One of my sister's introduced me 2 her brother in law, because he is in the military and i was in College and did not really like visiting where she lives we had not met each other. When we met each other we hit it off. We started talking and could not stop. well everything was going great t went back 2 where he was and we met up. however we did not make a verbal agreement 2 be in a relationship. but we were sleeping with each other. then earlier this week i was on his myspace and i saw a message from (what he said) washis ex girl friend that said "the count down had started and when she saw him in 16 days she was going 2 turn him out." i sent him a email asking what that message meant he said that she may be coming 2 c him nothing was 4 sure. i said ok we r not married the message just got me thinking. NOW he is ignoring me hard. My question is how do i deal with the situation?he is like family i just cant stop talking 2 him he is my nieces uncle holidays r big in my family.
2007-03-04 14:57:37 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would come right out and ask where you stand .if he is giving you the cold shoulder then just go on with your life ,however look your best at all of those family functions and remember how he threw you over for someone else .looking good and doing good is the best revenge . : )
2007-03-04 15:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't react. You slept with him before talking to him about being in a relationship. As far as he's concerned, you just liked each other and had sex. You were both free to see who ever else. Just let him go and be nice when you see him again. It was probably just a fling that lasted a little while. Now get on with your life, date others, and have fun.
2007-03-04 15:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did you while he was in a relationship with some one else? Well Sounds like he is a "bad guy" Just forget all about it. Talk to your sister and have her husband deal with him and work out the family stuff.
2007-03-04 15:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull him to the side and let him know how you feel. If he doesn't hear you out just act like nothing never went on between you two. Find someone to replace BECAUSE AFTER ALL HE'S REPLACEABLE! Once he sees you with another man he will get jealous and probably come back around.
2007-03-04 15:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by cnicegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you were sleeping with each other doesn't mean you're in an exclusive relationship. It sounds like he was dating you, but wanted to get back with his ex. And since he knows her well, she will trump you.
Let things cool off. When you see him again, be polite. Things will work out.
2007-03-04 15:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not in a relationship then why worry? It's obvious you dig on him and might like a relationship. However, it is pretty cold that he is ignoring you like that and I think you should talk in person when you get a chance and ask him flat out.
2007-03-04 15:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. that replaced into somewhat extraordinary...then call the police with a depiction so as that the guy can get caught. people shouldn;t do drugs. this is in simple terms incorrect. 2.Holy Crap, what interior the international have been you doing in my automobile! Then ask his call and get in touch with police considering that guy is extremely creepy and he tried to steal my automobile!!
2016-10-17 07:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by juart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have no right to be mad because you weren't "dating," and unless he specifically said he was single or wanted to be exclusivly with you, you can't be mad...
I guess you should just forget it happened and when you're around him, just act casual. It's no big deal, really.
And lastly, please tell me what college you attend so I can make sure my children never go there. I can't believe they would admit someone with your atrocious spelling/grammar.
2007-03-04 15:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother in law or not ur being played i'd just stop having anything to do with him and let him go his own way
2007-03-04 15:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support him b/c he's in the military but.... RESPECT yourself and know that you are now free to see who you choose & do not keep trying to get a hold of him cuz that's just sad
2007-03-04 15:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋