pretty simple question lol i want to find the right guy and i want to know that he's the one, but its so hard to find! i thought i had him at once and that he was the one but i guess i was wrong!! so guys... what do you look for in a lady for long relationship?
2007-03-04 14:41:48 · 12 answers · asked by dutchess4u05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all of your responses!! everyone around me and like all of my friends and cousins are getting in engaged and married... and at times i feel alone... i know thats silly... and i've been told several times like some of you have stated that it'll happen when i least expect it... i guess i just don't want to be alone nor do i want to make a mistake in the wrong guy!! i also just feel alone at times because everyone around me seems to be settling down when i'm still trying to find MR. RIGHT lol still thank you everyone... your answers are appreciated
2007-03-04 15:02:48 · update #1
I'm not a guy...but i'll try to answer this question for you.
Every guy looks for something different when looking for a long lasting relationship as do girls when looking.... You may go through alot of different guys you date..(not meaning you have to sleep with everyone) but eventually, that Special Someone will enter your life when you least expect it..when you are not even looking for "love"....and he will appear* You will then KNOW* in your heart and soul that he is the one. You will click together in just about everything..as if you have known each other for years* It will just FEEL RIGHT*...it's when you both have this overwhelming LOVE for one another..comfortable in everyway with each other...you are in sync as One*, don't want to be away from that person and your heart beats so fast when you see him You Light Up* are FILLED inside through and through........You will KNOW IT*~
Don't TRY so hard to FIND love* let Love Find You* :) Be Yourself, get to know people...go out places with friends, explore life* Live Life, Enjoy Life* GOODLUCK and keep on Smlin*
2007-03-04 14:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, you can't go looking for MR. Right. It doesn't work that way. It'll happen all in due time when.Could be a year from now, several years away, maybe not until your 60! You never know, and it'll probably be someone you would never picture yourself with. So, stop stressin' over it and enjoy your life there will be plenty more "possible" candidates to keep you entertained in the meantime.
2007-03-04 14:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet "the one" you will know it. Ive met my "one" and i lost her.What i look for in a relationship are 3 basic things:
-trust, thats not just in a sexual way but someone i can share stuff with withouth any fear she will use it against me anytime
-fun, knowing that you can really laugh and enjoy each other company withouth effort is very important because if you don´t have that what are you left with?
-common interests, i could never be with someone who doesn´t like travelling or going to the movies for example because sharing those things is what for me builds a relationship.
Hope i helped you with your question.Have a nice life.
2007-03-04 14:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul Mates is a stupid girly word that don't exist outside of teenybopper magazines and TV show.
The three real keys are:
Someone that is responsible with you the same -- you can't do boys that just silly
Someone that is NOT selfish with you the same -- two giving partners (one selfish never works)
Someone you are attracted to with you the same --
That's all it really takes -- the rest is history
2007-03-04 14:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever heard the saying don't chase them replace them. Go out and have fun and you will find the right guy for you. Now just may not be the time. When you do you will just know that he is the right one.
2007-03-04 14:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy, but a soul mate is someone who you connect to with out saying. Kindred spirits is what I like to call it, your souls are drawn to each other, so it seems, and they connect as if they had never been apart.
2007-03-04 15:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know if he's the 1 until youve been married for 20 years and things are still going great or good
2007-03-04 14:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on trying going with him n find out his reaction,if two of u got the same feeling n interest,then go 4 it.good luck.
2007-03-04 14:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your soul mate will be found in heaven only! Your partner will be found here on earth! Good luck!
2007-03-04 14:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute,sweet and faithful.
2007-03-04 14:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋