i really hate this. i don't have a girlfriend. never have. don't really care anymore. but all of my friends that are girls who used to talk to me all the time. never talk to me anymore. they only talk to me when they need something or when they have to. whenever i try to talk to them they always find a way to end the conversation early. its so lame. its only in the past few months that they have been doing it. and before that they would always talk to me about everything and i went on dates with a few of them but that never changed anything.
i dont know. maybe thats my role in life. to be a resource for information and help. lame....no one seems to care.
what do you guys and girls think?
2007-03-14 20:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont act like life is horrible im just curious. i dont complain about not having a gf or things like that. its just one day i was really great friends with all the girls in my life and then one day no one wanted to talk to me. i dont get it.
2007-03-14 21:00:13 · update #1
They were never really your friends. Men and Women can't be friends. They always used use when they needed something, the only difference is that before you didn't realise it was happening.
2007-03-14 20:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The reason why they are treating you like that could be for a number of reasons. The most likely reason is because you LET THEM! If you don't want to be their doormat, then don't. The next time they try to ask you for something, say no. You have no reason to suck up to them if they treat you like that. Sure, girls do like a nice guy, but there is such a thing as being too nice.
Another thing could be the way you project yourself to them. Are you saying the same thing to them that you are here? Do you complain to them about how you can't get a girlfriend, or how nobody likes you? Girls want a man who is confident and can make the best of his situations. Would you want to be with someone, or even just be friends with someone who was always saying that their life is so horrible? Probably not.
Your role in life is whatever you make it. If you keep thinking that you are just a servant to others, then that is what you will end up being. But if you want to be the one who always has people flocking to you, then make it happen. Change you life around. Be more confident, but not cocky. Go up to random people and just start talking to them. Everyone wants more friends. You may get some cold shoulders, but who cares? Move on and try again. There are billions of people out there, and there's someone for you. You just have to keep trying and stay positive.
2007-03-14 20:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by bemaniac64 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well my opinion is that people who are like parasites and who only seem to use you for stuff... are not worth it... remember "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent" so don't let them treat you that way... if you want ... confront them about their behaviour, don't let them get away with treating you like this. Either way if they don't like what you have to say they will diss you, and if you don't do it... they're dissing you anyway... so its a chance you take... maybe they don't realise how you feel and would be willing to make a change... give them the opportunity... it will soon show if they care, and if not then ditch them and find other people who are willing to be friends and treat you like a friend and not a butler service! Good luck!
2007-03-14 21:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by tarzanatvw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude... your friendships going to the toilets... flush it down! flush it till you cant flush no more! ha-ha-ha! Just kidding! What ever it is just go with the flow. The flow of toilet water. Just kidding again! Toilets! toilets!
2007-03-14 20:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like your not interesting to have a conversation with..thats the main source usually.
2007-03-14 20:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Iceman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well tell them fcuk u stupid ho ho mfb!!!!! yeah.. u will feel much better... lol jk well yeah nothing much to do.. just get over it find a new friend.. u seem like a good guy so yeah.. good luck. = )
2007-03-14 20:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋