in hospital, im starting to feel guity and dont know what to do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 13:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by bob z 1

Last night was on a first date with this girl which went pretty well but when we went back to mine I had er 'stage fright' and was pretty lousy at sex. I was a bit disappointed with myself and this probably came across. I texted the girl this evening and made a jokey reference to it and asked her if she'd had a good time. She did get back and tell me she was fine although made no reference to last night. Not sure what she thinks as she did leave a kiss at the end.

Girls (and guys) where do you think I stand. Also, how the hell can I get better at sex in the meantime?!

2007-03-18 13:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by secondslip 1

okay well know one understande i love him.. we started hanging out then he asked me out and that was the haoppiest day of my life. we were together for like 2 months but those were the best 2 months in my life.. then he dumped me for another girl i think....he said it felt right but idk..then he dumoped her and now he is hanging with me again. I LOVE HIM 2 PIECES and i dont know how he feels and i dont want to tall him :( I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM FOR 2 SENDONDS.

2007-03-18 13:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by katyrae 1