there was this girl that i admired the most.. i went talking to her.. and started developing at her.. i cant fight the feeling that for all of the years we've been best friends I'm falling for her.. i tried my best to tell it to her face and she told me she loved me too... that day was the happiest moment i had.. i was so glad i have her.. until the time comes that i felt that she's cheating on me... i cant stand to be so stupid in front of her but i really dont want to mess up with my pride coz i really don't want to lose her.. i dont want her to go.. she's my life and i want to be with her always.. i loved her.. more than anything.. but i made a terrible mistake.. talked to her.. blaming her and suspecting her that she's cheating on me even i had no proof... she told me that she never cared for anyone except me.. i felt the cold feeling when tears came down her eyes... i said I'm sorry.. she told me she had had enough... i told her not to leave and i really am so sorry... i love her and i dont want her to go... but she said she's really tired of having me always making her sad ang angry... now we're through.. i need this asap.. please help me please... i dont want her to go... i'm always crying at night when i think of her... help me.. words will do please...
2007-03-14 20:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by cuztikdevillE_28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys were best friends right? man, chill everything's gonna be okay. What you can do:
option 1. if she doesn't appreciate you, you better tear your relationship apart if she has had enough of you. I am sorry but i know it hurts to say this, but what can you do when she's cheating on you and hurting your feelings. Just be friends again and she will be back in your life as always.
option 2. or you can do something different.if you want to still continue the relationship, then try your best to impress her by helping her when she's needs it, being nice to her, don't ever make her sad nor angry. Confess to her of how much you love her by saying your thoughts from your heart. Tell in her in words that "I love you, i don't want to ever leave you, you are as beautiful as the moon, you are the greatest girlfriend i have ever had and i don't want to let you go, please don't leave me, I would even give my whole life to you, and say it like you mean it. Have tears in your eyes. Confess your love to her. remember, don't over react and go to far. don't get too romantic.make sure that she cries and hugs you(it means she will love you again) good luck!
-Ashna
2007-03-14 20:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was pretty unkool.i have gone through the same sh*t.i can tell u how to tackle it just IM me or e-mail me some time.anyway for the moment man! let the time handle your love.don't go too romantic with her [at least for the moment].don't cal her 1220 times a day at phone and don't e-mail her too often.getting back to old style love[with ur gf] may take months.[i told i too hav gone through same and it had an happy ending now after 1 year she is my gf again] i know 1 year is too long .u would be dying to see ur gf but u need to be kool man!!!!!!! u need to give her a lil hard time.[i mean don't say stuff like 'i love you ' for at least a month]
2007-03-15 03:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she sincere or not?? you can't be objective about this situation. and the fact that you seem to be a really sensible guy might give her a chance to cheat & fool you afterwards. if she knows you're madly in love and won't let go. she might fake some crying to make you feel guilty....or another possibility is that she is sincere and you are excessively jealous and sticky,(which in the long run will make her go anyway)try to calm down and find some proof of her cheat. because nofire: nosmoke.... see?? and them being absolutely sure of her attitude towards you, you may act accordingly......
good luck :)
2007-03-15 03:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by T-spooon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of a woman yet that likes to be accused of anything, well unless you had solid proof. just a thought to remember, each person is very special. just like you there is only one of you in the world, and never will there be another. try to show her that she is placed on a pedestal so high that only you dare to to climb. Love her more than you love yourself.
2007-03-15 03:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by jboyer345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is really sad im sad for you hun but if you have a feeling that shes cheating then give her time and if you dont then go to her with roses and pop up and tell her your very sorry and that you love her very much and try not to excuse your behavior cause it makes things worse just say sorry and tell her that youll wait for her to forgive you.........good luck..........it works on me when my husbands says hes sorry to me
2007-03-15 03:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by khissmyputtytat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No body likes to be accused of something they didn't do. Your insecurites drove her away. Get some help, show her you want to work on being more trustful. If she really loves you she will support you.
2007-03-15 03:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rizza 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, get some proof if she is really cheating on you. Then talk to her if you already have some evidence.
2007-03-15 03:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im gonna tell u like i told myself sometimes u have got to love some one enough to let them go
2007-03-15 03:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by chas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She dont love u, if she ll go!!! take control of urself u r a man, dont cry, but act, do not let her go!
2007-03-15 03:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋