okay whenever i have my boyfriend over my room mate feels the need to come into my room and flaunt herself and ask how do i look before she goes out and if me and him are out on the couch she walks out of the bathroom "slowly" in a towel. she must of came in my room four times the other night with do i look good in your clothes yea my clothes, then she leaves and goes out and drinks five out of seven days a week another issue. my point she doesnt ask my advice when he isnt there and it upsets me and he is put in an awkward situation, i wouldnt dream of going in her room if she had a guy over to ask her how wonderful i look did i mention she is gorgeous and she knows it. im sorry to vent i just dont know if i should let it go or approach her about it? thank you in advance.
2007-03-04 14:37:09 · 15 answers · asked by Now and Again 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely approach her about it. And if you can, put a lock on your door! She's being really rude and obviously digs your bf. n
2007-03-04 14:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, I think she was my roommate last year! Haha just kidding of course, but I had to deal with the same thing. She'd come in my room in a robe and towel, giggling and "just saying hi" which she never did when I was alone.
The guy I was with could tell she was insecure and just seeking approval, so he would always be really nice to her, which just encouraged her to keep coming around.
If you can't lock the door, mention to her that being around in a towel makes your bf feel uncomfortable, or tell her that it makes her look easy.
Or, agree with your boyfriend that you'll both ignore her. IF she comes by the living room, don't look away from the TV. Or if she comes in your room, kiss your boyfriend and tell her "sorry, we're busy."
2007-03-04 22:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can find another room mate? she has a problem, I think she is the kind that thinks she got it all, and she deserve to have any thing she wants because she knows she is gorgeous and she has over self confidence. There are so many women like this she would like to take her friends or room mate's boyfriend not because she likes him , no its like a challenge to her.
did you talk to your boyfriend about it? did he noticed that as well? you can try to arrange one time when she do this again one of you tell her ,please we are busy, or knock before you come in , show her that you are not comfortable with her acts,and that she is not welcomed anytime she wants to ask a silly questions, but you should do it in a way that sound mature not show your self jealous or something, and still you have to find another room mate. good luck
2007-03-04 22:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by sky7th_7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her about it. Don't approach her in a mean way like you are trying to start anything with her but just be like "Hey how come you always ask my advice when my boyfriends over?" and just play it off and talk to her.. Find out what's going on.
2007-03-04 22:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes lots of attention from men, and probably doesn't get along with women well.
When your boyfriend is over, close the door. If she actually comes in anyway, tell her you're busy. And mean it. :) Sock on the door and all.
2007-03-04 22:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang out somewhere else, or find a new roommate (personally i think you should leave that crazy girl and let her find her own boyfriend), or talk to her.
my suggestion is do #3 and then leave and never look back.
2007-03-04 22:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to wiggle her fanny at him so that one night, when you aren't home and he drops in, that he will have had enough preview of her goods to get into bed with her and make her quiver. You'll know it when you get home when you find her on her bed with her legs spread and a huge grin on her dial.
2007-03-04 22:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend. I would get a lock for my bedroom door and definately lock it. If it doesn't change I would have to talk to her about it because if your going to live together your going to have to communicate.
2007-03-04 22:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by joayle78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably confront the problem with her tell her what is bothering you but do not be rude or blame anything on her, be assertive not aggressive
2007-03-04 22:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her boyfriend to say something mean about her. She should NOT be wearing your clothes either.
2007-03-04 23:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋