Hello all, remember me? I asked a question about confessing to an old friend awhile go because I thought he hinted that he likes me. Well, I did it and the outcome does not look good at all. Now thatI think about it, I thought, did I sense the wrong signal? Why don't you tell me (mostly it happened while we were alone), he said:
- He repeatly told me he likes tomboyish girl (like me)
- He always sit next to me when we are out, a lot of people mistaken that we are a couple
- He is a bit younger than me and before, I said I wouldn't go out with a younger guy and he asked me multiple times that will I ever change my mind.
- One time he mubbled and said why don't you say you like me? (I think that's what he said but I didn't ask him to repeat)
There are more little hints but now, I don't remember anymore because I don't really want to think about it. Anyway, I sent him and email telling him how I felt and he did not reply nor giving me an answer...
2007-03-04 14:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by Wynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I started to think about him or really start liking him maybe September of last year. I didn't confessed until the 1st of this year. It's has been 2 months and he never said a thing. I did sent him an email afterward that I made a mistake to email him and it looks like he doesn't feel the same way and hoping that nothing is changed. I probably shouldn't have sent that email. Now, I think he is going out with another girl and found he is doing things he wouldn't do even if I needed him to. Can a guy change so quickly without a sign? He never confess his feeling to me directly and now he is acting completely different, I am really confused. Because he is an old friend and our social circle is the same, I can't really face him anymore but I don't have any other friends. What should I do? I used to tell him everything but now I am speechless in front of him. I really don't know what to do... Please HELP!
2007-03-04 14:21:19 · update #1
He's not worth anymore of your time or tears. Stay busy and for heaven's sake, don't send another e-mail. That was a mistake.
People get used and it hurts, but you can move forward and be stronger and wiser.
2007-03-04 14:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours--he doesn't fit the criteria you have for date material...he has got to do some growing up--so tell him that you are busy, not dating him, stop the e- mails, and just get on with your life---he will survive it. This drama is only going to get more pitiful if you keep on communicating with him.STOP IT. now.
2007-03-04 22:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHESH honey give him a while to read it and then a lil while to think about it all. If you dont hear from him then oh well. you told him what you wanted 2 say and be happy that you had the guts to do just that.
2007-03-04 22:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by miarwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...wipe the slate clean...
2007-03-04 22:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah,blah,blah-mumble,mumble-yawn.
2007-03-04 22:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋