Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

2007-03-14 20:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by Ipoh_boy 2

Previously I was married for 18 yrs, then my husband molested our oldest daughter. For 9 yrs I remained single. I finally met a gentleman that seemed so honest, simple, and down to earth,. We married a yr after we met. But now , I am so very unhappy. He came across as someone different than he portrayed himself. Now I sleep on the couch, and he in my bedroom that I found solice in for many years. He claims to want to work things out, but he never initiates anything. We have talked and it's not that he isn't aware of my needs, he just doesn't do anything about them. We aren't kids, I am 54 and he will be 56. I find a pattern in his past , though he denies that they are similar to the present, but he has always been the dumped, not the dumpee. He's fantastic at fixing things around the house, but as a husband, he sucks. I feel so "trapped" as I do believe the only reason to divorce is adultry, and I',m not willing to sacrifice my soul. How do I live with this?

2007-03-14 20:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by iamjaycee 2

differently meaning like she trys NOT to talk to me with the same humor and relationship we had before i told her a secret i had held from her in 3 months. that secret was i feel in love with the wrong woman 9 months ago which was my brother seperated wife. it was a huge mistake. its been 3 months since i meet my friend which i can get to be my girlfriend and its been 4 monthes since i left my brothers wife help me please i love my friend i try to be honest to her by telling her this so i can open up our relationship more by not keeping secrets should i have keep this a secret or was i right to tell her my dark past?

2007-03-14 20:50:25 · 4 answers · asked by red_gemini_85 1

I can never find some1 that can give to me what i give to them. Is it that hard to find that? I dont get it, im not a Dik...or perverted....im not ugly and yet i cant get what i want. Any suggestions? Other then..."just wait it will happen she will come" lol. This sux man i just lost the first girl i ever truely loved

2007-03-14 20:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a whole lot more guy friends than girl friends, but like when i ask them out or when someone thats not my friend that is cute does, my guy friends come over and are like, 'hey dude, you hurt my little sis and we're gonna hurt you more than how you hurt her.' and it scares the guys off... i want one of my guy friends to like me but he thinks i'm a little sister... what do i do!? i've tried before but its not working anymore...

2007-03-14 20:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by SmilE 3

is it the view or the smell

2007-03-14 20:43:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am i crazy? Because I just know. I dont know why but I just know first minute I saw them. Hit me like a ton of bricks. You can tell when you look into their eyes. Ive never been wrong about love before, usually- maybe one or two times ive been off before but ive never felt so intensely for a person. Im not attracted to a lot of people either and to really get my heart something needs to be there. Im willing to do anything for the one I love and go to great lengths to make things work. But is this unreasonable? Long distance relationship.. Yet I have this deep feeling inside , deep longing to be next to this person. I dont know why, its not just lust , is it infatuation? Love? craziness to think this or want to pursue it?

2007-03-14 20:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend still calls me at least a couple times a day, we usually hang out together everyday. He works all day and is tired so sometimes when he gets home from work he falls asleep on the couch. We still are intimate at least a couple times a week, but when we first got together it was about everyday. He doesn't say "I love you," unless I say it first, but he has said it first in the past only when things in my life have been really wrong. I think he still loves me although I wonder if he is losing interest. Any advice?

2007-03-14 20:42:56 · 5 answers · asked by juniper 4

Obviously, we would never be here without parents.
But with divorce, remarriage, & cheating running rampant all over the world, is she really such a great catch?

Why do men perpetually attempt a life of solitude, only to helplessly fall for her yet again, & mate again?

Are men so weak willed that we NEED a woman, & just can't live without your "thorn" in the flesh?

Haha!

Would love to hear responses!

2007-03-14 20:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

they talk to eachother all the time, but she's afraid of what ppl will think of her. she's has problems with guys her own age cuz she looks very young, im trying to get advice for her..can anyone help???

2007-03-14 20:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i just walked straight up to a girl and say "i like u, i know we havnt talked much but...i wanna get to know u better, can i have ur email?" would this scare them away? because this girl from school i kinda like....sometimes stares at me down the halls...but i dont know if she likes me....shes very shy tho...i dont wanna scare her

2007-03-14 20:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1

well....i like this guy a lot...i told him about it and he's makin a fuss about it and is ignoring me coz he doenst like me..
Actually the problem is i love(i think i can say that) him a lot and he doesnt like me at all...He is very immature and doesnt think abt any1 and does not think wid his heart...
SO wud it be wrong if i talked to him from sum1 else's id and try to explain wat he has done is wrong and that he shudnt have hurt me and make him realise that he needs to change.... ( well i can use some frends id and talk to him)

And do u have any ideas abt how i can make him realise.????.(I DUN WANT HIM TO LOVE ME BUT JUST REALISE WAT HE DID TO ME WAS WRONG !!!)

2007-03-14 20:41:23 · 12 answers · asked by ღ♥~Samantha~♥ღ 2

I was at a bowling alley last night, when some guy got really drunk and passed out on my lane. This really hot girl said she would go out with me if I threw my ball down the lane and hit him. Anyway, lets just say now I have a hot date for Saturday Night, and he has a few broken ribs.

2007-03-14 20:40:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do i think about him ..he did very bad things to me but when he finds me via internate i let him in..i have a 8 year order of protection and he has been deported to his country for always breaking the order of protection ..and i still let him talk to me and daughter via internate..i am crazy i know ..i?just ...don't have the strenght to say nooooooooooo.it has been 2 year or more since i had a man in my life ..i told her ( moms) dont need one ....anybody out there felt the same ? please help..he does not deserved even 1 second of thought of him but i still do...i know i'm crazy ..and i think this is the man that is going to kill me sooner or later and i hope he cannot come back to the usa..because i know he will find me....

2007-03-14 20:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by gengen 3

Please be honest. Do looks count to you??? Who (physically) would you defenatly not go out with???WHy???

2007-03-14 20:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by liarliar_91 1

Lately I've been starting to have strong feelings for my best friend. We both knew that we liked each other several months ago, but nothing ever happened. Now my feelings for her are becoming more intense, but I don't know what her feelings for me are now. I want to have a relationship with her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship or make things awkward.

Thinking about this is keeping me up at night. I feel like I need to say something, but I don't know what I should say. I don't want to make her uncomfortable, because I truly care for her and don't want make her feel like our friendship will be over if she doesn't like me too. Should I say something, or should I keep my mouth shut? If I should say something, what should I tell her?

2007-03-14 20:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by bemaniac64 2

he is my good friend and we hang out in class and goof around a ton. i really like him and want to tell him but i'm afraid he doesn't like me back and if he doesn't, if it will screw up our friendship.

2007-03-14 20:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 20:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by mariam ansari 1

i really hate this. i don't have a girlfriend. never have. don't really care anymore. but all of my friends that are girls who used to talk to me all the time. never talk to me anymore. they only talk to me when they need something or when they have to. whenever i try to talk to them they always find a way to end the conversation early. its so lame. its only in the past few months that they have been doing it. and before that they would always talk to me about everything and i went on dates with a few of them but that never changed anything.
i dont know. maybe thats my role in life. to be a resource for information and help. lame....no one seems to care.

what do you guys and girls think?

2007-03-14 20:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 16 year old guy.. and i really liked this girl shes 15.. then 1 day... we talk on the phone.. she said she liked me too.. but the only problem is.. she have a boyfriend... she told me to wait if i could... or find someone else... i said i would wait for her...
but as day passes, she keeps ignoring me. Everytime we walk pass by each other shes like ignoring me... and i thought maybe i should give up.. but that i might make her think more... what should i do?.. HELP please.. (sorry for my bad usage of english)

2007-03-14 20:35:11 · 3 answers · asked by James 2

make him come over to you everytime instead of
being an eager little puppy.

Tonight, he was on his cell phone in front of the store. I was getting into my truck. He threw up his arm to wave. I waved back, but just got in the truck! Then he turned left and walked in front of the store...away from me.


Did I do right? I don't interrupt ppl on the phone, but I also don't like to be the only one who makes the effort.

He acts like he likes me, but he doesn't make enough effort that way in my opinion! And he know I like him!

Some of his behavior seems like he likes me. I just don't wanna push!

2007-03-14 20:33:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, im very confused and dont know what to do, i need suggestions. Heres my situation. ive been w this girl for like 3 years, and during that time we've separated like 7 times, all because of the same, stupid fights. I love her, and she loves me , of that im sure, but im not happy with how we get along anymore, we always get to fight because of stupid things, and i put my part and so she does at the beginning but then she forgets and we get back to the same, and i have done many things to try to cange our relationship, and make it more diferent, make it work but nothing gives results. im soo confussed cus i luv her and i im afraid to lose her, or to mess it up. i decided as usual to take some time off and she asks me to come back.i have already talked with her many times.

im afraid we are suffering the kind of thing that happens in marriage, that people still love each other but loose interest in their relationship.

2007-03-14 20:32:53 · 6 answers · asked by i_r_macintosh 2

my boyfriend had an affair with one of my friends before he asked me out......but still when ever shes around he keeps staring at her and she blushes. is he cheating on me. i love him so!!!!

2007-03-14 20:31:35 · 15 answers · asked by cutebabe 1

2007-03-14 20:31:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just talking on the phone to one of my friends and she told me about a pick up line that got used on her at a party I had last Saturday. He actually said, "Haha, the more I drink the prettier you get." No joke. I thought it was hilarious and wanted to know some of the worst ones you all know, and if you've ever actually heard them in real life.

2007-03-14 20:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 20:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by Shashiz 2

I seem to flirt without even knowing it and guys always come back to me and say they were flirting and i was flirting right back and asked me out even though i just wanted them as friends. Help me. is it something I do. How do I tell when a guy is flirting?

2007-03-14 20:26:46 · 2 answers · asked by liarliar_91 1

there was this girl that i admired the most.. i went talking to her.. and started developing at her.. i cant fight the feeling that for all of the years we've been best friends I'm falling for her.. i tried my best to tell it to her face and she told me she loved me too... that day was the happiest moment i had.. i was so glad i have her.. until the time comes that i felt that she's cheating on me... i cant stand to be so stupid in front of her but i really dont want to mess up with my pride coz i really don't want to lose her.. i dont want her to go.. she's my life and i want to be with her always.. i loved her.. more than anything.. but i made a terrible mistake.. talked to her.. blaming her and suspecting her that she's cheating on me even i had no proof... she told me that she never cared for anyone except me.. i felt the cold feeling when tears came down her eyes... i said I'm sorry.. she told me she had had enough... i told her not to leave and i really am so sorry... i love her and i dont want her to go... but she said she's really tired of having me always making her sad ang angry... now we're through.. i need this asap.. please help me please... i dont want her to go... i'm always crying at night when i think of her... help me.. words will do please...

2007-03-14 20:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by cuztikdevillE_28 2

thanks for your answer. if you don't have one, how bout your most recent relationship?

2007-03-14 20:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Very turned off by churches where i live and do not go out that much...

2007-03-14 20:26:01 · 8 answers · asked by nncywlndr 1