my boyfriend had an affair with one of my friends before he asked me out......but still when ever shes around he keeps staring at her and she blushes. is he cheating on me. i love him so!!!!
2007-03-14 20:31:35 · 15 answers · asked by cutebabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is impossible to answer with such little information
2007-03-14 20:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend had an affair BEFORE he asked you out? I guess you mean that he must of been someone else before asking you out. Going by what you describing I would say that he is cheating on you because he has done it before. Ask him right out in front of them both, with no anger just ask plainly. It will have to be up to your boyfriend to reassure you, if he doesn't then he doesn't care about you. I'm sorry to say.
2007-03-14 20:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a felling go with it... your felling are always right cuz ya was in the same situation and i had a felling that he was seeing another gurl and it was so and besides if you cant trust him than you guys nothing becuz trust is the main thing in any relationship and he shouldnt be looking at any other gurls any ways if hes with he of course you love i did 2 its not worth it getting hurt he doesn't deserve you if he has thoughts of another gurl and besides maybe he still likes her that not good.......find out ask him ???? if he really loves you he will tell you the truth sounds like theres already issuses leave him ............. good luck
2007-03-14 20:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry but ... i don knew if that's called cheating but i suggest u should leave him ... its better for u.. because he cant flirt with another girl if he loves u so u better leave him....because he had an affair and all so i think u should leave him...u deserve better than him... its not safe to hang around him... just try to sacrifice your love .. u really deserve better...
and also add some more info...plz u can get better answers
2007-03-14 20:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you need to put the past behind you ask him and move on,, he had the affair before he got with you. maybe you are reading more into him looking at her ?? you obviously dont trust him so why are you with him
2007-03-14 20:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Undeniably, it appears that, there is a little element of cheating. What you have to check, is whether, it (the quantum of cheating) is within acceptable social (& individual) limits?
2007-03-14 20:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not have cheated on you but it sounds like hes intrested in her. Put it to him and see what he says. He may lie but if it continues then I would finish that person because its not whats happened but what could happen?
2007-03-14 20:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by southpaw 09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are stupid. disappear for a while and follow him. or even better have one of your friends follow him around. people who cheat are not sly about it. try and catch him red handed. For your sake I hope he's not cheating on you
2007-03-14 20:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Cellophane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a possibility that he is cheating on you if he is you could always find some one better
2007-03-15 00:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by thomasessex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than likly the only way you will find out is by confronting him but if you have these feelings the relationship is probably doomed anyway as it is all to do with trust
2007-03-14 20:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by darren p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust your instinct, it's probably right!......once a cheat always a cheat!...your deserve better my dear!
2007-03-15 01:40:54 · answer #11 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋