i have a boyfriend and im 13... is that bad? were not doing anything wrong...just like hold hands and always are toegher and hug. i am going through a hard time in my life right now and i need some1 to lean on. do u think its okay for a 13 yr old to have a bf?
2007-03-18 13:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not bad but not good boys are no good i mean as long as its not anything serious then its ok but to me its jus cute seeing couples hold hands and stuff
2007-03-18 13:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by tyshe_edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's not someone who's WAY too old for you, then no, it's not wrong. You're just looking for support, and there's no law against that. Just don't let him manipulate you, and ruin your life. Remember that you are a girl, and you have just as many rights as he does, in the possibility that problems arise between you two. Good Luck, and remember, as long as you two aren't doing anything bad, then it's okay. ^_^
2007-03-18 20:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its fine to have a bf at 13, i had my first real gf when i was like 11, and also its ok to do more than hug and hold hands at this age but it up to you
2007-03-18 20:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by william r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont take it any farther than that, your a little young for sex, Holding hands, hugging, and even kissing, might be alright but could lead to other things, especially if he decides to pressure you on the subject.
2007-03-18 20:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am not the one to say is it right or is it wrong because I think you already know the answer to the questions. Is there anybody in your family to talk to like your mom or a big sister. I think their the ones that can answer that question for you because they see whats going on everyday. Hope everything works out right.
2007-03-18 20:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by redbonesh22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely okay. Having relationships in your early teen years builds a foundation for latter relationships. Just don't rush into anything too physical . Stay young because the latter teen years are not all they are perked up to be.
2007-03-18 20:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically I think it's fine, although I've found that younger guys are WAY too immature! Keep it light, they freak out if you get too serious!
2007-03-18 20:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lavinia Morrison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
as long as yall keep doing nothing
but dont get dumped like that one girl did
and still hang out
and she straight up sprung on him
2007-03-18 20:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by chauchabest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13 i think it's great cuz we always have someone to talk to and help us with our problems
2007-03-18 20:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by robertkuiken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's around your age too, I think it's fine.
2007-03-18 20:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋