Singles & Dating - 4 March 2007

None of the guys I'm interested in respond to my emails on the personals. I can see they've looked at my profile but choose not to respond. My pictures get 8.5 on Hot or Not, and here's the rest:

I'm a very creative, open-minded person. Happy to finally be on the West Coast after traveling and studying in a variety of places. I am a copywriter currently working as a producer. It's fun, challenging and keeps me quite busy all day.

I'm looking for someone educated and open minded. I tend to be attracted to taller guys with dark hair, but of course that's not a hard-and-fast rule.

29, Caucasian, 5'6", slender, brown eyes, light brown hair, doesn't smoke, drinks socially, post-grad education, employed full time, single, live with pets and roommate, have no kids, yes I want kids, Christian, speak English and Spanish, liberal political views.

(I live in CA and email tall guys with dark hair, so I don't think my physical preferences or politics are the problem.)

2007-03-04 14:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay....Do guys like to get notes from girls? If they say stuff about them! like how good they look or anything like that?!?!? B/c I like this guy at school and i have wrote him a note or two but he never replys but when he walks down the hallway he looks at me as if he wants to talk to me, but he cant! What do i do?!? HELP

2007-03-04 14:15:37 · 9 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2

Say "When I first saw you I was afarid to talk to you. When i first talked to you I was afraid to like you. When i first liked you i was afarid to love you. Now that I love you I'm afraid to lose you."

Then hand her a dozen roses, 11 real ones + 1 fake one. Then say "I will love you untill the last rose dies."

Or would a guy never do that in a million years.

2007-03-04 14:13:58 · 28 answers · asked by GurlOnTheRoad 2

I just can't shake her. I'm even dating someone else.

2007-03-04 14:12:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe so. Ugly girls have it the worst. Why? they are women, and in this soceity. Girls most of the time are the ones who are persued. But no one will likely persue ugly girls. Not even ugly guys persue them. That is sad. Even ugly guys don't go after ugly girls, they still go and perfer decent looking. So now they have to go out and persue guys. They will have to really rely a lot on their personality and everything else they have to offer.

Ugly guys have a better chance. I hate using the word ugly, but there are ugly physically speaking people. They may have a good heart, but in his society. I emphasize in this soceity. I believe it have it the worst, they have the most hard time.

Job wise, everything wise.

Beautiful people through their own beauty will build their careers, and confidence. Ugly girls just keep getting pushed and pushed down. It is sad.

2007-03-04 14:12:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask because this one sucks!!!!!!!!

2007-03-04 14:11:43 · 11 answers · asked by rod 5

Hello all, remember me? I asked a question about confessing to an old friend awhile go because I thought he hinted that he likes me. Well, I did it and the outcome does not look good at all. Now thatI think about it, I thought, did I sense the wrong signal? Why don't you tell me (mostly it happened while we were alone), he said:
- He repeatly told me he likes tomboyish girl (like me)
- He always sit next to me when we are out, a lot of people mistaken that we are a couple
- He is a bit younger than me and before, I said I wouldn't go out with a younger guy and he asked me multiple times that will I ever change my mind.
- One time he mubbled and said why don't you say you like me? (I think that's what he said but I didn't ask him to repeat)
There are more little hints but now, I don't remember anymore because I don't really want to think about it. Anyway, I sent him and email telling him how I felt and he did not reply nor giving me an answer...

2007-03-04 14:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by Wynn 1

Have you ever felt God calling you to be with (marry or date) a certain person? If so...did you get the chance to and did it last?

I have a similar situation. Ive felt called to a certain girl for three years now. I told her my feelings once and she backed off. She still sometimes gets a bit freaked when a topic of me and her together or something comes up, yet at the same time shes one of my best friends and is comfortable with me and everything.

Im just wondering If I should keep trying if I feel called to be with her. Ive just told her my feelings, never asked her out or anything. Maybe I should give that a shot?

Any advice or responces will help (or some wont and Ill just be mad, lol)

2007-03-04 14:10:47 · 5 answers · asked by KnownSolutions 1

ok this is how it is my b/f cheated on me he told me a couple of months ago.it took me some time to forgive him but after some time i did. i stop bringing it up after sometime. we are starting to work it out. to the the point i seem to think about it sometimes when he touch me, kiss or anything that has do with sex. from oral to regular sex. why is it still like that.

2007-03-04 14:09:49 · 10 answers · asked by baby 2

if some guy (your friend) give you like more than 40 cards for your birthday?
(like he said he is uncertain about his life (he's not going to die just kinda), and so )

2007-03-04 14:07:46 · 11 answers · asked by Hughes 1

When your man is really struggling to make ends meet what do you do to support and motivate him?

2007-03-04 14:07:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do?
what would you do?

2007-03-04 14:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by Paul 3

You like this girl/guy and your afraid to come out and directly admit it... but they know how you feel! They however play hard to get..giving you the idea that you two will never be...Could this rejection cause you to act unreasonably towards that person?Saying bad things to them, ignoring them, acting like they don't exist... Is it that the pain of not having them leaves you no other alternative to act so unreasonably? Can this be its justification or simply put you just hate them for how they treated you.

2007-03-04 14:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by hershey's kisses 2

I want to flirt with a boy that has a girlfriend but they are about to break up I dont need the extra added details just please tell me how I will give you best answer and 5 stars!I want to majorly flirt with him should I stare?

2007-03-04 14:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

I dont know I just feel romantic tonight since my bf is coming over tonight, and we are going out to dinner....*sigh*...... um... the firsy person I kissed was a boy when I was little, we didnt know what was happening so I was like, "I like you" to the boy and he was like "I do too" and then I kissed him on the cheek.... and then the first one I kissed on the lips was when I was like 14 or 15 and he was my first bf and I dont know we were at the movies and he dropped me off and in the car i kissed him and he came up to me and we just well... did it.... and well I feel like the day is the day me and my 1 mo. old bf are finally going to kiss............*sigh*... what about you? Sorry for a corny question....

2007-03-04 14:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been trying to avoid this guy for the last few weeks because he came over to my house with my cousin and told me that he wanted to be with me and honestly he is not my type and I have let him know that I am not interested but no matter what he won't leave me alone. He called my house the other night at 2 am to ask me to the movies and I said no and I went to a party later on in the week and he showed up and wasn't invited or anything but he always shows up wherever I go and it is really starting to scare me, and I don't get scared that easily.. what should I do?

2007-03-04 14:04:54 · 5 answers · asked by kalynn h 2

First of all I've had no problems finding guys til I have had my son, and i take my son with me almost every where .
Second I am not looking for a sugar daddy or anything like that. Truely

2007-03-04 14:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking to be romantic but not over the top, please help.

2007-03-04 14:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few years ago I had a best friend and her boyfriend would hit on me, so one day I told her, she didn't believe me and stopped being friends with me. I have another best friend now and her exboyfriend told me that he was attracted me when we was with my current best friend. My best friend and her ex boyfriend are just starting to become friends again. Do you think that it is necessary to tell her that he was attracted to me? Me and the exboyfriend agreed not to say anything to my best friend. I don't want her to be mad at me for not telling her. Any suggestions???

2007-03-04 14:02:52 · 4 answers · asked by wild1 1

2007-03-04 14:02:28 · 9 answers · asked by nuttybuddy 1

Best answer
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Major Boy Issues!?

I have been flirting with a guy for 2.5 years and in the past 8 or 9 months we have been heavily flirting. We finally hooked up one night and I ended up getting pregnant. I told him about it and he poured his heart out, telling me that he had all these plans to buy a house, and slowly introduce himself to my kids and so on, but that he didn't plan on it happening so quick. He wanted to have his life together before he started something serious. Nonetheless, he said he was behind me 100%. I opted not to keep the baby. Then he slowly started backing off. I asked him about it and he told me that he really likes me and wants to be with me, but not yet. He still calls me all the time to hang out and even blew off his friends to hang out with me on his birthday next week. I just don't know what to think. I am way too sensitive to be used, but if thats not the case I dont want to walk away from it.

2007-03-04 14:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND GOT MOLESTED/RAPED WOULD YOU DUMP HER OR STAY

2007-03-04 14:01:31 · 2 answers · asked by ubermeisterscottie 4

I'm not sure if he likes me because I like him and we sit next to eachother in school. He is so nice and to me, attractive.And in the summer we hang out at the pool together and laugh together. But he sometimes pretends he barely knows me infront of Jalen. Jalen is the jock of our school as people would like to say. And on messenger he won't unblock me. I know its just a joke because in classes we laugh about it all the time. Please help me cause I need help to see if he likes/loves me.

2007-03-04 14:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by []Aspen[] 1

My ex and I broke up about three weeks ago and when I brought up the whole friends with benefits thing he said no and that he was not attracted to me anymore. All his friends tell me he still attracted to me. The stuff we did while we were together was amazing and I know he thought that to. I am really not trying to get him back but just want to be friends with benefits with no strings attached at all. What could I do to get him to agree to be friends with benefits?

2007-03-04 14:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by Cali4niadreaming 1

2007-03-04 14:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to get ringtones??? how do i pay 4 it????? or goes it just take minz off if i get a ringtone?????

2007-03-04 13:59:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The past two weekends I've helped to clean and paint my fiance's basement, giving up a lot of my freetime in the process. Today (Sunday), I finished the painting while she was at work. Before I left, I had a snack, browsed the newspaper, then rinsed off my dishes, and put them in the sink. After that, I went home. Later that evening after she got home, she called me up. At first she thanked me for the work I had done on her house, but then she started to tell me how much it bothered her that I had not just done the dishes (there were about 4 in the sink total) and that I hadn't thrown out the paper when I was done reading it. Despite the fact that she said it in a nice way, it sort of ticked me off. This discussion eventually grew into a full blown argument. I felt hurt that she would complain about such small issues after I had put in so much work on her place the past few weeks. She feels that I am not cleaning up after myself...

2007-03-04 13:59:13 · 17 answers · asked by George C 2

What do you people of think of thongs? I dont mean do you think you or your girlfriend or a strang woman looks good in it...I mean what do you think. Do you care when your girlfriend wears one and no one can see her pantie lines so it attracts more eyes. What do you women have to say about all this stuff.

2007-03-04 13:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Spook 1

ok so i am a pretty shy girl until you get to know me and then i can be my outgoing self.. but i am also especially really shy once i Really start to like a guy.. i can talk to Any other guy.. except the guy i like. because i really am lacking in conficence and don't want to screw things up. :( i know people say all the time that When you find that perfect guy just for you then you will be able to just open up to them, despite the fact that you are shy.. is this really true..? because i feel like it's all my fault and my shyness that ruins things with guys. do any guys like shy girls? i am 17, never had a bf, and i came so close to having one recently, and he was the first guy i was just starting to open up to, but i feel like it ended because i just didn't open Fast Enough.. he found some other girl.. even though he said he really liked me a lot and would wait for me to open up as long as it takes and everything.. so i guess i took that for granted and didn't try hard Enough...?

2007-03-04 13:58:25 · 2 answers · asked by coolio 4

Does a guy like you if....
you go to the movies and he doesnt let your friend sit by you so he can he has his drank on the oppisite side of you and he picks up his drank when he needs a drank, he decides he wants his drank on your side so he makes everybody move their drank when its on your side he leans down and dranks it when you are two inches away from his drank, he looks at me as he takes a drank and every minute he gets another drank, then he take off his sweatshirt an then he gets real close to me and streches after the movie he sits by you in the car then the next day you walk with him and he bumps into me several times does he like me??

2007-03-04 13:56:07 · 11 answers · asked by sarah w 1