for those of you that dont know my story ill post it below and u can catch up. . but anyways . . . she last contacted my in mid december until this week she sends me an email that just says .. . . "just wondering if you are done hating me yet?!?!lol ". . . . . why do u think she is continuing to try to contact me when she is still with the guy she left me for and i have no responded to her since june?
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ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
2007-03-18 14:08:59 · 4 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you depend on other people to help you then you have a problem with yourself, and she can sense it.
2007-03-18 14:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ash4ElishaCuthbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that things aren't that brilliant in her new relationship and she just contacts you for some male attention. I used to do this whenever I argued with my boyfriend, go and talk to my ex. The best thing for you to do is to carry on ignoring her if possible, otherwise be amicable and make it clear that you are not interested, maybe talking about other girls or ask about her boyfriend.
An easy but kinda mean way to do this would be to text her as if you meant to send it to a different girl, so send something like 'Hi Sarah (different name to hers though!) Can't wait to see you on Saturday! xx'
Then text her again saying you got the wrong number or something.
2007-03-18 14:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by samrawuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she still likes you but she is not a "good girl". The best thing you have done is to not contact her. I think that because you have ignored her it makes her want to be with you. But if you do she will obviously go with someone else.
2007-03-18 14:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by mora fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still holds some sort of feeling for you and has not yet let go...... either that or she just wants to rub it in your face. If the latter is the truth, then do not reply to her, ignore the calls, emails, ect... and move on with your life.
2007-03-18 14:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋