Singles & Dating - 4 March 2007

so there is a dance coming up at my school and i haven't been to a dance this year (because they all came when i was "getting over" guys.. haha..so yeah..) but anyways all my friends are going, and my friends don't always necessarily just ask Guys They Like.. but just ask guys that are friends and that they'd Like to go on a date with.. because it's casual at a dance and stuff.. and so i really want to ask one of my guy friends.. but i don't know if it would be horrible to, since one of my friends has a Huge crush on him.. but she can't ask him though because her mom won't let her.. so can i not ask him as just a friend? because i don't want to lose a friendship over it, just want to go to the dance with him.. and don't say find another guy, because all the other guys are seriously taken.. girls are vicious when it comes to asking to dances. but if i ask her about it all she will say is you can ask him.. but i know she won't probably mean it.. is this wrong to do? it wont Mean anything

2007-03-04 15:04:25 · 11 answers · asked by coolio 4

That is one thing I noticed when I was in England, was how good their social life was at their neighborhood pubs, not like the dodgy atmosphere you get at many American bars. and the people seemed more real and less "competitive?" acting. You know, nobody trying to act like they were too cool for you or being reserved acting. In England you could have people invite you to be their friend and talk with people about anything. More relaxed, not such loud music like in American bars.
Why do you think America is unable to have the same so much? I think our life is to commercialized and less friendly than people over there.

2007-03-04 15:03:51 · 14 answers · asked by Peter N 1

I think High school & College are the best times for dating & relationships. Once you get a full-time job,especially far away from your old folks, it gets really boring to the teeth.

Anyone else feel the same way?

2007-03-04 15:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any signs?

2007-03-04 15:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by formy p 1

ok so i like this girl and i think she likes me but theres this other guy that likes her too and i know if she goes for looks shell pick him....but i have a much better personality but she said i was too nice so what should i do cause i dont know if shes just sayin that cause all her ex's have been jerks of wat?

2007-03-04 15:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm with this guy and I don't know when we will be having sex, should I wait before buying condoms and lube or should I just buy some now and put them in my droor for a few weeks?

2007-03-04 15:01:21 · 7 answers · asked by Sammy 5

I would REALLY appreciate it if someone could tell me how I can break up with this kid I've been seeing for a few months. We both live in different towns, and I'm always really busy and don't feel like I have the time to devote to someone else, and quite frankly... I don't like him as much as I used to. Lot's of people keep telling me to just let it run its course b/c I'm just not used to it, but even when he calls me...I don't always answer the phone...and I delete his messages. (This sounds horrible)*
What can I do/say? I don't want to hurt him, but I think that if I don't say something sooner or later...I will anyway....HELP/SOS

2007-03-04 15:00:38 · 11 answers · asked by Jesus is Real 3

I 24 years old aright guy..ez going. I had a realtionship long time ago, now I just want to get to know a girl to get some sex. But I don't have that type of game..i' more of a nice guy u can say. SO how do i go abouts?

2007-03-04 14:59:31 · 14 answers · asked by Nick 1

well he claims they don't do anything

2007-03-04 14:59:11 · 9 answers · asked by princesss 1

One of my sister's introduced me 2 her brother in law, because he is in the military and i was in College and did not really like visiting where she lives we had not met each other. When we met each other we hit it off. We started talking and could not stop. well everything was going great t went back 2 where he was and we met up. however we did not make a verbal agreement 2 be in a relationship. but we were sleeping with each other. then earlier this week i was on his myspace and i saw a message from (what he said) washis ex girl friend that said "the count down had started and when she saw him in 16 days she was going 2 turn him out." i sent him a email asking what that message meant he said that she may be coming 2 c him nothing was 4 sure. i said ok we r not married the message just got me thinking. NOW he is ignoring me hard. My question is how do i deal with the situation?he is like family i just cant stop talking 2 him he is my nieces uncle holidays r big in my family.

2007-03-04 14:57:37 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy 1

2007-03-04 14:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by welj 1

i met this girl and i like her very much. i need to know what should i say to her and how do i approach her? i need to know all of the stps to get a girl to fall for u?

2007-03-04 14:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had 22 girls turn me down for dates (as in, "Hey, would you like to go to a movie some time?" or" Hey, a bunch of us are going to the carnival tonight. Would you like to come?") in the last 3 years. And I've had 3 girls break up with me in the last three years, one of them doing it today. Is there something wrong with me? Will I ever find the right girl?

2007-03-04 14:55:27 · 3 answers · asked by K. Dash 1

i took a class with this guy about a year ago. Towards the end of the course I would sometimes catch him looking at me. he asked me if I needed help with my bag while going down the stairs. when school started again I would catch him looking at me or sitting behind me in class sometimes. at first he had a gf and one time he was standing in the hall waiting to get into the class and then I stopped because I was also waiting to get into the classroom and he looked at me and walked away. At first thought, "theres no way he likes me." Later I would always find him looking at me tho, like this one time he stared at me while I was coming out of a building, there was no one else around since it was later in the day. Did he walk away that day because he had a gf and didnt want to be interested in me; he doesnt have one now. Whats a sign I can give him that Im interested? Just smile and wave?

2007-03-04 14:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by sallyprince9 1

Does anyone experience a break up that your bf disappear totally out of your life? Why does he do that? How do u deal with it?

2007-03-04 14:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by ABCCCCCC 1

You know what I mean.

2007-03-04 14:54:47 · 3 answers · asked by rod 5

Does it matter how experienced your partner is?

2007-03-04 14:54:05 · 16 answers · asked by i heart youu. 2

see i live in TEXAS and i love it here but i have a white girlfriend and iam black with a kid together and everywhere we go its the same old non sense with people looking at us like we from mars.
i just wanna know would i get the same thing if we moved to wisconsin or would it be the same ol crap. if so i stay here in TEXAS for that. so anyone who is from up north or ever been up north let me know is it worth the move

2007-03-04 14:52:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am finally meeting my match this week and I am very excited, I wanted to know if anyone else has had success. I don't need you naysayers because all you are is negative people. I am looking for successes. My match and I have gone through the steps and talked on the phone and all that, we have a lot in common and I am trusting my instinct that he is a good person, trust me I checked him out and he is a good guy.

2007-03-04 14:52:16 · 3 answers · asked by WINGS 4

Specific things. Like a certain kind of makeup, clothes, walking, speaking, eye contact, etc. I'm just curious as to things that I can try to do either on an everyday basis or when I'm out doing something. Oh, I'm around 21 and I have a boyfriend and I want him to think I'm sexy as well as everyone else. Guys & girls suggestions would be appreaciated. Thanks.

2007-03-04 14:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 4

Okay I'm 13 years old and I've never kissed a guy before. My brother is a Sophmore and one of his friends asked me if he could kiss me and I chickened out. Also there is a guy that I like who is a Freshman and another guy in my grade who have both told me that they want to kiss me but I don't know how. If you have any tips on how to kiss or what way to kiss them that would be great. Thanks!

2007-03-04 14:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by *Dancer 4 ever* 2

ok so this guy and i were not officially together yet.. getting there i thought.. and then one night his best friend texts me and says he likes some other girl.. and has been liking her for Three weeks. my guy had then been leading Me on still for those three weeks.. because even just Two days before this my guy told me he Really liked me and all this stuff.. and throughout the whole 3 weeks he still kept texting Every day and calling almost every day too... so this especially hurt because i'd been blindsighted and didn't expect it at all since he led me on.. it came as a complete surprise. then his excuse was just that: he didn't like being with someone he thought was too good for him.. and who was so much smarter and better looking than him... and that he thought other guys were always looking at me and he didn't like being jealous. i know he has a low self-esteem and stuff but i Never gave him reason to think this.. are they just excuses? did i do something wrong?! :( i can't figure

2007-03-04 14:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by coolio 4

I'm having these serious problems with a co-worker of mine. This person is mentally unbalanced, or at least acts like it, but usually treated me decent. There have been times when --- has yelled at me unnecessarily, & made me cry... & just all around treated me badly. I let it go, though...
Something happened, which I won't go into detail about, but now -- is treating me badly consistently, going as far as to make phony complaints about me, & does nothing but yell at me & make me feel terrible. I've been crying at work because of --, & I'm on the verge of tears right now, because I'm just afraid of dealing with this person's nonsense. --- has done this to other co-workers, & managed to get most of them fired, so now I'm in fear for my job.

Aside from ---, I don't want to leave there, & don't think I should have to. How do I work around this person though, when I know they're going to be constantly riding me & making me feel like dirt?

2007-03-04 14:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 14:44:03 · 4 answers · asked by Emmie 3

while casually sleeping with someone, you start to develop nfeelings for them.
You realise you're not interested in looking at other guys anymore.
The guy you are sleeping with - he tells you that he hasn't been sleeping with anyone else since you two got together.
He picks you up and your baby - who you had to someone else and takes you both for drives and out for lunch, and even holds the baby while you are out together.
you stay at his house sometimes and when you do you lie together, laugh together, and he holds you and kisses you alot.
he rings to see how your day was.
BUT when you first got together he says he doesn't want a serious relationship right now.
Is it possible that he's feelings could of changed over time now that we have been spending so much time together?
Being with him feels right and if you saw us together you would think we were such a happy couple (even though we arent!)
but thats what i mean we look like we are.
is there a chance for this?

2007-03-04 14:43:35 · 43 answers · asked by bubz 1

pretty simple question lol i want to find the right guy and i want to know that he's the one, but its so hard to find! i thought i had him at once and that he was the one but i guess i was wrong!! so guys... what do you look for in a lady for long relationship?

2007-03-04 14:41:48 · 12 answers · asked by dutchess4u05 2

I am really dreading this for some reason! I am 20. What is my problem?

2007-03-04 14:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by Shakespeare, William 4

if so why? if not why? curiousity killed the cat....

2007-03-04 14:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by Crystal Rene 2

im a 7th grader and hes a 6th grader
hes so cute
nice
honest
and funny

he likes me alot and i can tell but ...do u think its wrong for me to be dating a younger kid?

2007-03-04 14:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by Sami F 3

okay whenever i have my boyfriend over my room mate feels the need to come into my room and flaunt herself and ask how do i look before she goes out and if me and him are out on the couch she walks out of the bathroom "slowly" in a towel. she must of came in my room four times the other night with do i look good in your clothes yea my clothes, then she leaves and goes out and drinks five out of seven days a week another issue. my point she doesnt ask my advice when he isnt there and it upsets me and he is put in an awkward situation, i wouldnt dream of going in her room if she had a guy over to ask her how wonderful i look did i mention she is gorgeous and she knows it. im sorry to vent i just dont know if i should let it go or approach her about it? thank you in advance.

2007-03-04 14:37:09 · 15 answers · asked by Now and Again 4