My boyfriend still calls me at least a couple times a day, we usually hang out together everyday. He works all day and is tired so sometimes when he gets home from work he falls asleep on the couch. We still are intimate at least a couple times a week, but when we first got together it was about everyday. He doesn't say "I love you," unless I say it first, but he has said it first in the past only when things in my life have been really wrong. I think he still loves me although I wonder if he is losing interest. Any advice?
2007-03-14 20:42:56 · 5 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is most likely just stressed out from work, you probably have nothing to worry about... the I love you part is just how most men are....i am the same with my gf of 5 years...we been living together for 3 years now and we both work long hours... and i usually tell her i love her before heading off to work and thats usually it for the day, and we used to be intimate everyday too but now maybe once every few days.
and i Love her dearly....so yeah..he still loves you of course... would be best to try to arrange for him a getaway for you and him to maybe the movies or something.
2007-03-14 20:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Iceman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man & woman r different in some way. Man will say mushy words when they start falling in love whereas woman will start after they think they r committed in a stable relationship. Dont u feel tired if he kp saying 'I LOVE U'. Den i dun tink such word is meaningful. What matter most is how u think he treated u & hw both u share ur every daes. Cheers!
2007-03-14 20:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about those three words or how much or how often you say them. Its that when you say them you mean it, and when it is meant you will know because it will show in his actions and he won't need to say it so much. Sounds as if he is used to you and the routine you two are in, he may be guilty of taking it for granted but I don't think it means he cares any less. If something is wrong you know it, follow your heart.
-NmD!
2007-03-14 20:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well everyone is different and just from what you've written I would not say your bf has lost interest..you are just in a different stage of your relationship now...its always different at the beginning...maybe you should just talk to him and tell him how you are feeling at the moment...sure you can work things out...
2007-03-14 20:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tanja S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show interest all the time. be busy have your own life.
whne he comes ot use then reciprocate.
if he never says he loves you first thtas a problem.
2007-03-14 21:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋