I believe so. Ugly girls have it the worst. Why? they are women, and in this soceity. Girls most of the time are the ones who are persued. But no one will likely persue ugly girls. Not even ugly guys persue them. That is sad. Even ugly guys don't go after ugly girls, they still go and perfer decent looking. So now they have to go out and persue guys. They will have to really rely a lot on their personality and everything else they have to offer.
Ugly guys have a better chance. I hate using the word ugly, but there are ugly physically speaking people. They may have a good heart, but in his society. I emphasize in this soceity. I believe it have it the worst, they have the most hard time.
Job wise, everything wise.
Beautiful people through their own beauty will build their careers, and confidence. Ugly girls just keep getting pushed and pushed down. It is sad.
2007-03-04 14:12:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ugly people... period!
Gender does NOT make a difference .
2007-03-04 14:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by venom! 6 · 1⤊ 9⤋
Ugly or not the most important thing is are you happy inside? Most people think that being beautiful is what matters most but have we ever think it vice a versa? Being beautiful is good but its also a problem. You will get insecured all the time. I'm a simple looking girl whenever someone compare me with my brother they got a shock of their lives." How come a handsome guy like you have a tad plain sister like her". At first I feel insecured but then why am I like this? Its because I choose to feel it this way. Now I learn to smile a lot. Feel good about myself coz if I wait for people to make me feel good than it will take another millenium for them to come arround. I'm happier now and I dont care if other people dont feel the same coz deep inside I'm better than what they think. Being happy is not just waiting for something good to happen, you can also be happy if you choose to be.
2007-03-04 14:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by aqua_gurl83 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very sad. So much of it is hard-wired. We are biologically conditioned to want to be around good-looking people, whether it's for companionship or mating.
However, ugly girls have it better than ugly guys, in my opinion. They can grow their hair long, dye it, perm it, straighten it, wear makeup, fake nails, etc. There's so much more primping they can do than guys.
Both can get braces, lose weight if needed, etc. It's not like they don't have some control over their looks.
2007-03-04 14:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
As for dating, yes it is difficult to find anyone to date. As you get older the men will begin to realize that beauty fades but finding someone who you can really have a good conversation with is something that can last a lifetime. Attraction is short lived but immediate whereas love takes time and develops from people who have a good deal in common and treat each other well. It may take more time but your less likely to divorce if you marry someone you really connect with instead of someone beautiful.
As for work unfortunately studies have shown that beautiful people tend to get hired faster and make more money even if they are less capable as their counterparts.
2007-03-04 14:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by bvtc6677 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Women are maternal and have a softer side so are more likely to see past appearance. All the time you'll hear jealous men say "is SHE really going out with HIM?" i mean look at Pam Anderson and Kid Rock, perfect example. All people get old though, looks fade but inner beauty doesn't. It's sad but true, women who don't fit this silly ideal of beauty have to work harder to get anywhere. I'll bet they have the last laugh though.
2007-03-04 14:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Velvet_Goth 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Black pores and skin is grotesque white pores and skin is appealing and that i'm white i'm basically attracted to white women persons i can't stand the sight of different races i think this is organic if u say in any different case u r mendacity or have psychological ailment
2016-10-17 07:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by juart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. More attractive people do have it easier in life. However... I've seen plenty of ugly people, men and women, who've gotten pretty far in their lives, careers, relationships, etc... So, don't feel too bad about ugly girls.
2007-03-04 14:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by true blue 6 · 12⤊ 0⤋
well first of all someones looks are a matter of opinion. but i dont think it really matters what you look like as long as your a good friend and person. but if you are ugly and you a total @$$ then people could use that agaist you.
what about the ugly guys?
2007-03-04 14:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by azehriad 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
IM UGLY =(. . . i mean... what kind of girl would wanna date a toe.
but really, thank god we got plastic surgery(no one HAS to be ugly any more)
2007-03-04 16:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by CRAYZICUZ 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋
ugly guys with no money
2007-03-04 14:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 7⤊ 3⤋
Sad as it is you are right.
2007-03-04 14:16:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋